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writes:dear cupid and to all who can read this, i am a singe of two mother who is working abroad for long time, i have to work for my kids and my kids only stay in my relatives back home.im always sending money for them especially for my daughter who is in school.last school vacation i let her come here to me abroad to visit me, so we can have time together to each other. we are ok, we are fine during the time she was here,but after coming back,since then she did not communicate to me anymore it's already 1 month now,and my sisters who'se taking care of her is almost dont want to comunicate to me.when i send her msg.she answer it very short.but thats all. i dont know what mistake i did again. i am the mother i think, my daughter is supposed to be the one who shall comunicate to me in the first place.she knows im working abroad for her.i feel so alone here in abroad. friends are not around me if i dont have money. but i cant give everything i have, i also need to save money for my kids,i feel so hurt because im spending my whole time abroad for workig just for my kids and they dont even communicate to me but they accept what i send because they said this is my responsabilities. their father doesnt support them because they have their own family now.im just hurt because i feel so alone,sad here and my daughter did not even write to me even a single letter and even the one whos taking care of them seems like whats going on.because they dont have children and they want my children.pls.anybody give me some advice and power to stand to this situation. i am so helpless..
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 My empathy to you for the situation you are in.
Sometimes in life, there are no choices and we have to go through life the hard way.
Can you not find a job that is nearer to the children?
You may have to downsize ,but it is better because you will be with your children.
The children will need their mother in their growing up years.
If you ask the children which will they prefer?
They would rather have their mother than to have the materialistic things of this world.
I hope that you will make enough and to go back to your children and have a united family again.
When your children has grown up , they will leave the nest
and you will find that the bond between you and them will not be that strong.
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