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writes:Hi. I am in a sexual relationship with my 52 year old girlfriend who has CP. This affects the left side and she cannot move her left arm very easily. We have made love a couple of times. I have fingered and had oral sex. I have also had intercouse, but find it a little difficult. What I would like to ask is, is there any other positions accept for the "missionary" sexual position we can use during intercourse? How can I make it a bit easier if her legs dont part so easily for intercourse?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Here's a gallery of positions you might have a look at for more ideas. The positions are illustrated by the use of wooden artist's models, so it is probably considered somewhat 'safe for work'...
http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexualpositions/ig/Sex-Positions-Image-Gallery/
Have fun!
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female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 June 2008):
Hi, I've found you some links to look at and see if there is information on some positions for you and your partner that will make things comfortable for both of you. The first link also has a gallery of positions but I haven't looked through them yet to see if there's one or more that might help the specific issue you mentioned.
http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexdisabilityresources/Sex_and_Disability_Resources.htm
http://www.outsiders.org.uk/leaflets/physical-disability-and-sexual-intercourse
I'll have a look and see what I can come up with for you, but in the meantime, you can start with the helpful sites above. The first one does have a tendency for popups, so keep your pop-up blocker on!
All the best.
PS Did you write in a few months ago when you were a bit concerned about the age gap? If it is you, congratulations!!!! It's nice to hear that things have worked out so well between you two!
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reader, batfink +, writes (2 June 2008):
I have to say that you are very brave for coming onto this site and sharing this with us. There are many positions you can use, for example spooning. Apart from that there are a great mnumber of positions you can use, it's up to you and your partner to use your imagination. Lying on your side there are a number of positions you can use that don't involve her moving her legs. Spooning is a great example.
I wish you all the luck in the world. Sounds like she is very lucky to have such a considerate partner.
Please keep in touch
BF xx
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