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anonymous
writes: i went out with this guy and we finishedi still talk to him loads but i have recently got a new boyfriend and dont really like him and still in love with the other lad but i dont no what to do please help? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Dr. Reality Check +, writes (2 June 2008):
You must end it, as you're stringing him along. Tell him that after breaking up with someone you just aren't ready for a relationship with someone else yet. If you haven't been going out long, he should begrudingly let you go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Ahexy makes a good point and I agree with her.
Staying in the relationship is not only cruel to yourself but it's crule to your boyfriend. End this relationship... It's only going to end soon and the longer you pretend to like your boyfriend the more you'll hurt him in the end.
Maybe you should tell your ex how you feel.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (2 June 2008):
well in my opinion your being unfair to your bf by making him think you do care and love for him when you dont..so you should end this relationship as your only making it worse for him..do you thin their is at all a chance that you and your ex may get back together ? have you talked to him about how he feels now your seperate ? talk to your ex about how he is doing since you both seperated.. thats my opinion aphexy
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