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writes:What to write in a birthday card for someone who I like but rejected me a while ago. Has to be special note mentioning her being happy etc. Help needed... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthat was absolutely amazing! Seriously the way uve written it. Thank u sooo much
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reader, BigSis +, writes (2 June 2008):
 I know it's long but how about you write something like this, hon...
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I can't give solutions to all of life's problems, doubts,
or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will
search for answers.
I can't change your past if there were heartaches and pain,
nor the future with it's untold stories.
But I can be there now when you need me to care.
I can't keep your feet from stumbling.
I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.
Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine;
Yet I can share in your laughter.
Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
I can only support you, encourage you, and help you when you ask.
I can't prevent you from falling away from friendship, from your values, from me.
I can only be happy for you, talk to you and wait for you.
I can't give you boundaries which I have determined for you, but I can give you the room to change, room to grow,
room to be yourself.
I can't keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces
and put them back in place.
I can't tell you who you are.
I can only love you and be your friend and wish you long term happiness.
If someone sent me that, my heart would melt. Best of luck with what ever you decide to do.
BigSis xXx
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