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female
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30-35,
*herbet
writes:my boyfriend (met on the internet) cheated on me twice once was just a kiss but the second time was sex and he did it with his ex he says he loves me and i broke up with him but then we got back together but people (my family, frineds)keep telling me i shouldn't still be with him. i still love him but i can't get over what he did it's always in the back of mind. i can't live with knowing the fact he could do it again whitout me knowing.....what should i do??
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reader, colabird08  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 im in the same situation i been with my bf a yr and the x was always there callin textin and stuff he said nothin was goin on but i found out he denied me 4 8months telli her we was just friends i was so upset i didnt no what 2 do he told me he loved me and was so sry so i took him bck then i found out after we had a big row he slept with her an she clamed 2 b havin his baby which was a lie i broke up with him and he said he was so fucked up as he was takin steroids and hes mind wasnt clear so i stupidly took him bck as i love him so much but all i eva do is think about him cheatin again i dnt no wat to do either i would love some help 2 x
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reader, toggs +, writes (2 June 2008):
 dont do it to yourself. Men can say they love you but how can they if they cheat on you twice. A kiss can be forgiven even counted as a big mistake but then sleeping with another girl, thats just taking the piss. if you dont trust him leave him before you start to lose your mind because believe me worring about it all the time you will.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Live in the present, let go of the past and let the future takes care of itself.
No one can see into the future.
Whatever will be will be.
If you worry about the future,
you will never be happy and carefree.
You only live once.
Make good use of your time and energy in positive thoughts.
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 "once a cheater, always a cheater"
he cheated on you twice, you deserve a lot more than that
i would recommend you to leave him, try to move on.
You need someone who loves and respects you.
Dont waste your time with him. Good Luck
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