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Couldn't control our feelings, she's 12, could she become pregnant?

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Question - (2 June 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2008)
A male India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a 14 year old boy having sex with a 12 year old girl. We know that we did something wrong at this age but could not control our feelings. We are neighbours and it all started with a kiss. Then we started looking each others private parts. Later started with masterbating each other. Last week we were alone for a long time and put mine into hers and it went right inside. I wanted to take it out but she was holding me tight and I did for nearly for 3 or 4 minitues and ended in climax. She also could feel the end of it. She has breast grown but no P.hair or period. I have hair there and when ends it comes out. Will she become pregnant. Please I am waiting for an answer.

She is also worried.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008):

No she will not become pregnant. Reason her period has not yet started. But be careful it could start at any time and if you repeat this act without any protection you will be in real danger. Since already had sexual intercourse, you both will be tempted to do it again. This is a very powerful phenomina of nature. Therefore, try not to be alone together.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

I am glad that you recognise that you should not have been having sex at such a young age. I would strongly urge you to make sure that you do not put yourself in a situation where you could be tempted again. The only way to get a definite answer regarding pregnancy is to do a pregnancy test and there is even a small chance that these can give inaccurate results. If, however, you do continue to have sex at your age (which I would strongly advise you against), at the very least you should be using a condom to protect against unwanted pregnancies and stds.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

None of the answers above are correct. A female gets pregnant due to intercourse only after the arival of her first mensus. In this case the 12 year old girl though she has the breast little grown, she hasn't had her first priod or growth of pubic hair. This shows that she hasn't reached puberty. She could reach puberty within the next few months and be careful do not indulge in such activity without protection. This time you have escaped. (Also it is known that girls even before puberty orgasam. Even boys.)

Try to be a loving friend to her. She is too small to have sex. If you love her, please do not repeat this act.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntBoooooow Dom Dom Dom... Another bites the dust!

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A female reader, x-kitycatlok-x United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2008):

x-kitycatlok-x agony auntSorry, hun, but there is in fact a chance she is pregnant. It was a stupid thing to do without protection, as she really can get pregnant easily this way. I'm not going to yell at you about your ages, because this stuff happens. If you were both ready then I see no point in the age stuff, however next time please use protection.

Wishing you the best.

xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

This could end in pregnancy. If her first period was due... But I don't think it was as she had no hair their. What you did was very silly and you both should really wait until you are old enough to understand you bodies and when they're both fully developed and ready for such interaction.

I know that DivonaLestat has already yelled at you (which I think she is right to do). I will add to her peice by saying:

NEVER, EVER DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT WITHOUT PROTECTION...IF YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO FACE BUYING PROTECTION, THEN YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX.

Next time think about how hard your lives would be in nine months if you did end up getting her pregnant.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (2 June 2008):

Danielepew agony auntIn our countries, girl sometimes mature earlier and they can have children at a younger age. So, the answer is yes, she could get pregnant. Maybe the chances wouldn't be that big, but they exist anyways, and this would be a terrible problem for you and for her.

It would be best if you stopped having sex, but I know it would be unreal to expect that now. I know that there will be no stopping either of you. So, if you will have sex, please use a condom.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008):

STOP HAVING SEX RIGHT NOW. You are both too young for sex. You are older than this girl, and at the moment you are causing her shame and giving her dishonor. Is what your doing respectfull, could you tell her parents, could you tell your parents. Will you marry her when she's legal. How will she feel about what she's doing in 5/10years time. She's not even fully grown, she's still a child. STOP HAVING SEX WITH HER. It's not right.

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A female reader, toggs United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2008):

toggs agony auntthe only thing you can do is a pregnancy test that will give you a definate answer. your very young and shouldnt really be experimenting at such a young age however if your going to continue you should use protection ie, condom or she should go on the pill as it only takes once to get pregnant.

hope this helps

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