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I become dry during sex, why and how can avoid this? (apart from lubricants, that I am sensitive to...)

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Question - (2 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ubblezwoah writes:

Im 17 and sometimes become very dry in the vaginal area during sex, and my boyfriend stops beacuse he says it hurts,Im wondering if there is a way to fix this?? (p.s. i have tryed lubes and my vaginal area is too sensitive.)

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A female reader, onlyhuman United Kingdom +, writes (2 June 2008):

i have experienced the same problem and me and my bf solved it by of foreplay and also during to make sure i was always arroused. it worked. give it a try. gud luck xx

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (2 June 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf you can't use lubes, then you need to make sure you are staying stimulated to encourage your body's natural lubricants. Make sure you're well aroused through lots of foreplay, lots of manual and oral stimulation, stop if you need to and go back to foreplay. Sex should be a fun, shared journey, and good communication is essential!

You may be sensitive to parabens in the lubricants, which can cause an allergic reaction in some people. Read the labels of the lubricants to see if they do contain parabens. Maybe trying on without them will help. Here's a link (turn on your pop-up blocker, this site has a little issue with that!)

http://sexuality.about.com/od/sextoybuyingquicktips/a/paraben_free_lu.htm

Aren't you using condoms? I ask because even if you are mutually monogamous, he might have had previous sex partners, and this increases your risk of STDs... be safe, always, because this issue can cause long term health problems if not properly managed.

Good luck!

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