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writes: To start off this question here is alittle background info. im 19 yrs old and i just finished my first year of college in canada and i am now staying with my parents..i met this girl from my old high school and i started going out with her in the beginning of may. we hooked up 1 night and it was AMAZING..from then til now we have had afew fights but nothing major. I have very strong feelings for her and so does she towards me..I love her qualities and i feel amazing when i am with her, but because of how young she is (shes 15, in 10th grade), seldom can we do more than just hangout at the mall, she cant go out with me and stay out late or any of that stuff, yet other girls in her grade can.This leaves very little oppurtunity to get physical and intimate with her, because i cant even come over and neither can she to my house.there is also another girl i met thats cool to hangout with but is the exact opposite of the first girl i met..she can easily go out without the hassle of parents and i can hookup with her whenever.basically ive already hooked up with the second girl, and it makes me feel bad knowing that the first girl loves me to bits when ive already made out with the second girl..im not a womanizer or a player, i just feel very confused, never been in this situation and i dont know what to do.
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reader, toggs +, writes (2 June 2008):
hi i can understand your problem and it seems to me your only getting with the other girl because its easy to. she can be there when the other one cannot but as you basically said its really not fair on the other. you need to chose dont play them. if you want to be with girl number 1 you will have a bit of waiting to do but think it could be worth it i the long run. or girl number 2 she there now which is bascially what you want. i no its hard to chose but your only going to hurt someone or get hurt yourself.
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (2 June 2008):
I have a question for you....Why are you dating 15 year old girls? Don't you think it would be easier to date someone your age, in college?
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