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writes:hey guys so i been together with this guy for about 2 too 3 months now. Two weeks ago he hung out with his ex girlfreind for the first time , he was with his freinds also but still. i asked him if they hookedup he said no . I left the situation alone. I spoke to the girl today and she told me how they just kissed on the lips and how it was not a big deal they dont even talk. That really pissed me off when i find out because he lied he could of told me that. So right now i am acting so shady to him. i dont know what to do because i dont want to get the girl in trouble and tell him that she told me. what do you think i do in this situation?
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reader, Lily Moll +, writes (2 June 2008):
If I were you, I wouldn't worry about "getting her in trouble." She DID kiss your boyfriend, remember? And what's the worst that could happen to her? Your boyfriend has no right to be mad at her, or you. He was the one who did something wrong.Also, consider that she might be lying, and trying to cause problems between the two of you.You should tell your boyfriend that you know what he did, and that you just want him to be honest with you, and see what he says. If possible, try to get them both in the same place and tell him in front of her, that way you'll find out quick who's lying. That will also probably cause a scene, because they'll both be embarrassed, which will lead to them both being mad, most likely, but who cares, because they were both WRONG.Also, you have to decide for yourself, whichever way it goes, whether you want to be with someone who lies to you.
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