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*myw1316
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and have never really thought he would ever cheat on me, but the other night he forgot his cell phone when he went to work so I peeked. I found a text message to an old girlfriend that he had sent stating " I think we should celebrate memorial day if you know what I mean." Is he messing around with the old girlfriend?
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (5 June 2008):
 Only thing...time and keep yourself occupied with ANYTHING that you like to do!
That's really about it. Best of luck to you...and I mean it! :)
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reader, amyw1316 +, writes (4 June 2008):
amyw1316 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for responding. He works with this girl so they see each other everyday. He was her first so they've already got that special first thing connection. and as for memorial day weekend i was with him saturday night he left sunday morning and i didn't see him again until around 6pm on the night of memorial day. so i guess i've pretty much gotten my answer. it's really hard cause i thought this one was my dream come true. i appreciate the advise now whats the best way to forget? Thanks again !
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (3 June 2008):
The first thing I think is what made you "peek"...was there signs prior to make you want to look at his phone? I'm not saying what you did was wrong, but it does make me think "something". What did he do for Memorial Day weekend, did he spend them with you or where was he...if he didn't spend them with you, I would confront him about it, however, get ready for World War on this because he will get VERY upset you "peeked". No sense of lying either about why or how you found out, it's ALWAYS best to be truthful.
Also, I would look into your relationship now. Does he have a reason to cheat? Are things great between the both of you...conversation, sex, everything...if not, maybe he is seeing her because something is not right and we know that most men do not like to "talk"...however, if you love him with all your heart and he loves you, he will want to make sure things work out between you no matter what the situation is and talk to work them out.
Best of luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Oh dear! Dilma!
He could be!
That's must be scary for you?
Confront him is the only thing that I can suggest you do. It's the onlt way you'll know. But prepare yourself... He could be very angry that you went through his phone.
Good Luck. X
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 maybe he's been flirty with her.
why dont YOU celebrate memorial day with him?
if he tells you he has something else to do, then there you go! it means he will celebrate with HER. In that case, confront him.
If is not the case and he celebrates it with YOU,. then dont worry, trust him. You have been together for 5 years, i dont think he wants to be unfaithful :)
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