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writes:I need some help here, I feel like my girlfriend doesn't like to talk, everytime I try to talk with her about something I'm concerned about, she always says "Why do we always gotta talk?" Can someone please help me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Well, I would ask her, why don't you like to talk? I will say, that some people just aren't talkers but it seems that in a relationship, sharing your thoughts, feelings, concerns with your partner is part of having a companion. A relationship can not develop if people just sit there, look at each other and get it on once and a while. There has to be something in between, right?You don't have to spend hours on end talking but you should be able to talk to her when you have something to say. So once again, ask her why she doesn't want to talk?It almost sounds like she is closed off from you. Is she like this with everyone else? Her friends and family? Confront the issue out right and ask her!Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Try reading "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"!!!
It explains how bith men and women react differently... But I'd say in your case... You are from Venus and she is from Mars.
It's worth reading to help you understand where she is coming from. Mabe you could get her to read it too.
Good Luck. x
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