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*eonard
writes:please I really need an answer to this question. I am really in love with this girl that I used to go to school with before I graduated. The problem is that I am a pale loner and she is one of the most social girls I ever met. we would talk every once in a while but it was few. A couple months ago I sent her a message on her myspace, I did it a couple more times over the course of a few months. I know she knows me but...I just want to talk to her. I want to send her another message telling her how I really feel. no-not something dirty but from the heart. What should I do? should I keep trying or give up?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Definitely keep sending emails.
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reader, leonard +, writes (3 June 2008):
leonard is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI should also say that me and her worked together at one point so I am no complete stranger...but I am no jock or anything. I made her laugh sometimes and would even annoy her. the question I really wanted to ask was..should I keep sending her e-mails?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (3 June 2008):
First, I would recommend that you try and establish a regular communication channel. Continue with the emails... then maybe move to IM's and chats... then perhaps moving to actually speaking to her (phone or in person). I don't think dropping the bomb on her is going to get you anyplace. You need to establish a little credibility that you're a nice guy and use that to your advantage.
I don't think it's going to be easy, unless you guys run in similar circles or have an excuse to be in the same place at the same time (for instance church). Since school's done with, you're not around her everyday, which is a bummer. If the electronic path is your only choice, then maximize it to your benefit!
Good luck... just realize that you're going to have to establish that connection and it's going to take time and not be an overnight thing...
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