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writes:My girl was very bi curious when we met and got very hot about the idea of being with another woman. I was looking for a woman like this when met her and she understood this. I would like to know why she led me on, because now when I bring it up she gets upset and doesn't want to talk about it. We have been in the relationship for 2 years. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 June 2008):
 A couple of thoughts spring to mind. One is that she was truly interested at the time, but has since thought about it and has decided it was only a fantasy, not one she wants to pursue any longer. Second thought is that she was hot about it, but now is concerned that bringing in another woman into your sexual relationship might cause her jealousy and perhaps she's concerned about your fidelity following a threesome, if that is why you were interested in her in the first place. Third is that she was only saying it to get you to date her, and that she'd never had any intention of going through with it.
The only way you're going to know the truth is to talk with her about it. I don't know why she'd be getting upset now, you're going to have to find a calm, non-confrontational way of discussing this with her. If she won't, then I haven't a clue what you can do about it. If she is not the woman for you as a result of this, then you need to let her know how you're feeling, again, try to do this in a calm and caring manner.
Good luck.
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