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anonymous
writes:Im 14, and me and my bf are ready for sex for the first time, im kinda scared though, whats the easiest/ least painful position for first timers?
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reader, Soja Exiles  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 You can wait a few years, and avoid the emotional and physical pain that will be attached with it.something I learned is how much a person is affected by having sex at a young age.If he can't wait, then he is not the right guy, save yourself the pain.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (17 December 2009):
 LOL OK ill try and stop laughing if you have to ask this qestion maybe you shouldnt be having sex lol any way how about oral
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reader, PixiePie +, writes (17 December 2009):
 OMG!! way to be helpful aunts!!
she wasn't asking whether she should could or would do it, she had made up her mind on that. being judgemental is NOT HELPFUL. yes sex with someone under the age of 16 is illegal, however if they are both under 16 no one can be punished.
OP i find missionary the least painful, but keep your legs down so he doesn't go in too deep.
and unfortunately i am going to have to repeat what the previous aunts have said, use protection for everyones sake.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (16 December 2009):
 Least painful is anytime after your 16th birthday, using proper protection (condoms)!
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reader, avery +, writes (16 December 2009):
well take it from me i had sex for the first time and i was only 16 and after i did it i felt like something was gone from me so please wait a while and make sure he is he one
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Im going to actually tell you, since I think you want to do this anyway. Missionary position is the easiest for most, take it slow though. Read up on articles on "loosing virginity", there are several questions on that already here on this site so just run a search and you will find many helpful tips and ideas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): It's illegal to have sex at your age in the UK
Legal age is 16
If anyone found out then you and your boyfriend could get into serious trouble !
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (16 December 2009):
You will regret having sex so young. Think about it. If you go ahead and do it anyway, use condoms. And dont forget to come back here a few weeks from now to warn other young girls how much you regretted it. They all come back here these little girls crying and asking for advice on how to get their virginity back.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 December 2009):
 You're actually not ready. If you were, you wouldn't be so scared that you had to ask the question. I think the best idea is to wait a bit, maybe have a talk with your mother about virginity and sex and what the family values are surrounding those. She'll have some good advice for you, I know. Mine did.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 December 2009):
May I remind you that it is illegal to have sex in Britain under the age of 16. Your boyfriend could go to jail, and you could get pregnant at a time you don't need. Please think about that carefully.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 NO ONE is ready for sex at 14!!!!
Maybe you have the urge to have sex, but you´re not ready for the possible consequences.
What if you were to get pregnant?
Are you ready to support a kid?
You need to do the right thing and abstain until you are older, and financially stable.
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reader, starrbaby +, writes (16 December 2009):
 HAHAHA!!! Good one eyeswideopen...but really 14??? You are not ready for all the negatives that could come from having sex so early. I feel you should re-think this and wait, see if he sticks by you if you decide to wait. And if you just hell-bent on doing it, use condoms!!! The last thing that needs to happen is another child raising a baby or contracting and spreading std's. Not trying to be mean but you are waay too young to be worried about positions. Go outside and play soccer or something useful.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 December 2009):
 The least painful position is when you sit next to him with a nickel between your knees. It hardly hurts at all unless you press too hard.
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