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writes:Dear Cupid,I am very confused and I need your advices. I am with an online relationship for 3 yrs, and I met a senior married man of 65 and I am 34 separated woman. I know it is wrong to involve myself to a married man but I just couldnt resist him. I fell so madly in love with him as he is very good to me but he is very horny in net. I am the one's transparent in our relationship and he is not. I become tolerant because I love him but every time I could not give what he wants and needs, he will leave me and he will chat someone else. I opened up to him how I felt, he admitted he chatted other women and told me he doesn't feel same feelings as he is with me. He said he loves me very much and doesn't want to lose me and asked me to have trust in him. I can understand if I am second best from his wife but do I have to tolerate more about his other online affairs even if it hurts me? What should I do, every time I am with him I feel depleted as his best interest in me is about cybersex, and if I share to him how he makes me feel, he'd say he is sharing his love feelings for me and not just sex. How does a man show his love then? I feel so confused. I feel every time I am with him I feel misled and used and I don't want to think those negative feelings of mine. How does a man show his love then to a woman? How can I tell he really loves me and not misled and used?Please give me your advices on how you look at our relationship. am I playing like a martyr here tolerating everything?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Dear, Best you can do is stop thinking abt hm all the time.Talk to your othr friends.If u dont have other frnds,make some today only.slowly-2 u will feel that ur madness abt him has been lost... there are many interesting guys around.just give some attention to them also..
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (17 December 2009):
 Well I know little about cybersex, but my opinion is that is certainly not as serious as actually meeting and having a physical relationship. To me, cybersex is rather silly, but fairly innocuous as long as it doesn't lead to an actual physical affair.
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reader, empty-1 +, writes (17 December 2009):
This is exactly what you get for getting involved with a married man.
Frankly, it's also what you deserve.
So you got involved with a married man, and are now getting the heartache you deserve...
Where's the problem?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 December 2009):
 Aww poor poor you, try thinking of his wife instead of yourself.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 December 2009):
You will always be used by this man. A man shows his love by committing. If he loved you, he would be with you. He's using you, and you need to get away from him.
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