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writes:Hi, im a 17 year old guy still in school im a virgin and my dick was 6" last time i checked maybe 5 months ago but thats not my problem my problem is i only have one ball in my sack nd i can feel the other one to the left right above my dick nd this makes me afraid to have sex also i dnt think girls think im good looking but the girls i have been with all thought i was REALLY good looking can you guys help me with the both of these questoins thnx [personal email address removed per site guidelines] Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 My brother-in-law only has one ball and he and my sister have 6 kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmm thnx for all the replies maybe i shud take a day off school to go to a doctor by the way i forgot to not iv had this prob 2-3 years now i just wanted to see wat would happen if i waited would it come down itself but i guess not and by the way i tried to move myself but was extremely painful
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): That makes you a uniballer. Nothing wrong with it, besides making you only properly half a full man.
Although rare, this condition should not prevent you from leading a normal life like the rest of us real men.
Some notable and highly successful individuals also are uniballers like you:
Matt Fayers, World Tiddlywinks Champion
Stedman Graham, Oprah Winfrey's husband and indentured manservant
George W. Bush, Former President of the United States
(Tony Blair was missing both balls and therefore doesn't qualify.)
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reader, ????RB????  +, writes (15 December 2009):
see a doctor dont be shy about it lots of poeple have this problem
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Like Cerberus said, see if you can get it back into place by applying gentle pressure on it. Stop if you feel any sort of pain though. This sometimes happens to my bf during sex, and all he has to do it is push it a little. If it has always been this way though, or it hurts when you put any pressure on it, go and see your doctor.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (15 December 2009):
I suggest that you don't try yanking your ball down yourself; you might damage some delicate nerves and tubes. Go to your doctor. Usually this problem is picked up when you are still small but it might have been overlooked. Undescended testicles can cause health problems (google and read) so go and get checked. Your doc has balls too so don't be embarrassed; if there is a problem you will be referred to a urologist. As for sex, women don't even care. Only the penis matters so don't even think about it.
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reader, old-spinstah +, writes (15 December 2009):
I certainly recommend that you see a doctor (if you haven't already) if you have a testicle in the "wrong" place.
My very first boyfriend only had one testicle. After we had slept together for the 3rd time, he asked me if it bothered me. And I had to admit that I hadn't even noticed....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Don't worry about it, just pop the other one down, a lot of people don't know that our testicles can actually retreat back up into a natural cavity just above the base of the penis. I woke up one morning freaked out by the same thing but my left testicle had just hidden itself up there, it happens when we experience fear or extreme cold.
Just apply gentle pressure on the pubic bone just above where your other one is and slide your hand down slowly maintaining pressure, your testicle will just pop back down. If however you find this too painful to do then you'll have to go to a doctor.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Well being female myself, I can honestly tell you that I rarely look at a man's balls, if ever! I cant even tell you what my boyfriend's balls look like and I've been with him 4 months! Women really do not care about balls, I promise you that! This is going to sound a little selfish and a bit harsh but balls dont provide any pleasure to a girl (and before anyone comes along with their weird sexual pastimes I'm talking about the "standard" sort of things you do when having sex) so we really couldnt care less about them!
A man's penis is the most important part I guess when it comes to having sex (along with many other things but I'm talking anatomy wise) - so as long as that is working fine and you know how to use it then you have nothing to worry about! I can pretty much guarantee that whoever you sleep with wont even notice your balls - they are only something that tend to get played with a little when a couple become closer and feel more confident around each other - so even if you get a girlfriend and you are really intimate, by the time you are both ready to have sex she will have really strong feelings for you so she wont be put off by your balls.
And if this helps - often men's balls just look like one big ball to us anyway, often there is very little distinction between where the two lie!
But as caring guy said, you should get it checked out by your doctor just to make sure everything is ok down there and hopefully it will put your mind at ease.
I'm not sure how we can help you about being good looking or not to be honest. All I can say is that everyone has a different idea of what is attractive and what is not, everyone has a "type" that they are attracted to so I am sure there will be plenty of girls who think you are their "type". As long as you are healthy, in reasonably good shape, take pride in your appearance and are happy with your body then that is all that matters. Being confident and happy in your own skin is the most important thing, after all confidence is way more attractive to a girl than any physical attribute. If girls have told you that you are attractive, and you have had girlfriends in the past then this is a clear sign that you are attractive to girls so why not try believing them for once?
One final thing - make sure you wait until you have met someone special to have sex. Dont feel like you have to have sex just because other people are or for any other reason - sex, especially your first time should be with someone you love and feel comfortable around. It will make any insecurities with your body fade away and you wont feel afraid to have sex anymore. But if you rush into sex with someone you dont care about and they dont care about you, then it will make any worries you have about your body worse and you will regret it for a long time.
So all in all, go get checked out by a doctor to make sure everything is ok. Try to stop worrying about your body and your balls - you are attractive, girls like you and your balls are not a big deal. Finally - wait to have sex until you meet someone special. If you do all of this, then you should be fine.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (15 December 2009):
 Go and see a doctor and get yourself checked out.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 December 2009):
I think you might need to go to the doctor and get it checked. They might be able to help you. Other than that, all I can say is that if a woman measures you on the fact you have one testicle, then she's not worth the time. But you should see the doctor (unless you already have)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): Hello you might find one ball hasnt descended properly or it is a condition whereby the ball can retract from the scrotum into the groin now and then. Either way its best to go to the doc and get it checked out properly. And as the girls who you dated thought you were good looking i dont think you need to worry about your looks. Just make an appointment and get yourself checked. You can find alot of information about the problem you describe by googling undescended testicles. All the best
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