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writes:*OP's own title*I need the advice from Married women out there ONLY.. I am a happily married man. I am the typical jock type of guy that loves sports and coaching my kids. I love everything about women, the way they look, taste, feel, ect.. Recently my wife of 10 years suggested that she wanted to dress me in lingerie and have her way with me with a strap-on toy. I said "no" but wanted to say "yes". The thought of this has really sparked my interest and now I dont know how to bring it back up. I am afraid that I would feel really stupid if I let her do this to me. What if she really likes it? What if I like it? Are there any MARRIED women out there that really do this to their husbands?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): Absolutly. I am 27 and have been married for 8 years now. My husband is 5 years older than me and I coached him into some very kinky things. Havnt done the lingerie thing but the strap on , dildo, butt plugs and beads are a go every blue moon. At first he would refuse, then he began playing with me while I entertain myself with toys. At that point I brought up the topic again. He still said no, but less agressively.
Go to the toy store and buy a average size dildo and present it to her, play with her, experiment and look up things online together. Eventually the both of you can fulfill your " secret Thoughts".
And if you do like it don't tell her, you will regret it. Tell her that you will do anything for her to satisfy her curiosities. now every1 is happily satisfied.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 Why can only married women answer? I don't get it...
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 I am sure there are. A lot of sex authors, adventurers are happily married couples. Who cares if you are the first husband ever to be "done" by your wife? Maybe you can attract a following. You are in a marriage so you can do whatever do each other without feeling ashamed or worry she's going to tell her coworkers. It's called role playing. Your wife is not going to think you are a sissy man. And if you don't like it and discontinue it your wife is not going to leave and find a sub guy. When she mentions "have her way with her strap on toy", I hope she's not actually doing anal on you. I have always wanted to know what sex feels like on the other side. I don't have penis envy though and I honestly don't know what that's about. Your wife sounds very interesting. Something must have triggered her desire to dominate you. It's like an undiscovered part of her brain started firing neurons. Maybe it's a movie she watched, or a dream she had last week.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 April 2010):
 What if the answer was 'no', no married woman ever ever would do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts pretty obvious that some of our male counter parts out there cant read... The question was very specific. Are there any MARRIED women out there that really do this?
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (8 April 2010):
There are sub and dom inside of everyone of us. I am 70% submissive. I tried to be dom, it didn't feel too natural because I look younger than my age, but I would do it to make my man happy. Switch roles once in a while. One day you can be the master and she can be your slave. If you are too embarrassed to bring it up again, buy something small first like a whip, then go shop for the other stuff with her. You'll find that as you have the actual products you would be more encouraged to try those acts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): They were all out of military sashaying gear.
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reader, raiders +, writes (8 April 2010):
 If shed asked you than she was interested, and you yourself is into the idea than do it. What ever happens in close door is your business and no one else. Have fun!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): Military marching combat fatigues, of course. Its only 9pm
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): I think it was Mark Twain that said 'Twenty years from now you'll be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than the things you did'
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): Mention it to all your buddies next time you're down the local bar, say you're definitely tempted but just a bit nervous about going for it, and see what they suggest. Friends will always look out for you.
Seriously, I'd vote for it. But then, I would. This sounds like an excellent marriage.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 April 2010):
 "pegging" is going into the DC Manual.
To th OP: pull the blinds and have some fun.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 April 2010):
In North Carolina we communicate this openly with our kin, all our kin.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 April 2010):
What does it matter what other people do or think? They're not in your bedroom, this is between you and your wife. I'm confident that you can figure out a way to let her know you are interested, as she obviously feels comfortable talking with you about sex. Just talk to her. Talk it through and if you decide you will regret it, don't do it.
Take care.
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