My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?
Q. Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...
A. 1 June 2010: Thanks Carrot, you know how much I just love happy endings!... (read in full...)
I am scared that my partner might leave me when I get old.
Q. I am scared that my partner might leave me when I get old. I was 22 and my partner was 37 when we started dating. I am now 24. His previous girlfriend was only 20 when she got with him and he was 32. His first girlfriend however was one year ...
A. 1 June 2010: Maybe by the time you start getting all wrinkly, he'll be too old to really give a damn. Hey, maybe by then YOU won't give a damn either.... (read in full...)
My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?
Q. Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...
A. 1 June 2010: If your mother has to still spank a 14 year old to get them to behave properly then she lost the battle a long time ago. Grow up fast and move out as soon as you can and give the poor thing some relief.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for me to get a council flat?
Q. hi im 18. im 3 months, i still live at home in my 2 bedroom council house with my mum, dad and sister, me and my sister share a room... i have been bidding to get a flat but it has took ages, it looks like im not going to get anywhere with it, i ...
A. 1 June 2010: You'll have to excuse q, he's a Texan after all, and a council flat is kinda like the top of a bluff where you rest your horses.... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: "we was grinding on each other naked" sounds painful. I was grinding some coffee this past weekend at the supermarket, I also grated some cheese later on, but I had my clothes on both times.... (read in full...)
Should I give up on her?
Q. Should I give up on her? this older woman I been crushing on. shes a lesbian.when I'm around her and we talk shes stand very close to me.sometimes it seems like shes getting closer to me when we talk.shes always smiling when she sees me but when...
A. 1 June 2010: She'll let you know if she is interested. In the mean time just go about your business. You left the ball in her court.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cannot have children but I love her regardless, how can I help her through her pain?
Q. Hello, Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7months from today and a few months back she told me that she cant have children. At the time she was told by the doctor. She was young and she didnt really care. But a few weeks ago she fell pre...
A. 1 June 2010: She can conceive she just may not be able to carry it full term. She has other options: adoption, a surrogate mother. Give her time to grieve over her miscarriage then discuss what you see in your future together. Just remember to use birth control ... (read in full...)
Is the man I am sleeping with really into me or not?
Q. I'm trying to get some insight into whether the man I'm sleeping with is really into me or not. Here's a little background. 1. He is my boss. He is the mgr of an upscale gentlemen's club and I am a dancer. 2. We've been living in the same house f...
A. 1 June 2010: The first thought that comes to mind is: Boy howdy does he have it made in the shade!... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend that I have met someone else without hurting him?
Q. I am a female of 24 years I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years six months now, the problem is that I have lost interest in him and have met someone I think I love, and he on the other hand wants to get married, how do I tell him all this ...
A. 1 June 2010: There is no way you can avoid causing him pain. You should just be as clear and honest as you can be. Like removing a bandaid. He'll recover. Keep as your mind set that he will actually be better off without you and he'll be able to now find someone ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that sex is going to really hurt with my boyfriend, what should I do?
Q. when i'm masturbating i can't get 2 fingers in, me and my boyfriend want to have sex, but im really paranoid its going to really hurt if i can't even get 2 fingers in, what should i do?...
A. 1 June 2010: Wait until your body has matured enough for sex.... (read in full...)
How do I handle this situation?
Q. Please help, I am open to any suggestions, I will try and keep it brief. My husband met up with his two half sister's from his dad's side of the family at his dad's funeral recently, he never really knew them at all in fact sheila he never lived ...
A. 1 June 2010: Your husband has a full blown crush on this half-sister. As long as she keeps responding to his texts and calls this crush will not be able to take it's normal course which is to fade into the twilight. I'm sorry you have to go to this little ... (read in full...)
My manager brings her baby to the office every week but doesn't allow anyone else to bring in their kids!
Q. Hi guys, My manager at work had a baby 4 months ago and since it's been born she has bought him (the baby) in to the office practically every week! 1 week she came in 3 times. She came in to show off the baby- not for anything work related. ...
A. 26 May 2010: Rank has it's privileges.... (read in full...)
15 years and the guy still won't commit to me!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. but we have known and been together since i was 18 years old and that was over 15 years ago. he tells me he loves me, and he can't get enough of me, but he won't commit. he calls me for booty and that's ...
A. 26 May 2010: Have you been without your sense of smell for a long time? I would have smelled that coffee about 14 years ago.... (read in full...)
How good are older men 45 and up in bed?
Q. I have read in many articles that men's performance during sex becomes worse as they get older, due to menopause and other factors. Does age really matter in how well a man performs? For ex, is a 30 year old better in bed than a 48 year old?...
A. 26 May 2010: Women get menopause not men.... (read in full...)
Should I be content to be the mistress?
Q. I am having an affair with a married man for 5 months now. He is older than me and has 3 children. I work with him for about an hour twice a day. We knew each other for over a year before anything happened. It started out as a bit of fun but ...
A. 25 May 2010: Don't you want kids? Don't you want to be able to spend Christmas Eve with the love of your life and then wake up with him Christmas Day? Don't you want to have him by your side whenever a crisis happens? Don't you want to be by his side if he gets ... (read in full...)
I slept with my teacher on impulse, what should I do now?
Q. Thanks for answering this, if it even gets posted! A few days ago whilst staying after school to talk to a teacher we got into a very deep conversation, he was telling me about his wife, we've always been closer than teacher and pupil as he helpe...
A. 25 May 2010: Bingo... (read in full...)
I slept with my teacher on impulse, what should I do now?
Q. Thanks for answering this, if it even gets posted! A few days ago whilst staying after school to talk to a teacher we got into a very deep conversation, he was telling me about his wife, we've always been closer than teacher and pupil as he helpe...
A. 25 May 2010: It's a SGC.... (read in full...)
I slept with my teacher on impulse, what should I do now?
Q. Thanks for answering this, if it even gets posted! A few days ago whilst staying after school to talk to a teacher we got into a very deep conversation, he was telling me about his wife, we've always been closer than teacher and pupil as he helpe...
A. 25 May 2010: I'm betting dimes to doughnuts that this never even happened.... (read in full...)
Please advise! Just found out I'm pregnant, my fiance wants to adopt it out...
Q. I am 18 and just found out I am pregnant... I think I am about 3 or 4 weeks. I was never told that antibiotics would cause my birth control to not work properly, and the condom broke. My fiance and I are both very scared right now. I refuse...
A. 25 May 2010: If you are totally sure you don't want to abort it, then you have lots of time, well months anyway, to decide whether you want to put it up for adoption or raise it yourself. Check into the different types of adoption, sometimes you can stay in ... (read in full...)
Why would he be avoiding me?
Q. well i started talking to this guy 6 months back but in da middle for around 3 months we weren't talking at all due to his exams and he had assured me dat he will talk to me after his exams..yesterday his exams got over..i gave him a call but he ...
A. 25 May 2010: What do you do? You stop bugging him. Leave him alone. He doesn't sound interested and you appear desperate. Time to move on, chin up.... (read in full...)
Everyone hates me, Please help me.
Q. Everyone hates me. I hate my school because everyone really hates me. I only have 2 friends that i can be with. But I'm bullied, teased at and I'm always being hurt emotionally and physically. No one really cares about me and I my parents said...
A. 25 May 2010: Exactly how old are you? The answers will vary based on that.... (read in full...)
She said "He dreams about me" and its true but I can't tell her that!
Q. Hi I'm a guy, 19 years, in the last six months have been in a class for adult education to improve my maths. In my class is a girl (21 years) who I think is really cute, nice and intelligent. Today when we were at the school to fetch some pap...
A. 25 May 2010: Take a deep breath and ask her out for some coffee after your next class. Nothing ventured nothing gained.... (read in full...)
Unknown Infection. Please help!
Q. For the past few days I have had itching around my vagina. I noticed that my discharge is alot more white than usually as well as having white clumps in it. These white clumps have been contineous. I noticed my boyfriend also has the same problem...
A. 25 May 2010: Ask the pharmacist, there are quite a few products to treat thrush/yeast infections. It's the bane of menstruating women.... (read in full...)
Why does he ask who I'm with/tell me who hes with? Why did he tell me he posted an ad? Why is he this way? Is he too comfy?
Q. a cpl of weeks ago i met this guy from online, he had responded to an ad i had.Seems we hit it off after meeting cos we hung out again and he made me dinner/watched a movie.He still sends txts seein what I'm upto etc.Recently I got a movie that he ...
A. 25 May 2010: It's too early in your relationship to be stressing over all this. Just relax and get to know him better. Great relationships take time to develop. Jealousy is the last thing you should be feeling at this point. Be yourself, if the relationship ... (read in full...)
How can I make my mother in law feel better? She's had a rough run of luck!
Q. Me and my mother in law are very close, and she has had a very troubled past with relationships, the father of her sons left her for his secretary and she was the one who built their company with him, but on the divorce since she was still in lvoe ...
A. 24 May 2010: She should speak with a lawyer, she may still be able to regain part of the company. Maybe not, but a good lawyer would be able to tell her. That may not do anything for her heartache but at least she'd have some bucks. If you are going to be ... (read in full...)
Can a girl be too sexual? Should I accommodate his fantasies?
Q. I like to hear guys thoughts and from girls who have had personal experience. My bf and I have been together for quite a long time now (9 months) and are experimenting with hand-jobs. I let him give me one for the first time a few days ago. We ...
A. 24 May 2010: Just curious, how old is your boyfriend?... (read in full...)
4 years younger... Is it OK to date?
Q. Dear Cupid... i really like this guy who is 4 years younger than me. Just now we are in high school. But we both like each other. People are saying its bad for us to start dating but, do you think its ok? or Shall we wait until we have both left?...
A. 24 May 2010: It's up to his parents. If it were my son it would be a big nope.... (read in full...)
Harmless flirting or something more?
Q. So, my final semester of college I developed feelings for one of my professors. I think he has some feelings for me, showing through eye contact, touching, random emails, and just a really strong connection. Problem, well the first was I was his ...
A. 24 May 2010: If you have graduated and he hasn't contacted you then it's quite obvious that he isn't interested. If he was, you certainly would have heard from him now. Move on chickie, your future awaits.... (read in full...)
How can I get him to return affection and improve our situation?
Q. I want to start out by saying that I have been with this man for over 6 years, since I have been 18. I feel he doesn't want me anymore, he shows no affection. Sex is just get in and get out, seriously lasts 15 minutes. Other than that only time he ...
A. 24 May 2010: Was he affectionate in the beginning of your relationship?... (read in full...)
What should my Parner's child call me?
Q. I need a name for my other half's two-year old child (boy) to call me. My own name isn't an option (the child's Mother would find it annoying to keep hearing my name). My other half and his ex had split up 6 months before I started seeing h...
A. 24 May 2010: How about Mummy (insert your name)? His biological Mom can retain the original plain Mummy and You can be Mummy Sue or whatever. Lots of step-parents do it this way.... (read in full...)
hate the fact that I hurt him.. did I cheat?
Q. hey all. im feeling alot of mixed emotions here so i might jump all over the place, but ill try and keep it simple and to the point. my boyfriend and i decided to go on a break due to the fact that he was always questioning me about everything...
A. 24 May 2010: You are in an abusive relationship whether you know it or not. His insecurities are in control of both your lives. Things will never be quite right between the two of you until he can get his problems straighten out. I guess it's really up to you ... (read in full...)
Finding latex gloves and using them
Q. Hi.. Is it worth getting latex gloves for when fingering my partner's genitals and where are the best place to get them?...
A. 13 May 2010: Yeah Howard Hughes had that fetish.... (read in full...)
Finding latex gloves and using them
Q. Hi.. Is it worth getting latex gloves for when fingering my partner's genitals and where are the best place to get them?...
A. 13 May 2010: Get Playtex, they are so flexible you can pick up a dime.... (read in full...)
We broke up because of this sticky situation but we still love each other, help!
Q. So I have a bit of a problem... 2 weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up :( we broke up because he is going to work away soon and I wouldn't see him for upto a month or two at a time or even be able to talk to him because he won't have any phone ...
A. 13 May 2010: And q is patient but not necessarily kind.... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for her but she says I get on her nerves
Q. Hey all. What does it mean wen the girl who said we should 6e friends says I get on her nerves. She doesn't knw why she says. I jux try 2 talk with her because she doesn't really talk 6acc. Jux reacts to what I say. I don't try to purposely piss her ...
A. 13 May 2010: Is "6acc" kind of like baby's got back?... (read in full...)
We used to have sex 6 times a day and now its 4 times a week. I need more!
Q. im so obbsessed with sex lately. im in a very good relationship over a year now, and my boyfriend cant keep up, all i have wanted to do lately is have sex and i dont understand why? at the beginging we used to have sex up to 6 times a day, now...
A. 13 May 2010: 6 times a day?? Don't either one of you have a job?... (read in full...)
I really care for my teacher and would like to give him a kiss on the cheek
Q. Okay so I really really....like my teacher. I suppose I am not allowed to say Love. I would feel so bad if I did...he has 2 kids and a wife..but he does not seem that happy. I mean he does but at the same time he is kinda worn out from all of it. I ...
A. 13 May 2010: Back again? Looking for the same answers are you? Oh hum.... (read in full...)
It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!
Q. This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We ...
A. 12 May 2010: My default setting is idealistic optimism, but that's just me.... (read in full...)
If I'm not sure she's gay, should I still ask her out?
Q. Okay, a girl I was certain I really loved had to move far away. This was back in August and I had been having trouble moving on, but now I feel I can try dating again. There's now this girl at school that I'd like to ask out, but I don't know how to ...
A. 12 May 2010: I'd find out first if she dates females before I stick my neck out. Does she have a close friend you could ask? Could save some embarrassment, you know?... (read in full...)
It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!
Q. This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We ...
A. 12 May 2010: Does she have any family/friends that could be spying on you?... (read in full...)
It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!
Q. This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We ...
A. 12 May 2010: But you've been out with a female and ex hasn't contacted right? Consistency is what I'm shooting at, without it it's just happenstance.... (read in full...)
It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!
Q. This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We ...
A. 12 May 2010: And here's another spooky thing, I just KNEW q was going to answer this post. I knew it.... (read in full...)
It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!
Q. This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We ...
A. 12 May 2010: Let it be known, marieclaire spells better than I do.... (read in full...)
It's spooky. Every time I'm with another woman, my ex texts me!
Q. This is very spooky. Every time im with another woman. My ex girlfriend texts me she still loves me. She lives 130 miles away. We haven't seen each other for 9 months. We went out for 2 years. Is it possible she senses that im with another woman. We ...
A. 12 May 2010: I think it's coinisidence if it's only happened a couple of times, but if it happens EVERY time, you are right, very spooky. Do some more field tests and let us know the results.... (read in full...)
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