His first love is his Playstation... then me!!!
Q. He doesn't seem to want to be with me any more. He would rather spend time snuggled up with his playstation controller than with me. He takes it so seriously as well, swearing and getting mad at the game - it almost makes me jealous as he never ...
A. 16 June 2010: Wait until he buys a boat...sheesh... (read in full...)
Could this be bad for our marriage?
Q. I am a 59 year old woman married for 28 years. When my husband developed health issues that affected his ability to get an erection I thought my sex life was over. He tried Viagra and and some other stuff and when nothing worked he started telling ...
A. 16 June 2010: Gee LG you're having a good day! I totally agree, this is no marriage in the true sense of the word. Where is the "forsaking all others" and the "in sickness and in health"? Just two people sharing a roof.... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married woman who has started IVF with her husband
Q. I have been having an on affair with a married woman for the last 5 years. Recently I was casually looking at my lovers emails and noticed she has started having IVF with her husband to have a baby. Naturally it came as a shock, not in so much on ...
A. 15 June 2010: Leave her to her pregnancy and to her husband. You don't need to do any emotional supporting let her husband support her. You don't belong in this picture, Buddy. It's time to go.... (read in full...)
Is 18 too young to buy the sex toy called a "bullet"?
Q. Is 18 too young to buy a bullet? As in the sex toy. I feel like dildos and vibrators are for much older women - but I've never had an orgasm :(...
A. 15 June 2010: Just don't insert it and then go shopping. It was on the news a few months ago that some lady did just that and her orgasm was so intense she fell and smacked her head a good one.... (read in full...)
If I was open about liking girls and boys with my classmates, will I be a target?
Q. If i tell everyone at school i like girls aswell as boys would i be brave or stupid? i cant decide all these questions are in my head and its confusing me i just want to be myself for once i have too pretend to be someone am not and i hate it i have ...
A. 15 June 2010: Your sexuality is a private matter no matter what stage in life your are. It's nobody's business but your own. If you don't control your privacy I guarantee nobody else will.... (read in full...)
I love him but my mom doesn't approve!
Q. ok. well me and this guy are talking and people are telling me that hes not a good guy but they just dont know the real him he will be 18 in a couple of months and my parents dont know how old he really is. he tells me he loves me and i love him. my ...
A. 15 June 2010: That "so much more" could put him in jail in a couple months. Listen to your Mom until you are old enough to make your own decisions, legal ones.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 15 June 2010: I just love it when the old chestnuts get dug up.... (read in full...)
Stay at home mom living with a cussing, indecisive drinker..
Q. me and dh decided that i would stay home with our son and take care of him and the house i keep the house clean have supper on the table when he walks threw the door and i do everything for my son when dh gets home he sits in front of the tv ...
A. 14 June 2010: Tell me what exactly do you love about this guy?... (read in full...)
We're engaged but she doesn't want to talk about our wedding, should I be worried?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for over 8 years now, since we were both 16. I have loved her since I met her. Over the years she has become my best friend, my partner, my lover... she is everything to me, everything I could ever dream of. So a few ...
A. 14 June 2010: Sounds like she does have a lot going on at the moment, why not wait for the dust to settle? What's the rush?... (read in full...)
My friend hurt me bad yesterday!
Q. My friend for two years hurt my feelings real badly yesterday. I went to my best friend’s graduation party and he was there because they’re cousins. At first I didn’t’ mind him not being around me and he talked to me a little. I watched him play ...
A. 14 June 2010: Sorry kiddo but you've wasted your time and your heart on something was just not meant to be. Stay busy and try to keep your mind off him. Once you start school in the fall, you'll find yourself thinking less and less about him. I promise.... (read in full...)
"All women do on computers is chat with other guys", and so I am not allowed to buy a laptop!
Q. Hi all, The other day, I mentioned to my partner that I want to buy a laptop, but he is not happy with this idea, as he says I will only use it to chat to other guys because that is all women do on computers! I have tried to convince him wit...
A. 14 June 2010: It's called a double standard, and you'd best get used to it if you want to stay in this relationship.... (read in full...)
Almost had sex with my brother in law and my sister caught us!!
Q. What do I do, me and brother in law almost had sex and my sister walked in and saw us, now my family hates hates us!...
A. 14 June 2010: Does "hates hates" cancel each other out?... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 14 June 2010: I always ask what side just so I can perfect my aim.... (read in full...)
HIs fantasy freaks me out!
Q. I'm 18 and I'm having sex with a 40 year old man. We met on the Internet and met up in a hotel for the night, we stay in hotels most weekends and have for a while. its really amazing and we are both sexually attracted to each other and have amazing ...
A. 14 June 2010: Yikes and yowser, at 18 just the thought of having sex with a 40 year old would have freaked me out let alone playing "Daddy" games. I hope you know what you are doing! I'd run for the hills.... (read in full...)
Husband wants to attend ex-father-in-law's funeral!
Q. My husband wants to attend the funeral of his ex-father in law. I feel very strongly that he should not. He wasn't particularly close to him but says he should do it out of respect. I would feel very uncomfortable going with him as I have met most...
A. 10 June 2010: And with that follow up, I'd say the problem is resolved. Our work here is finished..name the movie.... (read in full...)
I see this relationship going somewhere but my mum hates him!
Q. Hey I'm 14yrs old i like my boyfriend a lot and my mom doesn't like him because when he came over she saw some marks on his neck and said that they were hickey marks but i told her the truth and that i was on the phone with him while his cousin ...
A. 10 June 2010: Since I don't think 14 year olds should even HAVE boyfriends, I guess I have to disqualify myself from giving my opinion. So therefore I will not mention that your mother has my 100% support.... (read in full...)
Husband wants to attend ex-father-in-law's funeral!
Q. My husband wants to attend the funeral of his ex-father in law. I feel very strongly that he should not. He wasn't particularly close to him but says he should do it out of respect. I would feel very uncomfortable going with him as I have met most...
A. 10 June 2010: I'm afraid you are truly over-reacting to this. I totally agree with Tisha, he going to a funeral for crying out loud, not some wild party. I think he is showing real class by wanting to pay his respect to his ex-father-in-law, I suggest you show ... (read in full...)
Text dating drama, how do I proceed from here?
Q. I am in a bit of a diliemma here. I have met this guy about a month ago through a very good friend of mine, and the guy is also a very good friend of my brother. So we have mutual friends. We have all gone out dancing in groups for a couple weeks, ...
A. 9 June 2010: I see them walking together on campus, side by side mind you, texting each other back and forth. Especially the girls. Or both walking together and both with a cell phone glued to their ears...astounding.... (read in full...)
I dreamt he gave me a ring... what does this dream signify?
Q. I know a guy who I have a crush on. I can tell he has feelings for me. I dreamt that he gave me a ring. It did not feel like a wedding ring. Can someone tell me what this dream means as it is really frustrating me. thanks...
A. 9 June 2010: It signifies that you would like him to give you a ring, that's all.... (read in full...)
How do you have a successfull FWB?
Q. Question: How do you have a successfull FWB? How am I supposed to act in this type of relationship? I think I want to do this because I don't want to be in a serious relationship right now because of my kids. So, the question is, am I supposed to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Forget about this and focus on your kids. When the timing is better then start dating again. I just can tell you aren't FWB material, most people aren't.... (read in full...)
Is he getting sprung?
Q. Okay so my bf always wants me to give him head I give him head more then we have sex, he say's he loves they way I do it, Is he getting sprung????...
A. 9 June 2010: I get it, Spring has Sprung.... (read in full...)
Is he getting sprung?
Q. Okay so my bf always wants me to give him head I give him head more then we have sex, he say's he loves they way I do it, Is he getting sprung????...
A. 9 June 2010: I haven't a clue as to what you are asking...but for the aunts/uncles, I have the DC Manual open and pen poised.... (read in full...)
How can I stop masturbating?
Q. So, I really want to get married some day. I know deep down that if I'm going to have a successful relationship with my wife, I have to be the best I can be. That is, I know I have to end my addictions, such as porn and masturbation. Parasites like ...
A. 9 June 2010: Are you sure you are addicted? Does viewing porn and pulling the pud interrupt your day to day life and responsibilities? People are quick to decide someone is addicted to something, if you truly do suffer because of your addiction then you'll need ... (read in full...)
I'm worried the man I have met online might think I am a gold digger!
Q. Hi all, I hope you can help me out on this one. I got talking to this guy on a free online dating site. He is a decade older than me and just instant messaged me out of the blue. We talked for a few hours online and exchanged numbers etc. H...
A. 9 June 2010: "It's just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is a poor man." Find out for us if this old adage holds water, will ya?... (read in full...)
She doesn't want children but I want to have them one day, am I just wasting my time with her?
Q. so i'm with the girl of my dreams, and a brief conversation we had one day is kind of bugging me. Were both in our early 20's, so this isnt anything to necessarily worry about any time soon: she is crazy about one of her sisters children- pictures...
A. 9 June 2010: This is a deal breaker so you have no choice but to bring this discussion up once again. Have a nice clear conversation so that there are no lingering doubts about where each of you stand on the issue. Then decide which direction your relationship ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to have sex with another man to get pregnant!
Q. My wife is desperate to get pregnant. She is 39 and we have been trying for about 4 years. She doesn't want to do IVF we tried IUI and she hated it. A good friend has offered to have sex with her (unprotected) to see if that would work. (nb I am not ...
A. 9 June 2010: Two and 1/2 years later I wonder if he's still looking for advice......... (read in full...)
She gets mad because I don't agree with her
Q. I don't know what to do. My gf gets mad whenever I don't agree with her. She looks at it in a disloyal way although I'm just trying to say my opinion. I told her, if she wants to be with someone who always agrees on her opinion, she should just get ...
A. 8 June 2010: sentence...damn sticky keys..I blame all the funny aunts/uncles.... (read in full...)
She gets mad because I don't agree with her
Q. I don't know what to do. My gf gets mad whenever I don't agree with her. She looks at it in a disloyal way although I'm just trying to say my opinion. I told her, if she wants to be with someone who always agrees on her opinion, she should just get ...
A. 8 June 2010: She'll be cutting your meat for you before you know it. Let her go so she can find her Caspar Milquetoast. Either that or get used to saying "Yes dear" every other senteence.... (read in full...)
Are there any men in their early 20's who know for a fact they would not cheat on their partners?
Q. Are there any men in their early 20's here that know for a fact you would never cheat on your signifiacant other? How do you know you would never? Do you try to stay out of situations where you may be tempted? (Like going to bars stc without your ...
A. 7 June 2010: Be very careful Mr. Anonymous, we've had women come on this site that have accidentally slipped and fallen on an occasional stray penis.... (read in full...)
Is there any chance for me and my teacher to be together?
Q. I'm 15, and I think I have a crush on one of my teachers. (he's around late-30s/early-40s). I wouldn't be interested in having a sexual relationship, but how reasonable do you think it would be? I know it's not very normal, and I'm not crazy enough ...
A. 7 June 2010: Nope not a snowball's chance. Relax it will pass.... (read in full...)
My co worker has a feminine odor problem. What can I do?
Q. Has anyone worked with someone that has a distinctive body odor and doesn't seem to get the hint that some better hygiene is needed? I share an office with a very cute, perky girl who is 22 and single. All of the young guys in our office hang ...
A. 7 June 2010: Itching powder on her office chair?... (read in full...)
Pregnant girlfriend...adoption, abortion, or keeping it.. I need advice when none are options!
Q. hi, so i have been going out with my girlfriend for a year and two months. This past week she took a pregnancy test and it came out positive. We discussed our options with ourselves and somewhat agreed that we were going to keep it. The next day i ...
A. 7 June 2010: Well Jake it doesn't matter whether you AGREE to support the baby or not, you WILL be held responsible legally anyway. She may be able to do without your emotional support but I'll bet she'll come after you for child support. Of course the amount is ... (read in full...)
I found a tool to free myself...could it help you too?
Q. I have recently made a discovery. I’m not sure what you could call it really. A technique? A tool? Whatever it may be, I am in amazement. It is really helping me. I have no idea where it has come from, this idea. It just popped into my mind the ...
A. 7 June 2010: I used a rusty pair of scissors on my son in law...4 kids in 5 years...sheesh. Okay well I thought about it anyway, imaginary scissors can be very therapeutic!... (read in full...)
Can I increase my sex drive?
Q. Hello, I have a low sexual desire and know that it is causing problems with my relationship. I am mad at myself for not wanting sex, but I just have a really low desire to be intimate with my husband. It is causing stress in my life and I want ...
A. 7 June 2010: If your doctor is worth his/her salt, they will be totally professional and supportive. Take a deep breath and ask. You have nothing to lose and look what you will have to gain! Good luck, you'll do just fine.... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?
Q. I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me ...
A. 3 June 2010: This is just simply not going to end well. We get postings from guys with your same issue all the time. They make both themselves and their partners miserable. If this is already causing you grief then how will knowing the EXACT number give you any ... (read in full...)
Should I believe him that he will leave his wife for me?
Q. Hi i am divorced and currently dating my first boyfriend. We met a year ago.......he is still married and also says i must give him some time to sort out certain issues then he will file for divorce. He has sorted out some of the issues...now i need ...
A. 3 June 2010: You're divorced alright...divorced from reality. Don't be a sucker, you are only the poontang on the side. Give him zero time to "sort". ... (read in full...)
Can I increase my sex drive?
Q. Hello, I have a low sexual desire and know that it is causing problems with my relationship. I am mad at myself for not wanting sex, but I just have a really low desire to be intimate with my husband. It is causing stress in my life and I want ...
A. 2 June 2010: Absolutely talk to your doctor! There have been a couple of medicines mentioned on the news lately. Plus it's always best to first get a clean bill of health before you address any physical problems. Good luck, I'll bet you'll be back in the saddle ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 2 June 2010: If you think the OP's been beaten to death wait until her poor husband finds out who and what he married.... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 2 June 2010: I don't think you will be able to keep this a secret from your husband forever. Especially since you have piss poor judgement after you toss back a few. I think by fessing up you will be ultimately sparing him from the greater pain down the road ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: I only hope he finds a door, window, fire escape, chimney..... ... (read in full...)
My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?
Q. Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...
A. 1 June 2010: Thanks Carrot, you know how much I just love happy endings!... (read in full...)
My mom spanks me with a shoe, hairbrush and sometimes a belt. How can I talk to her about this?
Q. Hi its a bit embarassing but I'm still getting spanked by my mom usually with her shoe or hairbrush sometimes with a belt. It hurts a lot and I sometimes have trouble sitting after. She wasnt always like this but after my Dad left she has no patie...
A. 1 June 2010: If your mother has to still spank a 14 year old to get them to behave properly then she lost the battle a long time ago. Grow up fast and move out as soon as you can and give the poor thing some relief.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 6 April 2010: yeah the old guy's probably pushing up daisies by now... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 15 May 2008: I don't know correct me if I'm wrong but I have a feeling she has resolved this dilemma by now...it's almost 3 years old.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 29 May 2007: Sorry but he's getting the better end of this deal by far. He's had 50 years of having fun, going out with friends, getting an education, and just plain living. You on the other hand are just starting out, you will end up resenting him for your lost ... (read in full...)
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