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He told me that getting physical with me doesn't make him feel good!!!

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Question - (8 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2010)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I dunno I've been feeling guilty! I had this GUY in my life but he wasn't my boyfriend literally!

But we were a lil intimate! He's given me an orgasm and kissed me!

But today he happened to tell me this... That getting physical to me doesn't make him feel good. We are working for a youth wing called YES+. Its a wing under ART OF LIVING [its a world wide organization having A spiritual head.] The GUY i was talking about is 6 years older than I am.

I cried getting back home. He has plans of becoming a teacher and he says he feels guilty while telling other people the good things.

What do i do?? He ignored me for 2 days and finally confessed the reason to me. He said he was sorry and that he still cared for me.. and would continue caring. But not in a physical way. I agree. I feel guilty. But it was only once. We haven't had sex nor oral sex.

What do i do now?? I still consider him my best friend. How can i cope up with this???!!!! How do i behave with him now???

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 April 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntAsk him if he would enjoy you getting physical upside his head?!

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (8 April 2010):

raiders agony auntHe was honest and deserve credit for that. He wants to be a spiritual adviser or leader am I right. He has a vocation and he probably has his heart set in this. This might be very important to him, and he wants to lead by example. His path is one hard to follow but some people hear the calling ,but stumble here and there. Talk to him tell him you understand and will not stand in his way and would like to continue being friends. Try not to initiated or accept any intimacy with him because you or him might end up getting hurt.

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