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Do people often record themselves having sex?

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Question - (8 April 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, *rincess166 writes:

My boyfriend and i were talking about trying new things in the bedroom. He brought up how he wants to film me giving him a blowjob. He then said, but thats a bit personal, i dont expect you to do it but id love to watch it over and over.

Iam thinking id love to do this for him, but iam worried about the fact it might get into the wrong hands or something. i trust he wouldnt do anything like that but do people film their partners like this a lot? is it normal?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010):

The "amateur" websites have lots of home mde video of people having sex - there's no need to add your own. If you do it, wear a mask, magic-marker a disguise on your tatoo, and don't do it in a recognizable room. I have to ask, why does he want to see it "over and over?" It'd be better to give him frequent BJs than to risk your reputation or embarrassment.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010):

Please dont do this,as i was stupid enought to do it as i loved and trusted my guy until he ended it and then decided to teach me a lesson he posted them on the net.

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (8 April 2010):

raiders agony auntDON'T DO IT!!! It not a good idea things are nice right now but what if you guys were to break up or he got really really mad at you how can you be sure he will not post it on the net

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2010):

I don't think it's a good idea. One argument or slip up and it could be all over the net.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010):

I would suggest that you don't do this. What if you ever break up wit hhim and he shows it to people as revenge or something ?. That might not happen , but it's better to be cauteous ! . I remember reading a similar thing on here where a couple had broken up , and this girl's ex had threatened to show nude photos of her to other people !.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (8 April 2010):

C. Grant agony auntYes, people film themselves often. There are thousands of such clips on the internet -- some that they posted themselves, and some that they didn't. See Hilton, Paris.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010):

Don't let him film you giving him a blowjob.He wants to do this because of the power feeling of it and he probably will show it to his friends to brag about itt.I know it's said but that's how men are.Don't ever trust any man!!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (8 April 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI have stage fright. You want to borrow some?

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A female reader, Vicci United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2010):

Vicci agony auntLots of people do this, but make sure you trust your partner. There are a lot of brakup sites around where men post their girlfriends naked pics. Just be careful, whatever you decide to do x

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