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29 and never been kissed!

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Question - (10 April 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

can you help me please in the 3rd time i have treid to post question.i need some one help.

i never got my first kiss and would like some help please.

1)how do i get a guy to kiss me is any i can do it.

2)how is done?like what do you do?

3)how does kiss feel.

this is genuine question i really need help with

no this is not joke!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (21 April 2010):

Tisha-1 agony aunt1)how do i get a guy to kiss me is any i can do it.

To get a guy to kiss you, first you should get to know him. Establish a relationship. Do you have any friends? If you don't, perhaps it is time to figure out how to make some.

2)how is done?like what do you do?

There's a kiss in almost every film, so watch closely. Generally, each person tips his or her head slightly to one side (both to the right, for example). Get closer and finally press your lips together. Keep some muscle tension, you don't want to go totally limp-lipped because that will be like kissing a piece of liver.

If you've never kissed before, it's probably better just to start with the simple one, two lips pressed against two lips. You can practice on the back of your hand. Try not to smooch so loudly you make great big smacking noises. A gentle *kiss* sound is fine.

Then, after you've had a few simple kisses, then you can move into more intimate kissing with open mouths and some exploration with the tongue. That's generally a good idea to do with some finesse, don't just plunge the tongue into the other's mouth like a plug. Think more about teasing the other's teeth and tongue with the tip of yours. Gentle gentle to start.

Remember to breathe through your nose. You can practice on your hand to get the technique down.

3)how does kiss feel.

If you like the person, it can be exhilarating. Your heart beats faster and it feels very intimate. It feels like you are exploring another person's mouth with your own lips and tongue, so you'll encounter skin and the mucosal membranes of the inside of the mouth, and of course the teeth. You must have good oral hygiene, brush your teeth, floss your teeth. My dentist recommends scraping the tongue too. There are mouthwashes as well. You can't let your teeth go and then expect to have lovely breath. You have to work on that in advance.

Willow, is this you? Sweetheart, have you had a chance to practice conversations so you can make some friends? Do you have a girlfriend to hang out with?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (20 April 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntPlease tell me you clicked the wrong age bracket.

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A female reader, bad romaance  Ireland +, writes (20 April 2010):

bad romaance  agony auntto your first question ... if you and your boyfriend just kinda catch each others eyes and if you just get the feeling like its a kissing moment he is most definitive got the same idea .. when your going home a goodbye kiss give him a hug and just look at him and smile .. perfect timing for a kiss :)

number 2 ...if your using tongues just follow what hes doing or move it round your way hes sure to follow then oh and remember don't use too much tongue someone can choke ha

question number 3 ... if its with someone who u care about it will feel magical :D .. Good Luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010):

can i have some more answers please

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010):

1. Brush your teeth - There's nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath!

2. Break the 'touch barrier'! - Touch his elbow, hold hands, or put your hand on his knee.

3. After you start cuddling move your face towards his and glance at his lips and eyes often - This will hint that you want to kiss your partner.

4. Look him in the eyes

5. Smile with your eyes while calmly glancing from his eyes to his lips a couple times

6. Lean in closer - he should follow and move in too. But make sure you don't go too quick, this could make your partner feel uncomfortable.

7. Engage in light touching - shows intimacy

8. Tilt your head

9. Relax your lips

10. Moisten your lips

11. Close your eyes

12. Part your lips

13. THE KISS!

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A female reader, honey_1234 United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

honey_1234 agony auntA kiss is a very special thing between a man and a woman its very sensual it kind of feels like butterflies in your stomach I mean you've felt that before right if not then you've never really felt love and when you do and you will because there is someone out there for everyone you'll know it. And I cant relly tell you what your first kiss will feel like beacuse it is different for everyone.

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