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writes:Im going to clarify my question. me and the "Kid" went to court and yes he is my boyfriend still. and when they asked me if i had any contact with him since the previous court date, i told them no, then he told them that i was lying and that i wrote him notes recently and he showed them to the judge. i got so upset and i didnt know why he did that to me.he betrayed me. those letters were supposed to be between me and him. but i did talk to him recently through a mutual friend and he said that he waz sorry and he had to do it becuz they told him too. and i told him that they said that to me too but i didnt tell them he was writing me because i love him. he says hes still waiting for me and that he loves me and he didnt mean to hurt me. im just not sure if what he says he means. how do i know this is going to be worth it in the end when i turn 18 and can be with him after i get the restraining order lifted? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 April 2010):
 I believe bad things--legal bad things--happen to people who lie under oath in court to judges. It is called "perjury" and sometimes people go to prison just for that, even if they aren't guilty of anything else.
If you are a juvenile, the same bad things don't happen to you as they would to an adult.
Telling a lie in court is a very bad idea and shows extremely poor judgement on your part. It is time to grow up and realize that your actions and choices can have bad consequences for you and for other people.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2010):
 He isn't a teacher is he?
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reader, raiders +, writes (14 April 2010):
 He is being honest and if I'm understanding right he is older and is illegal for him to date you right? He probably got scare the DA did a hell of job. If you care for him than don't mess with him, don't get him in trouble. If he really cares he will wait for you to be legal, give it time, grow up and enjoy your adolescence.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 So your boyfriend is older than you and has been told not to come near you? You do realize that he can get punished if he is not being honest in court? As well as already having a restraining order on him? He is being mature and honest. Its whats best for his interests. Try to think about what is best for him too, and not just what you want. If you want to wait for him or not is your choice, are you sure he will wait for you too?
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