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writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months now, we've known each other for 2 years though and were bestfriends untill we decided to start dating, he constantly tells me he's in love with and never wants us be apart, I know we won't last forever. I went to a club with my friends recently without him, even though my friends would pull me away if any boy looked like he was gona dance with me, but part of me wanted to dance with these other boys /:All my friends with boyfriends danced with whoever but my friends know it would really upset my boyfriend if he ever found out.Is it wrong to want to dance with other boys/ to dance with other boys when I have a boyfriend?/: Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): Why didn't ur boyfriend go? I get somewhat upset if my fiancé dances with some randomguy. If it is a mutual friend, or even just a friend of hers that she is 100% sure has no bad intentions, it's fine.But not some random guy. Then again, our situations are different. At your age I would tell your boyfriend you like dancing and if he isn't there with you then, you will dance with friends.But at the first sign it is inappropriate you will stop. And as long as you don't dance with one guy the whole night then it's fine.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 April 2010):
There is nothing wrong with you dancing with other boys, even if you have a boyfriend.
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reader, Polaroid93 +, writes (14 April 2010):
Your friends are jelous. But don't worry your age on here is 13-15 so your still young!
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reader, rambini +, writes (14 April 2010):
 you should either make a commitment to your boyfriend and not flirt or dance with other guys, or if you know it wont last anyway, then you should avoid hurting him by ending it, and then enjoy being young and single with your friends, but you cant have the best of both worlds no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): go dance with as many lads as you like, your young.do whatever you want to do!don't let one boy hold you back. be happy because trust me, life goes too quick
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (14 April 2010):
 The fact you want to probably means hes not the right guy for you.Dancing with other blokes is fine as long as its "clean dancing" and when it just kinda happens. But not if your there perpusly wanting to get out and dance with them. Maybe you just not ready to be in a relationship yet, your only very young.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 This why I think it's a shame when young girls tie themselves down to one guy. You should be able to have fun with your friends and dance with whomever you please. Plenty of time to get a ball and chain later.
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