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Does he want to be my FWB again?

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Question - (10 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2012)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

A guy friend text me last night but I didn't reply because we're both in relationships now and even though we're just friends we used to be sort of FWB and the last time we met up he kissed me. He text me at 10:30pm asking if I wanted to go for a drink, then again at 11:pm. I feel bad for not replying because I do want to see him but I still have some kind of feelings for him and they get stronger when I see him. I was thinking of texting him later this afternoon and making an excuse as to why I didn't reply.

I was going to say "Hey, how are you? Sorry I didn't reply last night. I was at my boyfriend's. We can still meet up another time? x" but I thought it would be mean to mention the boyfriend so I just said "Hey, how are you? Sorry about last night I couldn't reply. Hope you're ok x" Do you think he'll realise I was with my boyfriend last night from that text? He hasn't replied yet :/. I don't know if he's ignoring me but it feels like he wants the old FWB thing again and I really can't go down that road again. He did ask if i was free in the day time the day before yesterday but i was busy.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 March 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntIf you don't want to go down that road again, then don't. What's the problem?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (12 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntA text at 10:30 at night is nothing more than a booty call.

YOU have a boyfriend now… why even entertain the idea of meeting this other guy?

WHY would it be MEAN to mention your boyfriend?

He’s not ignoring you he’s just not horny in the light of day… he’s NOT a friend.. he wants sex…

Just ignore him and let it fade away to nothingness

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