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writes:hello again! :)so me and my crush got together a week ago. we went out for a drink and then went to the movies. i think he did try to make a move but i was too scared and looked tense. i didn't even give him a kiss goodbye...just said: 'thanks! i had fun, maybe we'll meet up again. goodnight'' haha akward i know xDanyways he asked me out on a 2nd date, 3rd and even 4th :D on the 2nd date we really cliked, we ended up making out! from that day onwards, everytime we met, we kissed, held hands and he called me beautiful :) now the problem is this, we had to stop meeting cause i had to go abroad for the next 3 months, but on our 2nd date he said he'll wait for me, that once i get bk we'll get serious. we took photos of us kissing so that i can keep them as a memory of us, and he mentioned that the 21st of feb will remain our anniversary date... and just yest he kinda called me his girlfriend! (cause he's a teacher and he said that i should be careful of what to post on facebook, as he doesn't want any of his students to go up to him and tell him that they know his girlfriend)...so what's your opinion on this? are we official gf/bf? or is it official when i get bk home?
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reader, landomando  +, writes (1 March 2012):
No you are not yet. You are what they call a "thing" both are getting to know each other but not in a relationship yet.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (1 March 2012):
 It will be "official" when you have the real, notarized piece of paper that sez it is....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 March 2012):
 no need to label it at this point
go on your trip.... enjoy it and when you get back you will figure it out then.
and I don't think if something comes up while you are away you should say "I can't I have a boyfriend" unless you don't like the new person asking...
leave your options open
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 March 2012):
 Guess you'll have to wait and see. Sounds promising though. Relax and enjoy.
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reader, Uncle PJ  +, writes (1 March 2012):
 It was sounding really nice and rosy until you mentioned he's a teacher. I appreciate that you're of legal age and may not be taught by him any more but you must be extremely careful of this situation.
I wouldn't wholly put your heart into it just yet because three months are a long time. You must enjoy your time away and just live your life doing everything you want to do abroad.
When the three months are over and you still feel for him and he is still there for you then by all means give it a go. But until then just be careful and have a great three months abroad. Hope this helps, enjoy your time away. I wish you a very happy return with him there for you. But as I said don't put all your faith into it. It's better to be pleasantly surprised than bitterly disappointed. Hope this helps good luck to you.
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