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*ovemeright11
writes:My issues is not about any guy, but relationship I have with a very good teacher of mine. My teacher has been inspiration in the search for goal because the job she had in her field is where I would like to be some day. We seemed to be pretty good friends and developed a nice relationship where I could go to her for anything and vice versa. Here's where things changed. Probably about 6 months ago I asked her of I could talk to her about the application process for the kind of jobs I was applying for and I was worried about someof my past being an issues and while having this conversation I broke down crying and told her about me being Raped and how I was worried about something like that being questioned. Anyways after I told her that which is something I share with no one, she did not really talk to me much anymore. She subbed for one of my classes and did not even talk to me once. I know It all could just be in my head, but I feel she is acting differently towards me after this. Should I worry about her being stand offish or do you guys think I am worrying too much? I just want to still be her friend and I don't want to bring up a bogus accusation if she just simply is to busy or something. Okay thanks in advance.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 September 2012):
 I'm not sure but it seems like she's uncomfortable... I know I do not know what I would say or do if I found out a friend had been raped even if it was years ago.
"I'm sorry" does not begin to touch the pain.... and "I understand" is a lie if you have not had to suffer yourself.
maybe she just does not know what to say so she says nothing....
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reader, Lovemeright11 +, writes (14 September 2012):
Lovemeright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Oh I am fine I got help years ago and I do see someone if I need too. I was just worried about the application possess and that's the whole reason any of it came up.
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reader, Lovemeright11 +, writes (13 September 2012):
Lovemeright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe is an ex forensic investigator so I also did not think anything I said would be something she could not handle. I also asked her before hand if she was okay with me talking about something personal and she said yes. I tried my best to approach it carefully. That's all I can say. Also no I don't have a crush, I just look up to her is all.
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reader, Lovemeright11 +, writes (13 September 2012):
Lovemeright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk well what am I supposed to do now?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 September 2012):
 You don't happen to have a crush on her do you?
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reader, Lovemeright11 +, writes (12 September 2012):
Lovemeright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe is someone I trust.
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