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female
age
30-35,
*ULIE MIKE
writes:HEY i feel confused i started talking to this married man and we started meeting up and he used to call and text me.the other day we were to meet up and unfortunatley he had to wait for me as i was talking to my friend because she appeard and i couldnt leave her alone. the guy then said he is going and would come back for me he never came and ever since that day he has never been in contact. i dont know if i wronged him am feeling so bad. first i know its wrong what am doing but i feel like am in love with him i cant control it. i feel bad i cant contact him am afraid of his wife and also nowadays its like he has a bad attitude towards me. he can just speed past me with his car and not stop and talk to me i dont know what i did also i would want this to end because he is maried what to do so as to stop thinking about him and move on
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (11 September 2012):
 You don't need to worry about ending it with him, it sounds like he already has. You just need to keep busy, change your number, start going out with your friends and try to get him out of your head. He's married. He has a wife. Maybe they reconciled and he no longer needs a mistress on the side.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): Just be thankful you didn't get involved with him, because if he can meet other women behind his wife's back, I'm sure he could do the same to you if somehow you and him had ever gotten together.
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reader, lmao1989  +, writes (10 September 2012):
 Maybe he realised what he was doing is wrong as is what you are doing.
He probably has kids with his wife and that's a family that could have been torn apart for a girl who could well have been his childs age.
You need to not contact him and let him live his life with his wife i mean don't get me wrong he's at fault too for going through with something like this but maybe he actually realised that and decided not to go through with it.
It's not fair on him and his family if you keep in contact you could ruin a good thing that he may have going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): Agreeing with the other two responses on this one. But let me ask you a question. Did you ever once think that you could have possibly destroyed a marriage? Grow up some, yea? He is married. You say you love him, correct? Lets say he left his wife for you. Do you think he would stay faithful to you? Lose every bit of information you have of this man and work on yourself before you form a relationship with another man.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (10 September 2012):
 Consider yourself lucky and move on. This wouldn't have ended well anyway. Why risk certain heartache?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 September 2012):
 maybe his WIFE found out and made him stop seeing a young thing on the side???
you delete his info from your phone
you block his email and facebook accounts
you get on with your life... NO CONTACT
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