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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He won't talk to me unless we are sitting next to one another

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have an enormous crush on the boy who I sit next to in a class. We change seats every 6 weeks. I sat next to him and we used to talk to each other and tease and flirt. Today we changed seats and are no longer sitting at the same table. I know form prior experience that he ... (110 words)

I want my teachers to be more friendly than they are!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Disclaimer: I realize that the topic of this question is a bit of a stretch for this site, but my rationale is that it has to do with relationships, in a sense, so it IS applicable. ;) Now, to actually get down to business. To get right to the point, I have always really ... (337 words)

It looks like flirting to me. how can I stop him flirting with all these girls who come up to talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what can i do with a boy friend who is flirting with this girl? he is 17 and he is just so cute. he tells me i am the only one. but when we are out in the mall all these girls come up to talk to him and he knows their names and they know him. some of them ignore me or even ... (195 words)

Why does my boyfriend act so weirdly about food?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age - Hi everybody I do feel embarrassed about this but here it goes I am trying to understand my boyfriend we live together I have a 18 year old special needs daughter now to me he has issues with food he soon as start a fuss over nothing concerning this weekend he was to fix ... (262 words)

I am jealous or judgemental of my girlfriend’s pasts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok here is the problem (I will try and give as much information as possible). I always become judgemental or jealous (or both) of my girlfriends pasts. It has happened with my last 3 girlfriends, especially the last 2. I start of ok but then I start getting upset about... (379 words)

I understand that the ex will be in his life, but isn't this going too far?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend so much and we have split in the past and i hated it, all i did was cry but i think hes cheating on me. he has a baby with a pervious realtionship and i do understand his ex will always going to be in his life, but recently someone has asked me if i am... (305 words)

Her family harping on her weight is undermining her self-esteem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, So ive been dating this girl for 6 and a half months, and so far its been great! We love each other very much, we share intimate moments together (sex) and we get along super well and constantly know how the other is thinking. Until recently. My gf suffers ... (238 words)

I like my brother's girlfriend's brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My brother and his girlfriend are engaged with a baby on the way. i really like my brothers girlfriends brother. is that wrong? he likes me too but we dont know what to do and if it will make anything awkward. please help. thank you... (45 words)

Issues with my girlfriend's past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4967 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) age 30-35 - i have a girlfriend and she never told me about het past . she was wid dis guy in delhi in hostel he used to come here and take her to a flat and used to hav oral sex wid her thats wat she told me now how can i trust her why would she stop after goun for more dan like fifteen ... (100 words)

We get along great, but his abusive ex is still in the picture

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age - dear cupid: i have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month, he was married for 25 years and divorced for 1 year. boyfriend is still in contact with his ex even though she treated him horrible. she was diagnosis with an eye problem that left her blind. she wanted the divorce, ... (153 words)

Her family is putting pressure on me to propose marriage

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am very stressed over my current engagement situation. I am recently divorced after a 2 year long separation to my wife of many years. During that time, I met someone very special and have lived with her now for a little over a year. I love her very much, and we have ... (305 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend I don't like his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month now and things have been going very well. He moved to the city were we live in not too long ago and basically he only has one good friend here. They've been friends for only three or four months. Today I finally met his ... (284 words)

I love him..but I'm not sure how to say it, or what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here we go again... I just got out of a two year relationship, with 1 year olds father, he was very mean, and treated me like i was his property instead of a person, he doesnt treat me like a women, and i finally have had enough!! So as of two weeks ago, im single.. EXCEPT!!.... (748 words)

Our relationship is suffering. How do I compromise with my mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. I'm a little worried about my relationship with my mom. (mother to daughter). We used to be really close, and i would be able to tell her everything. I can't do that since I hit the teens and there are horrible fights every single day. Over half of those fights are about ... (200 words)

I'm angry towards my FWB, but the sex is great. Should I end it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All. Please can I have some thoughts on the following!! thanks. I am in a FWB situation, and the sex is great. It makes me feel relaxed, happy and good. I am very highly sexed, and this guy is giving me exactly what I need. However, I am not that emotionally attached to ... (353 words)

My marriage is void of intimacy and I feel I'm running out of time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age - I have been married for 33 years. We (my wife and I) never had intercourse before marriage. Although we did everything but, before marriage. We have never been able to make each other orgasm or cum through intercourse. Masturbation seems to be the only way we can get things ... (172 words)

Why did he disregard the conversation and not call back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age - I am wondering why my boyfriend just hurried to get off the phone by telling me he had an important call to take. I was just getting ready to break up with him and I had started the conversation and he was participating in the conversation with very little response but just ... (117 words)

Should I try and make amends with him, at least on a platonic level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex moved away and that is when we stopped dating. Eventually I stopped replying to his e-mails cause I was seeing someone else and was very busy. Now we're both back home and he ignores me completely, but my feelings never went away. I tried to say hi and send an e-mail, ... (75 words)

I suspect my BF is cheating and need some advice as to handling the situation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of a long one but i need to tell the whole story in order to get advice. A bit of history first. My boyfriend and i and been going out for 3 years. We are looking for a house to rent in June and this will be our first real home together. We are currently living... (969 words)

I have two questions about my impending breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - two unrelated questions. I am probably breaking up with my bf of five yr, each other's firsts, lived together for a yr. I expect it to be devastating and I'm terrified to do it but I feel like I have to (don't really want to get into it here). He's everything I have here in ... (216 words)

I'm married. He's married. We need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I married for 4 years, no kids, my relationship was very good until I have to relocate to a different state due to work. After living away from my husband for 4 months I found out he was not sleeping at home (couple of nights), since then my relationship deteriorated. He swears ... (295 words)

Am I wrong to ask my BF to hang out with me more often?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So well its almost summer time, we have 4 more days until school is out. My boyfriend lives three hours from me when were at our homes - he says we will most likely only see each other once this whole summer (3 months!). I don't really like that idea at all..so the past couple ... (436 words)

Am I being too jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do i get jealous so easily?. I must admit, i am an insecure person. Recently, this woman came up to my boyfriend, and, without saying anything to him, she gave him a hug and he hugged her back, but then she went away from him. I don't know how he knows her, but i sort of ... (309 words)

Should I be worried about what my BF will do when I am on vacation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dreamt of my boyfriend that he was having sex with some girl I know, only I don't know who that girl is. Do you think this indicates anything in reality? I am supposed to go on a vacation at the end of May and I will be gone for 3 weeks. We spoke just now and he told me h... (310 words)

BF wants orgasm denial. I don't know how to do it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I wanted to know my bf's biggest fantasy and he said he'd love cum denial/ ruined orgasms but no one's ever done it to him. I don't have a clue about how this should work. I'd love to do it for him, but I don't want to make him explain everything to me because it might... (147 words)

My close friend is falling for me but she has a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - One of my closest friends is falling for me. We’ve known each other for 2 years now and she has been with the same guy for 6 years, half of which was a LDR. I know her boyfriend well and he has no passion and no drive what so ever. He just stays indoors in his safe zone and ... (489 words)

BF has been collecting nude pictures of girls off Facebook. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just found out that my boyfriend of 10 months has been collecting naked pictures from girls off his facebook the whole time we have been together. He says he doesn't understand why he did it and he has promised me to stop. He has deleted all 98% of the people I am ... (118 words)

My son's friend stares at my breasts. Should I say something?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age - I'm a 46 year old woman with a 17 year old son. Whenever his friend comes over he always stares at my boobs. No matter what i'm wearing or if im showing cleavage or not he still stares at them. Should I say something to him when he does this or ignore it? ... (55 words)

He says he is accepting the baby, not both of them. Is this true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A month before he met me, he met a girl and he started dating her. It was after sometime that he left the girl because of me not knowing the girl is pregnant for him, now that the girl is back into his life with an unborn baby, i dont know what to do, because he always tells me ... (83 words)

My girlfriends are in a relationship and it's making me uncomfortable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my close friends (lets call her M) who i've been quite good friends with for about 4 years, has actually decided that she's bisexual, and she has a thing for my best friend (lets call her A) . I know A likes her back in a way, but not so much that she'd want to co... (364 words)

His silent treatment is hurting me. Any advice to improve the situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to try to keep this as brief as possible in explanation, to make it easier to understand the history behind this question. So, I had a friend who was my very best friend in school up until a couple months ago, when we both went through some issues with family and ... (461 words)

I’ll respect that she’s happy with her BF, but I’m upset that I have lost a good friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and this women from work used to get on really well spending lunch together etc. I saw her i few times out of work. she has a boyfriend which i dont think shes happy with, i started to get feelings for but didnt make a move because she had a boyfriend. i just enjoyed spe... (180 words)

Should I let my son's father continue to see him or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently split from my husband after he cheated on me with my best friend and we have a 10 month old son. My problem is he will only see our son a couple of hours a week. I have never stopped him seeing our son on the condition that he doesn't take him anywhere near the woman ... (534 words)

My wife kissed a girlfriend. Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i don't know if this is even an issue to any one but myself. as most people are aware, the thought of two girls together is very cool as far as the male species is concerned. my young wife and i have discussed such activities, and have openly discussed possibly including ... (172 words)

Am I addicted or is this just a phase?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

2 May 2011 (?) age 36-40 - i think i am addicted to sex. me and my bf have been going with each other for 7 months and it is quite serious. he is absolutely great at sex. not only does he have a huge package but he knows how to touch me and lick me. he sends me crazy and i love having sex with him. whi... (142 words)

Can someone give me some tips on LD sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Basically, i am going to work overseas for the next 2 month leaving my girlfriend here. we both will miss each other. this is why we are going to have phone sex and web cam sex. but i dont really know how to do either of these. can people give me some tips on what to do and s... (71 words)

Is this relationship worth working out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so....me and my boyfriend and father to my child have been together for 3 yrs we have been through so much together. From him cheating to being dirt poor. We broke up for a few months last yr and when we got back together in october it was with the understanding that things ... (177 words)

When Does the Art of Compromise Become Compromising?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my BF for about 9 months and our relationship is getting very serious. We are both 33 years old and have had our share of bad relationships and no luck in love until we met each other and are now looking at taking things to the next level, or at least ... (804 words)

I miss him. Please can someone tell me how to get through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 25, we have been together for seven years and he has been in the army for the last 5. We are really happy together and love each other so much that we are ready to take the next step and buy a house. I've never been too happy about him being in the... (252 words)

What does anal sex REALLY do to your body?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Another anal sex question..... Okay, I want to try this (well we have three times, and I failed, I was just not relaxed and too tight I guess), and I've been reading all the how to posts and what to expect, etc., but the one thing I am a little freaked out about (only beca... (110 words)

I want to show her that I don't just want her for sex. I really care about her.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay guys, So I'm back again, feeling really down at the minute as it's going downhill rapidly with my FWB, I've know her for about a month or so now (was introduced through my sister) and the first few weeks were great, we saw each other regularly and were having great sex... (691 words)

How do I deal with my friend's pets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am losing my friends over their dogs. I am not originally from the USA. It’s in not common to have pets at home in my country so I can’t deal with it now. It is like a torture to me when I see people walk with their dogs in the places that they are allowed and on top of that ... (299 words)

I love my English teacher so much.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm only 15 years old and he is 26. Seriously i can't stop thinking about him. I miss him so much. I'm pretty confused as to how to make him love me. I always wear short skirt and tiny clothes in dress up when i come to his class. please help me???... (54 words)

Any of you had bad karma in r/s?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Does karma in relationships really happen? Like if you lie/cheat on/ or treat your ex badly and get into a new one.. does karma really come back to bite you? Any experiences to share? ... (34 words)

What bothers me is that I wasn't special enough. How can I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, same old tale... Fallen for a boy who doesn't want a relationship! Met, been seeing each other for few months, was totally honest about not wanting a relationship, which I respect him for and it's not even like I minded that he goes out in Leeds our home town and ... (256 words)

It's been four years and I am still not over him. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I have a problem. Huge one. I will have to start from the beginning and for that I am sorry...It's a long story folks... It's been over 4 years since I broke up with the ex-bf in question. We have spoken now and then. I have had other boyfriends meanwhile. He... (309 words)

He knows I like him but hasn't said anything. Does this mean he doesn't like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello dear cupid, Ive got a question that is really bugging me at the moment: When a guy you like knows you like him, and hasn't said anything to you does it mean HE DOESNT LIKE you? My friend told the guy i like that i like him, as i didnt have the guts to tell him ... (131 words)

Should I man up and "go for it" whatever that means?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been pubbing and at house parties recently and I feel incapable of doing anything beyond talking to women. I only have a single humble objective, I want to make out with a girl before I'm 19. For whatever reason, I mess it up and the girl leaves. I've even been approa... (190 words)

LDR b/f wants us to have sex when we meet!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I really don't know how to start. I'm having a long distance/online relationship with a guy whom i'm supposed to meet in July. He is a really great guy, fun to be around and a really nice person. The only problem is that were not on the same page when it comes to p... (216 words)

Is it normal for him to continue looking at girls on the Internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a issue with porn and watching other women on the internet. we worked out the whole porn thing but for some reason he will not leave watching other girls alone. I've expressed my emotions to him about it but he just cant leave it alone. he says it makes him ... (97 words)

Is she playing hard to get? Cause seriously it's working if it is.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi kindly help me here please. i've been dating this girl i really like. we've known each other for almost 7 months. by the way she is korean and im chinese filiipno and we're on our 20's. we always text at each other everyday. she even calls me sometimes. we even say sweet ... (419 words)

Relationship advice......my BF can't forget about my past, plz help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! Im just after a little bit of advice, so any would be appreciated :)! I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months, and he wanted to know everything about my past relationships etc, so I told him everything, how many people I had slept with, names etc and I was totally ho... (344 words)

Please help. Boyfriend and I have serious problems with sex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

2 May 2011 (M) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I’m in a real dilemma at the moment, and I don’t know what to do. I’ve posted on here a few times before. I’m a 24-year-old gay guy who has been in a relationship with the same guy for over four years now. We have serious problems with sex. Basically, when ... (243 words)

Boyfriend needs relevant suggestions to gain my trust back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend is trying to gain back my trust. basically read this first(without repeating myself) i posted a few weeks ago http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-deal-with-a-lying-boyfriend.html And well i have decided not to break up with him and he is trying to gai... (113 words)

Am I an embarrassment to him? Why is he doing this to me? One for the men.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

2 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - My best (male) friend never goes anywhere with me. I invite him to my party every single year and he says he has no money and whenever I invite him somewhere else he says he has no money. Just to make it possible for him to come I invited him to go out with me to the river for ... (249 words)

I told my ex that I'm breaking plans to see her later in the year. Was this the right thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I met with my ex for lunch today. It was the first time we had seen eachother in about a month and a half. We broke up just over 2 months ago after a 4 1/2 month relationship ended because I'm leaving town later this month. Contact between us have been very slim because I'm ... (389 words)

He's chatting up another. What can I do to trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my boyfriend and I'd been going out for over a year now. Things are going so well. Lately, we have been fighting. We broke up a couple of times and we end up being together. Then as time went on we felt like new. We we're happy. Then one time... I broke... (375 words)

I fancy her, but she might be a lesbian. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i fancy a girl and im 14 years old and the thing is the girl that i fancy has never had a boyfriend and shes a total babe and lots of boys have asked her out and shes said no and i've never asked her out and we are pretty good mates. i'm not sure but i think shes a lesbian. ... (77 words)

From exasperation to enthusiasm in 20 minutes... what is he doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past few months a guy and I have been having what I can only describe as a staring contest whenever we're in the same room. We've been friendly in the past and when I started feeling sexually attracted to him (because of his intense staring, and smiling when we did ... (483 words)

What can I do? The girl I love is ignoring me and took me off her FB friend list.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help me! The girl whom I love had killed me out of her friend list on facebook and ignores me in school. About three weeks ago, I stupidly sent her a goodbye letter due to I have accumulate far too much negative emotions in my head. Everything happened between... (175 words)

Friend has been lying and using me for material gain

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ive recently discovered a close male friend has been using me for material gain and has told me some serious lies. i dont understand why ive been there for him always when noone else has and the other day he told another lie and i just snapped and told him i knew he had been... (136 words)

Is this emotional abuse - so confused!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hope someone can help me. I've been with a guy for nearly 2 years now. He has always had a kind of 'firey' nature and tends to sulk a lot. I suffer from depression and when I am happy he gives me loads of attention and love. However wen I am down he seems to distance him... (139 words)

Is he seriously considering me to mother his child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Here goes...I've been seeing this guy on and off for almost six years now. Its been to the point where we have spent all our time together, we've fought, went out of down, just plain out, yadda yadda. Recently though he's been talking about having a baby ( the last time we ... (196 words)

Boyfriend is acting strangely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, things having been going well but we keep hitting points where it seems to go a little strange. For example for a few days at a time he will act quite cold with me and we won't communicate. Its like he doesnt want to be with me or care ... (176 words)

All my friends are getting happy together. How do I cope with my feelings for one of them?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im stuck in a tricky situation. I still like the boy I've liked for like a year now, and now his girlfriend has broken up with him. he's been left single which gives me more of a chance. But now his ex girlfriend has just started talking to me, and all of a sudden we're like ... (388 words)

What would be the reasons why my GF is unable to have satisfying sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This question is regarding my girlfriends inability to have sex; we are both well legal and have been dating for 2 years. the first time we tried i neglected a condom (stupidly, though nothing happened) as it was an experiment of sorts to see if I fit okay, and despite mild ... (197 words)

Is there something wrong with my Gf? Her eyes check out every guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey people!! just want to know, what does it mean if your girlfriend is checking out guys in front of you? her eyes are always on some good looking guy. she never seems embarrassed to stare in guy's eyes. once we were out for shopping, and i was in the changing room. i saw... (113 words)

I'm 16 and haven't ever masturbated. Does this make me weird?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a short question, I am a 16 year old female and haven't ever masturbated in my life because I don't know how to :/ Does this mean I'm weird? Or am i normal? Thanks so much to anyone who has any advice for me, i really appreciate it :) x... (55 words)

Boyfriend has been diagnosed with schizophrenia. I'm sexually frustrated and feeling guilty.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all Please do not misunderstand my intentions. My boyfriend is struggling with Schizophrenia, he has also been mentally and physically abused by a cruel sadistic woman. I know this is very hard for him to deal with but he wont be close with me anymore. we're both young... (186 words)

I have some questions since several members of my family have "come out."

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Recently, all of a sudden 4 cousins. in our family have come out that they are gay. 3 boys and one girl. all in their 20's. its quite a big family. 6 aunts/uncles. So lots of cousins. I find it quite crazy, you come to terms with one, then 3 more come out! Is it ... (226 words)

Should I continue my relationship with a man or try to find another woman to be with?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a bisexual preferably oriented towards females. And, I have been having a difficult time finding a nice girl who feels the same way. I have had several girl crushes, and each did not go so well. The most recent was with a good friend of mine. We slept together one dru... (444 words)

Will my ex like the personalized gift or be annoyed?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im trying to get back with my ex girlfriend. we broke up almost 3 months now. not a bad break up, i mean we didnt had a fight about it. i didnt contact her for a while until last thursday. i still love her. i decided to send her My M and M's personalized candy with her pict... (97 words)

Why don't my girlfriend send loving texts?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend, yes we are lesbian couple shes alot older then me. she never sends loving or romantic texts and i do for her all the time but she never replies to them. the type of text she sends me are just about what shes been up to and ask me how i am, but never any ... (111 words)

I really like this guy at work but can't read him

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys , I'm starting to really like this guy that I work with, the thing is I'm not sure if he's interested in me.. lately we have been talkIng heaps, just random stuff and flirting... He always says "oh "look there's ya bf " even though they aren't really , what's this ... (276 words)

How do we make LDR work for 6 years?

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2 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, I would really appreciate some advice on this one (hopefully some positive, cause I only seem to be able to find negative stuff). In September I start a six year university course, doing Veterinary medicine (so it's going to be quite allot of work and I'll be busy mos... (216 words)

My First Date: Nervous and Anxious About It

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2 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I finally built up the courage to talk to a girl, I've never met before, and got her number. We're going to hang out for lunch this weekend, and I'm nervous on how to act on our date. I'm afraid of being too stiff,shy, and not revealing my true happy-and-humorous self when were ... (96 words)

He had performance anxiety on our date...tips for handling it the next time round?

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2 May 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I recently started seeing a guy. He's sweet, funny, but shy. He always given me hugs, but I had to initiate kissing him on our third date at his home. When he took me to bed after making out for a while on the couch, I asked him if he had any condoms and he said it was "too ... (266 words)

Is the love genuine?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My b/f alwaz frees me to do whatever i like, the only thing he hates is lying, he hates finding things i should have told him earlier out himself and another thing is that he is not jealous. But i know he really loves me and that he's not a cheat. Am i safe? ... (54 words)

She keeps pushing me away and asking me to date younger woman...I'm at a crossroads

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2 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, thanks for reading my question. I'm 32/m/Aus. I broke up with my ex about 4 weeks ago. We were together for nearly a year. She's older than me and being sick. Our connection and feeling was very strong from the very beginning and deep down we feel like we belong t... (588 words)

My boyfriend of 9 months says he wants to be with me, but he doesn't even have my number in his phone!

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I got a boyfriend and we was going out for 9 months And I had this feeling he was cheating and I Founded out he be calling other girls and he Don't even call me I call him all day and he never Answer unless its something that he wants My number isn't even saved in his phon... (108 words)

Should I forget this flame and stick to my boyfriend?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a certain very shy guy had a thing for eachother for a couple years. More of an unspoken spark for eachother. Finally last summer he spoke up and asked why we had never dated. We talked about the whole relationship and we agreed we wouldn't date at that point because he ... (326 words)

My mother doesn't approve of my relationship with a 34 year old

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19, dating a 34yr old. My mother hates me for it. She says if my dad were still alive, he'd be dissapointed. She shuts me out doesn't want to listen to anything I say. I try and try but nothing. She compares me to a whore and says she'd rather see me dead then with him. ... (212 words)

I'm angry at my friend for liking my boyfriend and now I'm not sure if I trust him!

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii, well lastnight me and a bucnh of my friends slept over at my house and my boyfriends' friend was here. Well his girlfriend and me used to be really close and then she started liking my boyfriend when me and him were taking a break. i know he is the one at fault for it... (194 words)

I'm still not over him...should I tell him my feelings?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i would appreciate some advice. I was in a relationship with a guy, not for very long but i did fall in love with him. We started having problems and he ended it. Nearly 2 months later i am still in love with him and today i have actually been crying because i still mi... (180 words)

He doesn't want to get a place together yet!

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5years. I graduated from university last yr with my degree n have a fulltime job with good pay. I live in an apartment right now with intentions to buy a house early next year when my lease is up. My boyfriend lives 45min. away. We have tal... (378 words)

My boy friend's parents will not speak to me. I need advice on what to do please?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you Andrew I'm using this site because my boy friend's parents have put the gate on me with no reason given to me. They will not talk to me and I need advice on what to do. My boy friend is in the middle of all this. I also want to say thanks for creating this site bec... (78 words)

His parents hate me.. How can I get them to accept me? Or do I break up with him?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating the most amazing guy, but his parents do not want me to see him and try to not let me see him. They hate me for no reason at all. He fights with them, so he can take me to places and now they told him to date anyone except for me. I don't understand why. My question... (86 words)

I was told I had a covert schizoid personality disorder

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, This may sound very strange and I am not sure if it is a problem or not. I seem to be able to relate to everyone or anyone regardless of age sex ethnic group etc and I have been told by people that they feel a connection with me. I don't feel it with them and mostly ... (280 words)

My Depressed boyfriend wants space. Can anyone tell me how to get through all this?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 plus years now. He's had a history with depression and has had episodes where he'd leave for several hours or a day. He recently went through a custodial fight with his ex wife over his kids and lost. She took full custody and her current ... (576 words)

Can I repair this misunderstanding? My Boy friend's sister hates me and is trying to ruin my life

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help with my boyfriend and his family. I met my boyfriend through my best friend. My boyfriend is her brother. My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a few weeks but I feel like I want to be with him for the rest of my life. He is everything I want in a guy. But t... (342 words)

Our parents caused us to break up!

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello Aunties!!!! i have another question and here it is... My boyfriend and i are force to break up! Both my parents and his parents caught us being lovy dovy and told us we must break up! I told both of our parents that we aren't doing anything inappropriate but they do... (72 words)

I don't know if boyfriend is hiding me or ashamed of me?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Here goes ... Boyfriend and I been together for six months and I can't decide if he's ashamed of me or hiding something . I don't have a phone and have been sharing his complicated smart phone.. I keep finding messages to and from "old friends " that are female and I haven't ... (107 words)

Is there an effective way to tell him how he hurt me?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I fell hard for a guy who knew it and used me for sex. I've been hurt by men before and always found a way to move on and shake it off and find something better. No matter what I do, and how much time has passed: I fall to tears when I think of him. I've been dating and keeping ... (110 words)

Where have all the good men gone? Any suggestions on how to find them please?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been actively dating for the past year. Overall, I've been extremely disappointed by the experiences I've been having. I've found many to be extremely selfish, immature, and have no respect for women. I've found that some men treat women like objects to keep around u... (224 words)

How to go from close friendship to relationship?

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2 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This question is about a friend of mine and a girl he really likes. Unfortunately, I am not qualified to help him out and therefore I need your help. So, this is the story: My friend is a student, just like myself. He met a relatively younger girl about 8 months a... (438 words)

I don't know how to get rid of these evil jealous feelings

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've developed a crush for a close friend and I'm trying to get rid of this sentiment (a relationship is out of the question right now) but I'm also feeling really jealous of another friend. The boy I'm crushing on is really sweet but he's a touchy kind of guy. He's always... (265 words)

Why does my boyfriend insist on masturbating everyday?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend masturbates every single day. We don't live together yet and I understand masturbation is normal but he does it every day and it gets in the way of our sex life. Sometimes he pleases himself before he sees me and he will have no drive to sleep with me. I am pretty ... (110 words)

How does a guy act when he gets jealous?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What do boyfriends usually get jealous of? How do they act when they get jealous?... (15 words)

Why is he not accepting or denying me?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - About a week ago I sent a friend request on facebook to a guy I used to see. We had a very passionate on and off experience. He just today wished a mutual friend of ours on fb a happy birthday (a friend I constantly write to and writes to me... to whom HE never communicates ... (95 words)

He asked for time off from the relationship...

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a very long time(10 to be exact) we have a child together. Recently, he came to me and said he is confused and wants to have a time off. So I've made him move out and he did. For about a month he didn't live with us but about a week or two he s... (227 words)

Should I fogive him one more time or has he gone too far this time?

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2 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met my husband at a club nine years ago and within a week he moved into my home.. I didn't live there at that time but within two weeks my kids and I moved back into our home with then my boyfriend. Things were going great... the kids liked him and he was the prefect guy.... (705 words)