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anonymous
writes:Me and this women from work used to get on really well spending lunch together etc. I saw her i few times out of work.she has a boyfriend which i dont think shes happy with, i started to get feelings for but didnt make a move because she had a boyfriend. i just enjoyed spending time with her we have been getting on really well and i do get the signs she likes me.just lately she been very hot and cold with me and now wont even talk to me its hard because we used to get on so well she now ignores me after i asked her out, its upsetting that know she wont even talk what do i do, i've tried texting her, i catch her looking at me at me all the time, but just ingnores me when i near, i respect the fact if shes happy with her boyfriend but a upset that that i have lost a good friend
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (2 May 2011):
 Hi, Yes, you knew she had a boyfriend yet you asked her out!!!So, the friendship you had has now gone. She is avoiding you because it's awkward. You were pals, but asking her out overstepped a boundary. Let her be now and just carry on and hopefully things will get better.
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reader, Gherkinsaregrim  +, writes (2 May 2011):
I'd say talk to her, but you've clearly tried.If I were you I'd just give it a cool down period, chances are her boyfriend might not want you talking if he is paranoid.Just don't talk to her for a bit and then see how she acts, if you are giving her the attention she won't miss you enough to realise she has lost a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Maybe things are progressing and she is trying to put more emotional energy into her relationship. Give her time and space to rebalance herself. She may have realised you liked her more than she was comfortable with. Give her space and let her approach you.
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