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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it ok for my ex-bf, who is married now, to help me find a job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend, who is a married man now, is helping me to find a job abroad. He lives in another country. Sometimes he has written to me that he feels sorry for me not living there. He said I hope you and your family are doing well in these turbulent times. He has gotten a... (164 words)

I'm 15 and infatuated with a thirtysomething guy. What should I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - For years now there is this guy who i have loved and every time i see him i love him but (theres always a but) i personally don't know him and he is older (much older) than me. I am 15 years old and he is i would say 30+...He works in this shop and every time i go past t... (308 words)

Why aren't I sexually attracted to him when he's the hottest guy I've dated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is smokin' hot. We both have really deep feelings for eachother. He wants sexual activity, but the idea to me makes me gag. Normally I love being sexual with my boyfriend but its different for him. Why aren't I sexually attracted to him when he's the hottest guy ... (66 words)

This love just happened. How do I get over it? Why do I have to get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age - How do I get over this. I am falling deeper and deeper in love with a women 26 years younger than I am. We met in graduate school and worked together for 10 months before she left for a fulltime position. The last day we worked together, just the other day, I held her beautifu... (602 words)

My sister wants to go back to this horrible man and I'm terrified for her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister moved to the another country many months ago where she met her current boyfriend and I recently went to visit for a week. In my time spent there I quickly realised that she was in an abusive relationship. My sister is only seventeen and it turned out her boyfriend was ... (486 words)

Quick question on shy guy behavior.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when a shy guy asks a girl what her and another dude were talking about while he was gone. I had this shy guy I've been crushing on for forever ask me this. me and a guy friend were talking and he had his arm around me and I had my arm around him, just a ... (166 words)

Do you believe in those love stories like Carrie and Mr. Big?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - so... do you guys believe on those love stories like Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big, when they were in a relationship, break up then they both mess around, to then been in different relationships, even a marriage, all for this to end on them together? ha. Do you think this is ... (116 words)

I feel so lost and don't know what to do is he acting different because his friend is there or is it because he is actually leaving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend of two and a half years is in the military and we have a long distance relationship. We had relationship problems before because we have been apart for one year and we both have trust issues. Recently, he has met a friend and I am sure he is a guy, I know it i... (516 words)

Should I have sex ASAP? Or wait next till forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello all, I asked a question on here a while ago about a girl that had only a tendency to date "douchebag" guys, and now she's mine 3 yay! But someone incepted (planted an idea in my head, nerd reference) me recently.. Last night me and my girlfriend talked about sex, with ... (384 words)

Has my masturbating taken full control of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 26years old male from nigeria and havn't any sexual intercourse with any woman before, but i do masturbate and this year will make it 13years that i have been masturbating. I watch a lot of x-rated movies and read a lot of sex novels. but i'm sacred to have sex with any ... (82 words)

How do I earn his trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4806 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I 've dumped my ex-boyfriend twice within a two month period. Honestly, the first time I dumped him was because he hadn't contacted me in three whole days. So I returned his belongings, and I when I did his mother answered the door. He ended up calling me the next day, and we ... (153 words)

I've caught him cheating 4 times but just don't have the courage to dump him for good!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i been together, on and off, for 2 years and 3 months now. so recently, i had this feeling that something wasn't right. so i went on his facebook and seen that he blocked our relationship from 21 females. not 1 or 2 but 21. i was so devastated and hurt. i broke ... (143 words)

Did I orgasm or just get really close to it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, on saturday night, me and my boyfriend were lying in his bed making out, and he started pressing and rubbing my clit. it felt absolutely AMAZING, and before too long, my legs started shaking uncontrollably and the feeling just kept getting better. the thin... (102 words)

How can I stop this "urge"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a really weird thing to ask and talk about to me but how do you stop an "urge" to want to have sex. I went to my BF's house the other day and he said that he wanted to do something to make me happy and kept saying a bunch of other things. I got a really bad urge ... (118 words)

I just wanted to be one of the them sitting there with all their attention on her! I strangely felt out of my comfort zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4920 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last saturday night i went out with my two best friends and when we were out we saw a group of guys that we knew and are quite good friends with. And again like every time when they see me, they called me over, we all had banter and caught up. They are just fun, really nice ... (328 words)

I'm so nervous about meeting this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone please try to help me keep calm lol ?. I met a guy in a bar last week . We arranged to meet up again tomorrow, but we haven't spoken since Friday, as i told him i would just text him tomorrow to see if he is still going out, as i know things can come up sometimes. ... (190 words)

I cant continue this LDR but I don't want to hurt her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi After ten months of a long distance relationship, I can't go on. I love her, love my time with her, but the relationship model is all wrong, it's not working. We have just done the "time to think" thing, I know we are finished, so does she, we just haven't officially said ... (176 words)

8 years, 1 child, another on the way..how do I get him to marry me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are both 28 and have been together for eight years. We have a three year old son and I'm currently 8.5 months pregnant with another boy; we even have three fur babies (a dog and two cats)! We've talked about it several times when we should get married but I feel ... (145 words)

Where do you draw the line between getting to know someone and playing with their emotions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my friend is tring to fix me up with her boyfrien's friend, I have agreed to meet with him so I did a week ago. Hes verry nice and has a good sense of humor wich i like but however I don't know much about him and I also don't find him extreamly attractive. Not that I find ... (214 words)

Can we work this out?

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31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We recently got into a huge fight, because I feel that our relationship has become boring because we never go out or do anything anymore. He often makes plans for us and then breaks them, saying he's too tired from work or ... (236 words)

Online he says he loves me but he won't meet me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i meet a 26 year old guy on a dating site and we started talking on the phone alot his was perfect he made me feel so special..he is the first men in my life that made me feel good about myself.He would tell me me that he likes me and that he was scare to meet me because he ... (87 words)

Is there any man out there who is satisfied with just one good woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age - Can someone please tell me what is wrong with men? They say they love you, it feels right together, you have so much in common..... you are both having fun and things are great......Then why oh why, do they seem to think they need more than 1 woman? Does there ever come a ... (158 words)

I never imagined I would end up here

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age - I have been married to my husband for 24 years, and we have two teenage daughters together. I thought I married my best friend, and for awhile we were very happy. I don't really understand how things went so wrong, but over the years, our marriage has slowly deteriorated, and ... (249 words)

Too late to make my move on her or do I still have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I need some advice there is this girl that I really like so much, no, I'm like falling in love with her, and long ago I have come out and told her how I feel for her which I'm beginning to see that it was a bad idea, the thing is I feel that I have approached in a wrong ... (176 words)

I don't have the money for a counselor. How can I get my self esteem back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I got cheated on in the past and it has left me massively insecure. I don't have the money to pay for counselling. Any ideas how I can go about getting my esteem back? I have lots of friends and do lots of exercise - I don't hate my looks or figure but I just expect my bf to ... (69 words)

What is the proper place of sexual attraction in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Aunts, you know, here is my issues: over and over I have fallen for a girl because she gets me excited. She is hot, sexy and attractive. So I enter a relationship with her only to find we are not oompatible at all! She and I clash with our values and personalities. And I come ... (120 words)

Who lies more? Girls? or guys?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - do girls lie more then guys? If so, explain in detail. Why do girls lie to guys and why do guys lie to girls?... (27 words)

Should I be angry that my boyfriend isn't introducing me to his family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months and he wants to go to his family but he doesnt ask me to go with him because he said he already knows i wouldnt be able to go. he has met people in my family that i have never even met. i think he just doent want me to be ... (68 words)

Should I show him the new and improved me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I like this guy on the internet. He seemed to be interested in me until I showed him a few pictures. He has dated models in the past, at least that's what he's said and I'm not the model type though I think I'm cute and pretty sometimes. So over time I've worked really ha... (129 words)

Break up after 3.5 years, how does he just move on like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex and i broke up after three in a half years.it was a very unhealthy relationship and i knew he wouldnt change with the overcontrolling jealousy didnt trust and so on...he was my first everything meaning i never gave him a reason to act like that..anyways we broke up and he ... (163 words)

My partner has had a lot of lovers- why does this bother me so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Ive been with my partner quite a while now, and things are great. However at some point we talked about past partners. I was surprised to find that at 43 she has had 28 previous partners, 5 of them "one nighters" (although she had hoped something would come from them),... (209 words)

I'm falling deeper in love with a woman 26 years my junior

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

I was hanging out with my friends, feeling happy, and then out of NOWHERE, my mood shifted and I was depressed. What could this be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please please please any help will do! Can anyone make sense of this and tell me what the hell happened with me the other night and why this may of happened!?! I'd really appreciate it! I was out on a night with a big group of friends both guys and girls. We were having fun ... (292 words)

I can't figure out if he cheated on me or if he got this girl pregnant before we got together, and now the baby's mom wants to fight me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating going on a year in two months. I was going threw his phone to prove him wrong about a text that I sent him, this was back in October. We were just playing around like always and I found a text stating "I love you baby daddy!!! Why don't ... (329 words)

My girlfriend stayed out for the night and told me she had to share a bed with another man! This is unacceptable to me. What does everyone else think?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner went on a night out with her work mates and missed the late train back. See was with two females and 1 male - so they got a family room at a hotel. When she got back the next morning she told me she had to share a bed with the male to get some sleep and nothi... (141 words)

Are there any subtle ways that I could get a guy to talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello :) so there is a guy in the year above at school and i see him around every now and then. I like him aswell. I see him in the hallways and stuff and he smiles at me and i smile back etc. But i have never spoke to him and i am WAY to nervous to go and talk to him myself. ... (206 words)

I want to marry one of my friends, but her response to that isn't good...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi friends plz plz plz help me, i am in big big trouble, i've a friend and now i want her as my girl friend because i want to marry with her, she is not giving me positive reply, i want her to tell her parents about me so that i may proceed but she is not willing, i really love ... (111 words)

What's the best way to get over the guilt of my breakup and start dating again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age - I live with my x-husband and we have a great friendship and we love each other, but we r no longer in love with each other. He tells me to go out and meet someboy, but I feel guilty. Do I get over this feeling and start dating again. Also what are the chances that someone I ... (67 words)

I'm bigger to begin with, but now I'm having a baby! What can I expect in terms of my weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - im expecting my first baby. When i told my mum one of the first things she said to me after congratulations was oh no your going to put on more weight! Im a size 16 uk so not a little person, but now im worried that my antinatal apointments are going to be geared around my ... (104 words)

Is it illegal to watch porn on the Internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is watching free porn on the internet illegal? If it's not, then why does anyone bother subscribing or paying for porn?... (21 words)

How do you respond when a guy compliments you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy i've known for about 2 years now, i'd say we were quite good friends, but in the last year he keeps talking to me online and telling me that im beautiful and gorgeous, which is really nice and I do like compliments, he will also write short poems for me and tell ... (192 words)

There's this girl...should I cut her out of my life for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I need a little advice. I want to apologise in advance for this being so long, but I'm really stuck here. So about 4-5 years ago I met a girl online. We quickly became friends and talked very regularly. After a few months I found myself having more romantic feelings for her... (909 words)

We haven't spoken in months, but he has kept me very much a part of his life. What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4921 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I were together for 3 years and 8 months. Most of the time our relationship seemed nearly perfect except for the fact that we lived an hour away from each other. We both have children. My daughter lives with me and he likes to spend alot of time with his son. about 2 ... (479 words)

How do you know if a guy is interested or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, there is this guy I am madly crazy about and today I kind of tried to make a move? Well, more like my friend tried to do it for me because I was too shy to ask. Any who, recently I've been getting mixed signals from this guy. I would receive long extended eye contacts, ... (246 words)

How can I make friends with girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 17 and I am shy. I don't have confident because i cant speak English fluently. How can i make friends with girls? I really want to start a relationship but i just don't have any female friends. My class has no girls, I am in male canoeing polo team. I hardly interact... (67 words)

I don't want to like this guy because I am still trying to move on from my last crush! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - For the last couple of months I had the biggest crushed on (bob) he was the best guy and my ideal guy. He has a gf and I don't wanna mest that up. So two days I went camping and I was talking to a guy I thought was cute since last year but didn't feel nothing till he left me ... (117 words)

I just found out that she's cheating on me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - helo everyone i just found out now now that my girlfriend is cheating on me. my body is so weak right now. my heart beat has way way up. what should i do about this? the girl i thought i was going to marry.... (44 words)

He denies sleeping with her, but she is saying it is true!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am four month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, I found Messages on his facebook suggesting he was doing something. I've asked him and he says he hasn't, I have asked her and she tells me that he has been seeing her and that they have had sex more than once. I've asked my... (87 words)

Could my crush be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with a guy for about four years now, I have been very close to him, reasons being I felt we are very similar in many ways, he reminded me of myself a male version of me, he knew I liked him, but he said he just wanted to be friends and nothing else, we use ... (218 words)

I cant get a boyfriend no matter what!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

31 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm pretty, smart, a talented artist, funny, and down to earth (according to me,) but I can't get a boyfriend for the life of me! I have dated lots, but either I'm not interested, or we go out a few times and then the dude disappears. In my 27 year old life, I've only ... (222 words)