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I'm lonely. My husband's a serial cheater. Would he really care if I had an affair?

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7 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have been married to the same man for almost 23 years. I divorced him once because he cheated on me...then we remarried. For the past ten years,he has cheated on me. Last year I found out he was involved in a four year affair. He swore he love me...but I contacted her. He ... (200 words

I really do want to trust him. How do I learn to trust him more?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have some serious trust issues. There is this guy i met online with whom i get on really well and been extremely good friends for a while now. So recently we started a long distance relationship as we will meet in July and then i will move to where he lives at the end of Septe... (199 words

Has he fallen out of 'like' with me? He's cold now. Or is there another reason?

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7 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old guy and I fell in love with my best friend, who is also a 17 year old guy. To be honest, I dont really know much about him. He likes games, sport, but I like music and art. Before we starting spending time together, he was always nice to me and he asked me t... (200 words

I'm dating my professor, aged 40, should I tell my parents?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm an 18 year old college student who has always been attracted to older men. It was not really a problem, but now, I've started dating my professor. He's divorced, so it's not like he's cheating on his wife, and it's completely consensual. My issue is though, I'm ... (113 words

Is there hope for our relationship? Did I mis-hear him? Or do we only need more privacy?

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7 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Well, my husband and I have been going through a lot and we got in a big argument and he told me to go back to my mom's house. We lived with his mom ever since we got married. 8 years, and living with people and not having a private marital life, we have never experienced. He ... (435 words

Should I contact his ex to see if he was violent towards her too?

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7 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi. I have been in a very volitile relationship for 2 years. We have been living together. When we fight it gets really bad. The rest of the time we are not abusive, though sometimes we both feel like we have to walk on eggshells. He did things that I was uncomfortable ... (212 words

He's leaving soon. should I ask for his number, or would that sound desperate? Or just move on?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So there's this guy i really like. I think he likes me too. because in class we would always sit together he would even ditch his friends for me in class. and we would always flirt and talk in class and he would grab my hand ask me to give him a massage etc...he asked for my ... (167 words

Why doesn't he contact me? Should I wait for him to?

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7 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - The guy i have dated for about a month told me he couldnt meet me very much right now because his exam coming up in about 3 weeks.. He's in med-school, so I know he has a lot to do. Still I got a bit upset.. He couldnt tell when we were going to see eachother, we had to just ... (221 words

Does she really love me? Even though she talks just as much to two other guys?

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7 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - How is my girlfriend in love with me, but doesn't like to have fun with me more than with other people? My girlfriend and I have had this problem, for a long time, with each other. We've been together pretty much 3/4 of a year, but we have these arguments about spending t... (485 words

Boyfriend loses erection as soon as we try to have sex

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi my boyfriend Is 20 and im 19, We have been dating for 5 months now, known each other for 2 years. Everything is going great except for one thing. We cannot have intercourse at all as my boyfriend looses his erection as soon as we try. We always use condoms, and he ... (171 words

I think I'm asexual and not sure what to do about it

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7 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm really confused about my sexuality. I'm beginning to think I'm asexual as I haven't ever felt attracted to anyone male or female. When I see someone randomly or I'm dating someone and think about having sex or doing anything sexual with them I feel disgusted by it. But I ... (464 words

I don't get turned on when we have sex

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 18 years old I lost my virginity when i was 16 (big mistake). I am now in a serious relationship, I really like the guy I am with in fact I love him. When we have sex i find that i do not get turned on. My boyfriend gets turned on but i don't. I feel like there is so... (90 words

I wonder if he likes me or is he just being flirty

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - 'm 16 and this guy is 18.i have only known him for a week. i met him through one of my other friends and met last monday and i had the mate wi me. we got on okay but he thougt i was very shy.we didnt text for bout 3 days and then he text me and we talked for like 6 hours and to ... (213 words

Is it ok if I change my mind about having a threeway?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - OK so early i agreed to do a three way with my bf cuz he wants to but we havent yet but they cant touch each other at all. Than my bf says thats not fair if you do stuff with her if i cant but then i said i cant fall inlove with girls and stuff and you can. But than he kept ... (179 words

My boyfriend has never gone down on me

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost four years, I am 18 and he is 22. We were each others first, and we started having sex around 6 months, we did it at the park, in this secret hidden area since we couldn't do it at each others home's or anything well anyway I ... (426 words

Girlfriend said we need time apart -- should I wait for her?

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7 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - hi my girlfriend broke up with me and said we needed time apart that she thinks marriage is overrated and she is just not ready for relationship we were together for about a year,truth is i think she is confused should i move on or try to wait for her,she has been heart broken ... (85 words

My husband is back in contact with the woman he cheated with...5 years ago! Any advice?

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7 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - My husband cheated on me 5 years ago and the woman he cheated with fell pregnant. He broke it off with her after I found out and forgave him after being seperated for 6 months. Now 5 years later I discovered that he was in contact with a woman telephonically knowing that she ... (141 words

I regret breaking up with him! How do I get him to respond to my text messages?

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7 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I ended things with my boyfriend of two months because I was jealous of the interest he seemed to be paying to my best friend. I sent him a text message telling him that I was annoyed that he seemed to enjoy her company more than mine and that I never wanted to see him again... (222 words

He treats me horridly and then blames me for his behaviors!!

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7 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - What is wrong with him. I am a 36 yr old woman, my partner is 42. we have 2 children 3 and 6 yrs. We dont currently live together as we had broken up some months before. We were recently getting along better and had started to become a family again. He then goes and spoils it ... (226 words

Pick Up Artists..why resort to this, guys?

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7 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Dear DC readers. I have a question that I've been thinking about and couldn't really answer myself. I've noticed that a lot of guys I know, either who get dumped or who can't find a lady, they resort to being a Pick Up Artist. Question is, why? Why would men want to find a... (116 words

I'm older than him. I'm worried what people will say. Should I take a chance?

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7 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey can u guys help me? I'm kind of conflicted. you see, i like this boy and he likes me,the problem is he's like 3 years younger than me I'm 16 and he's like 13 but he looks way older than me. my problem is that what if it doesn't work out? what if he's too immature for me ... (89 words

Today sucks. Any advice?

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7 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Today is just a bad day. -my plans with my friends have been canceled -my other plans to go clothes shopping (which i desperately need) also fell through -i think i might be in love with a guy who has a girlfriend. I know I'm young but i took several quizzes and read up and ... (173 words

What would you guys think of me if you were in his or any of his friends situation?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Be as honest as you like!! This guy who i saw on a night out, we're friends and both always had feelings for each other for so long. I just saw it as some fun and didn't see the harm in us flirting, being intimate by kissing, arms around each other, acting like we were together ... (260 words

What is "the spark?" How do you know when you have it?

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7 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - I read on here yesterday with someone saying about a spark Well lol I'm just wondering what is a spark ?? I know sound very stupid be asking this but never really heard anyone say it until yesterday here. Do you know when you have this spark? how do you get the spar... (70 words

I cant escape and can't stand feeling like this anymore. Please help.

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm fed up with my life, it just seem it isn't going nowhere and what i have is going all wrong. i have a part time job and only work two days a week and am trying to find a new job but doesn't seem to be getting nowhere. due to this have no money to do anything and am ... (292 words

I’ll initiate sex, but by the time he is finally aroused, I lose interest. Any advice?

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7 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for 2 years, married for a little over a year, and I've since lost weight and feel better than I have in a long time. We live with my father, and I am the only one working currently. My husband is from another country, been waiting a long tim... (530 words

Other men have turned the tables on me when they are guilty ones. Is this a similar situation?

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7 May 2011 (F age - My husband of two years says I am trying to constrict and control him because on occasion, and I do mean maybe 2 days out of five, ask where he is. The reason I ask is that because I cannot sell my home and my child goes to a local school we do not live in the same house at the ... (224 words

Should I try for the job and forget about college, or the other way around? Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 20 years old, at a serious cross roads in my life. I have been working in a department store (that pays well enough)for three years. I was in college last year studying something that I decided wouldn't in any way help me get a good job, so I dropped out... I also thought ... (354 words

I thought he liked me but he just told my girlfriend that he likes her. Now what do I do?

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7 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi. There's this boy that I really like, and over the past week or so, I kept getting these hints and weird feelings that he might like me. That was until he told my friend that he liked her. Now I'm so fucking confused by everything. What am I going to do?... (52 words

We have a two-year-old daughter. Should I stay or go?

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7 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I'm in a relationship with my partner and have been for 5 years. We have a 2 year old daughter. The problem is that he's working a lot and we have a lot of debt. This is putting a strain on our relationship. We've had sex about 4 times in 3 years. Previously before I... (255 words

I'm sad and feel like I have no friends. Am I being too oversensitive?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, recently i've felt really left out by my friends. They'll go out shopping together, drives together, etc and not invite me. It's happened over 10 times now. In my group of friends there are 6 of us, and I'm the only one not being invited out. Recently I have been diagno... (190 words

Will he ever show me gratitude for what I do, or should I just throw in the towel?

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7 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I was in a relationship with my son's father for 10 yrs (since 2000). It was bad at first but after I left him in 2008 he changed and our relationship became exactly what I dreamed of. In 2010, we both got blackberries. Well, actually I got mine in Dec 2009 and he got his in ... (723 words

Do you think he is for real, or just like every other guy in a club?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Say I'm stereotyping or being stupid. But i met this guy in a club really briefly and gave him my number (I was drunk so i didn't care at the time). Thing is we have been texting each other a lot since then! And although i can't base him on texts. What i do know is most the... (179 words

I just want to change and move on and be happy, but I don’t know how to get there.

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm 20, and feel awfully shity about myself... Thing is I've been through a tough time, up and down all the time. People say you never get over your first love and they're probably right. I always knew deep down it would never happen but it always seemed obvious to everyone... (523 words

How I can explore my newfound sexuality without jeopardizing my relationship?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I am 18 years old. I have been in a serious relationship for almost two years now. I know for sure that my gf is the one. The thing is that as a new found out lesbian and her being my first everything, I haven't been able to really figure myself out and it's starting to hurt ... (174 words

BF's father won't let me stay over in my boyfriend's room. I think it is unfair.

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need a little advice. You see my boyfriends parents have confused me a little. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is going to be 20 at the end of the year, were moving out soon. We have been going out for almost 2 years and in all of that time i have never been able to stay at his hous... (299 words

I'm so full of rage towards my cruel and abusive ex, I want to seek revenge. Please help.

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7 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hello all, Please can you advise. Thank you. I have recently managed to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship. Well, the relationship itself did not last long, but I was weak, and let him come back into my life for months, and he has been heartless and cruel. eg: s... (750 words

Should I leave him even though we still love each other?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I don't know if I should leave my bf. Our relationship isn't much of a relationship anymore. Its not going to get any better. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me. We're pretty much just friends that live together. No communication no affection both fro... (76 words

Why is my ex trying to make me jealous?

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7 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. It ended badly but he wanted remain friends but I said that it wasn't what I wanted and cut all contact. The relationship was 9 months (but we knew eachother for 5 years) and ended because of a mutual friend's interference. I ... (161 words

Is my boyfriend's behaviour with his "friend" inappropriate? ?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a friend who a while ago he used to fancy. She rejected him because although she liked him she lives about two hours away and at the time neither of them had cars. While my boyfriend and i were seeing each other she called him up saying "when you said you fanc... (209 words

I know need to move on, but could someone give me insight into his sporadic behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

7 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hello all, Please can I have your thoughts on the following if possible. Thanks. I dated a guy coming up to a year ago now. All was well, until after a couple of months he turned out to be controlling and nasty. By the time I found this out, I was totally in love with him... (581 words

Is she using me as a baby maker?

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7 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Here we go, it started early 2009 wen i got my new job, i was a virgin and i met my work mate late that yr (8yrs old than me) let me call her freedom. She stays near my township so we use 2 walk together after work. So i became more attracted 2 her and i told her that i was in ... (301 words

Sore throat from kissing!!

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why whenever i kiss someone, a day or so later... I start getting a bad throat and it really hurts! I'm just wondering if this is related to kissing someone and how i am getting a sore throat from it and can stop it happening..... Or will i get this everytime i kiss someone?... (54 words

My brother told me our aunt is still breast-feeding him at age 9.

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7 May 2011 (? age 36-40 - Hello I want some help, my younger brother has a told me a truth about my aunt, my brother's age at present is 9, he was living with our aunt from child hood since he was at the age of 3, at that age my aunt had one girl baby which was just 14 months old, she used to brea... (353 words

Is there any way to help someone forgive you??

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - How is it possible to continue loving someone, even after they've been completely rude to you? See, there's this guy I used to be really good friends with. We were extremely close for a long time, until I went through a series of issues with my family that caused me to lash ... (281 words

He has a new phone. Should I ask for his number or would that seem desperate?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So there's this guy i really like. I think he likes me too. because in class we would always sit together he would even ditch his friends for me in class. and we would always flirt and talk in class and he would grab my hand ask me to give him a massage ect...he asked for my ... (167 words

Am I wasting my time seeing someone for so long who can't bring himself to tell his family about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

7 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - i've been in a relationship with my bf for 9 months. He's been living back home with his parents since a few months before we met in order for him to save money. We get on really well and laugh together alot but he hasn't mentioned me to his family yet. I've never been inv... (271 words

Duel finances in preparation for moving together, I want to pay exactly equal but as he has more expenses he thinks I'm being mean. Am I?

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7 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are trying to come to an agreement on finances before moving in together. We earn similar salaries, and have similar expenses for cars, insurance and so on but he has to pay maintenance for a daughter and ex wife. I don’t have any children or dependants. I ... (119 words

Teenage friends, recently back in touch, how can I ignite a flame between us?

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7 May 2011 (F age - Can you rekindle a lost love??? We were teenage friends, nothing more just a chaste kiss now and then. Both of us moved away 35 years ago and have now got back in touch, we are both divorced. We seem to be total opposites, he sporty and conservative, me a smoker and love a ... (137 words

He won't commit but I want to build a life with him, what can I do?

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7 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship (with a mini-break 2 years ago) for 6 years and I love him dearly. I get really frustrated that he wont move forward and commit (ie live together properly) and I voice this to him occasionally. He simply answers he's not sure and just needs more ... (92 words

She's starting an emotional affair, how can I stop her?

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7 May 2011 (M age 51-59 - My wife hadn't heard from her ex-boyfriend in almost 20 years and suddenly through the magic of Facebook he is in her life again. I have to say that I hate Facebook. The endless parade of creeps admitting to having secret crushes on my wife gets old. (I admit that I work in ... (1036 words

I love both girls more than my own life but I cant choose which one!

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7 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - Ive got a problem. im in love with 2 girls but cant choose between the two. the first girl is a friend of mine she has blond hair and blue eyes. shes so beautiful she radiates golden light like the sun and shes very nice. altho she isnt a virgin and isnt really my type i still ... (163 words

Need to find a good workout routine..any tips?

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7 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Does anyone know where i can find a good workout routine? i go lift weights but i never follow a routine so i was wondering where i can find one or if u know of one can u please tell me :)... (42 words

How do I help my wife get over some bodily fluid aversions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

7 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - I know this is a common problem for men and a lot of the advice / replies posted to this are, well, less than helpful - so let me start by saying something REALLY important: I love my wife. We’ve been together for over 12 years, have a fantastic life together, enjoy each ... (615 words

Did I pee or squirt?

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7 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Did I pee or squirt? My fiance is reading up on how to make me squirt. Meanwhile I think it's something I have to learn to do or maybe I can't at all. So I read up on it and watched some videos. I tried and well the result was fun, but strange. I had numerous orgasms, I ... (106 words

My long distance emotional affair has become cold and distant, I'm moving to his country soon and he'd be a useful friend, advice?

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7 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone! Last August I began talking to a French guy online (just as friends) with whom I have a lot in common. Well, after a bit I started to have feelings for him and he hinted that he may feel the same way (neither of us said anything direct since I have a boyfrien... (419 words

Will the man I had an affair with ever forgive me for breaking his heart?

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7 May 2011 (? age 51-59 - Ok I made a mistake, had an affair and fell in love. I realised my mistake and made a final decision to end all contact for the sake of my partner and daughter whom I love deeply. The thing is I keep dreaming about the ex dreams where I am constantly searching for him, I awake ... (294 words

Did I inadvertently influence my brother to become bisexual?

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7 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - My younger brother came out to me recently, telling me that he is bisexual. I really do support him, but I also am feeling overwhelmed by the situation. I feel I may have influenced him. When we were 12 and 15, I went through an experimental phase. And he was aware that w... (129 words

I find guys over 17 years are more attractive to me than guys my own age. Why? Is this usual?

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7 May 2011 (? age 26-29 - I'm always attracted to older guys. I'm 14 but i find guys over 17 years and beyond very attractive is there something wrong with me in not being able to like a guy my age? ... (35 words

Boyfriend was diagnosed with depression and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey. So after a really, really bad "episode," my boyfriend was recently diagnosed with depression. He and his parents and his doctor decided the best way to handle it is through psychotherapy only without the use of antidepressants. Most of time he is okay but sometimes he... (186 words

If I don't make a move I'll lose him forever, but there's a girlfriend ...

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7 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay. So this will sound pathetic. But I need help. I've liked the same guy for almost three years now. He has liked me a lot of that time too but (because of our own reasons) we've never gotten together. At the moment he has a girlfriend, and he's been in the relationship for ... (274 words

Why did the ex go out of her way to me jealous? Does this show she still has feelings?

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7 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Quick backstory: -Me (guy) and her (ex) are 20, dated officially for two months. -She broke it off, saying it seems as if I like her more than she does for me. (I was clingy, needy, insecure. She didn't say this, but it was 'part' of the underlying reasons) -She knew I wa... (419 words

I gave her oral but she didn't reciprocate

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7 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I just recently just performed oral sex on my girlfriend yet she didn't return the favour. She always txts me that she does want to but she didn't. I didn't want to tell her about it since she'll just do it out of pity which I don't want. I'm just wondering why she didn't do ... (89 words

LDR's mom doesn't know about me just yet but I thought about sending her flowers for Mother's Day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello all! I have an LDR boyfriend whom Im visiting in a few months. His mom will be told about us mid-May, but with mother's day coming up, I've been considering sending her flowers. The thing is, I've mentioned it to him and he thinks it's great, but would really l... (100 words

Help me get her back please!

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7 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - I need help. :( I have just gotten back home from the U.S Army, i was deployed for a year. and going back sometime later this year. But thats not what i came to talk about.. My wife.. lets call her Nicki is an amazing woman, and i love her with every part of me. i just... (610 words

I see him every day and it hurts so much that I have been told to stay away!

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I became good friends with this guy we told each other everything. it then became something more, but we both had partners which was wrong i know. i broke up with my boyfriend because we weren't right for each other he never found out about the fact that i cheated. a few months ... (143 words

Have I just not met the right person, or is it possible I'm not attracted to either sex?

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7 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've never had a boyfriend or even been on a date with a guy. In fact I have never had a kiss or hug off a guy that wasn't meant as friendship. As I'm 17 I just thought I would wait until the right guy came along and that I wouldn't rush into anything. But recently I have ... (200 words

She's so loud. How to I tell her to tone it down?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

7 May 2011 (? age 30-35 - My gf and i have been dating for 4 months. We have had sex a few times, and well, she is loud. really loud. Every time she reaches climax she wakes the whole street, never mind our parents. Its really embarrassing, her parents may think I'm abusing her. She has also for the ... (101 words

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