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writes:About a week ago I sent a friend request on facebook to a guy I used to see. We had a very passionate on and off experience. He just today wished a mutual friend of ours on fb a happy birthday (a friend I constantly write to and writes to me... to whom HE never communicates with on FB) but still hasn't accepted on denied my request... I would assume if he doesn't want to have anything to do with me he would have denied me... Why is he not accepting or denying me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt probably has a lot to do with the fact that I had deleted him at one point. I didn't want to have contact b/c I was started to feel for him more than I felt comfortable with. I guess he doesn't want to be rude but he knows that I like him. We would see eachother in between relationships. I was never sure what I wanted b/c he never was upfront with me. We would never talk about our feelings. I would act like I liked him in a flirty way but talk about other men and he would show signs of jealousy. We are very attracted to each other.
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reader, Orbiter  +, writes (2 May 2011):
I would just forget about him for now. If I had to guess I'd say he didn't want to look rude by denying your request but at the same time he didn't accept it because he doesn't want to be in contact.
It is possible he didn't see the friend request but unlikely as FB has notifications in red on the top bar and sends an email aswell.
It could also be he's interested/seeing someone else and doesn't want any ex partners contacting him on FB and complicating things.
I have no idea but there's so many possible reasons I'd just leave it and if he accepts in the future, think about it again then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know he's been on and active. If he wants nothing to do with me just ignore it. Say no! It's not that hard. I feel it's a game. I don't get the point. I don't he's sure what he wants. Should I leave it? Be patient?
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