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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello Aunties!!!!i have another question and here it is...My boyfriend and i are force to break up!Both my parents and his parents caught us being lovy dovy and told us we must break up! I told both of our parents that we aren't doing anything inappropriate but they don't believe me! How can we convince our parents that we love each other? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Well love can be a very strong thing and you may not have stayed together very long anyways but I understand where your coming from.If you want them to understand, show them that you truly care for him and he does for you....you wont do anything to hurt or pressure each other....
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reader, amandanash  +, writes (2 May 2011):
You DON'T love each other, you are way to young to know what love is. And of course many young people will argue and say "we are old enough to know what love is, we see it around it, we know what is" etc. etc.But really, the notebook movie is NOT real love. It's fiction.Anyway, your parents probably had very good reasons for you breaking up. Sure you may simply be "lovey dovey" right now, but it can lead to more serious things so very quickly. By the time you know it, you could have had sex and suddenly have an unexpected pregnancy. Younger people can sometimes not be as smart, or sexually mature to make decisions like that.So respect the decision of your parents. Most of the time, they really do know what's best (though it may not seem like it).Stay friends with this boy if you wish, but if you want to date and be "lovey dovey", wait til you're older and see if your mind has changed by then.
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