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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My ex moved away and that is when we stopped dating. Eventually I stopped replying to his e-mails cause I was seeing someone else and was very busy. Now we're both back home and he ignores me completely, but my feelings never went away.I tried to say hi and send an e-mail, but more ignoring and no replies.Should I try and make amends with him, at least on a platonic level? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 May 2011):
nope you already tried.
he already has given you his (non) answer
turn around and walk away from him emotionally totally now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): Oh so now that you want to talk to him he should oblige you? no honey things don't work that way. When someone ignores you it means they really want nothing to do with you. Seeing as you got that ball rolling you should understand that him ignoring you means you should leave him well alone.
If you guys bump into one another be cordial and polite but that should be where it ends. If he wants to go further then so be it, if not then cut your losses n move right along!
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 May 2011):
If he is ignoring you well then this is a clear sign that he doesnt want to get back in contact with you. I think the best thing for you to do is to leave it at that and dont email him again. If you see him face to face smile say hello and ask him how he is but dont force a reconnection back between the both of you. Just take it slow and see what happens.
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