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Should I try and make amends with him, at least on a platonic level?

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Question - (2 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2011)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My ex moved away and that is when we stopped dating. Eventually I stopped replying to his e-mails cause I was seeing someone else and was very busy. Now we're both back home and he ignores me completely, but my feelings never went away.

I tried to say hi and send an e-mail, but more ignoring and no replies.

Should I try and make amends with him, at least on a platonic level?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (3 May 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntnope you already tried.

he already has given you his (non) answer

turn around and walk away from him emotionally totally now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011):

Oh so now that you want to talk to him he should oblige you? no honey things don't work that way. When someone ignores you it means they really want nothing to do with you. Seeing as you got that ball rolling you should understand that him ignoring you means you should leave him well alone.

If you guys bump into one another be cordial and polite but that should be where it ends. If he wants to go further then so be it, if not then cut your losses n move right along!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (3 May 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntIf he is ignoring you well then this is a clear sign that he doesnt want to get back in contact with you. I think the best thing for you to do is to leave it at that and dont email him again. If you see him face to face smile say hello and ask him how he is but dont force a reconnection back between the both of you. Just take it slow and see what happens.

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