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writes:I dreamt of my boyfriend that he was having sex with some girl I know, only I don't know who that girl is.Do you think this indicates anything in reality? I am supposed to go on a vacation at the end of May and I will be gone for 3 weeks. We spoke just now and he told me he doesn't want to sleep at home and maybe he will sleep at his friend's house. We live together by the way.I asked him why and he said he cannot imagine being without me at home. He doesn't want to see the bed and sleep on it without me and this will make him miss me a lot. He has been trying to convince me to make my vacation shorter but I don't want to. I haven't been home for 6 months already, 2 weeks is not enough for me.But now, what he is saying scares me plus this dream. Before he met me, he was honest to tell that he had slept with a lot of girls without commitment. The truth is, he has a gf during that time we met but he decided to leave her for me. He moved to my current city and found a job here and now we live together. He has changed a lot. Now he is always home more than me and he prays 4 times a day. He says he is inspired that I go to church and pray and he wants to be like me. I never asked him to, he just decided on it by himself and it even surprised me.Anyway, I am scared maybe he will miss me and try to visit his old life? what do you think of my dream? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your insights guys. Your response to my posts has relieved me of my fears, thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): No, you should not worry. If you let yourself succumb to paranoia, it may end up a self-fulfilling prophecy, or you could just see signs of cheating that aren't even there.
Just go with the flow, love~
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reader, person12345  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 He sounds like he's going to miss you, you're going to miss him, and your dream came from some little bit of insecurity that popped into your head right before you fell asleep. Dreams don't mean anything except whatever you were thinking about right as you fell asleep. It sounds like your boyfriend is trustworthy, he's going to miss you, you're going to have fun seeing your family, and then you're going to get home and feel silly for worrying. Just go, have fun, and relax.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (3 May 2011):
 I don't think that the dream means anything. It sounds like he wants you to be home with him and the only reason that you had the dream is because it is what you are thinking about, not what will actually happen.
It sounds like he is going to miss you and I am sure you trust him so there is nothing to worry about.
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