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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a newly wed and need advice about sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and i have been married for about two and a half months now, our wedding night was my first time being with anyone. for the first like two months our sex routine was the same. sex every night missionary, sometimes in the morning but it was always the same position. ... (198 words)

I have strong feelings for my boss. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - OK so after some major soul searching for the past few years I realize that the strong close feeling I have for my straight boss is love. My heart says stay clear and not say anything but my heart tells me otherwise. I cant eat or sleep and its starting to affect me to the ... (83 words)

The challenge and the games or honesty and being myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know why it never works out for me with the guys. Im actually really pretty and cute and funny a simple person i dont want much i forgive easily and i have a good heart. A month ago i met a guy i had a crush on from thr first day i met him. First it was weird there... (586 words)

I have a few relationship/sex questions.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey, this is a question for the girls (and guys, whatever) does size really matter? and Is there such a thing as too big or too small? and What would you rather have: poor relationship, great sex or great relationship, poor sex?... (47 words)

Does my partner have commitment issues? Should I just bide my time and see what happens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, I need some advice...I've been with my partner now for just over a year, everything is amazing, great, etc etc...we have a long distance relationship - we live 50 miles apart. I have to do all the driving all the time to see my partner (see below) He has just moved i... (296 words)

Worried about my contraceptive pill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. I'm currently on the microgynon contraceptive pill and I'm having a few queries and was wondering if anyone could help? Ive been taking them for about 8 months now. I was told at the doctor to take them everyday for 3 weeks and then stop for a week - which will be ... (152 words)

My former friend and co-worker has totally blanked me and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - up until this week i was close friends with a guy at work we were very close and he said he viewed me as a sister. ive helped him no end, been there for him always, helped him with work money you name it. we started working on a new team together and to start he was working w... (228 words)

I still feel jealousy. I still feel pain. I still feel hatred. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Firstly, I would like to say thanks to everyone who have helped me in here. I really appreciate all those valuable, useful and wonderful advisers. Especially those really harsh which makes realise how stupid I am to love someone who doesn't love me. Secondly, I would like som... (162 words)

I like him, but I feel like he is moving too fast. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Shall I go on this 'date' with him? So I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years like a month ago. About a week ago, a little on the influence of a little alcohol I gave this guy my Blackberry pin. Got talking and gave him my number again on the influence of alcohol AGAIN bu... (358 words)

I want my teacher to adopt me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my relationship with my family has been getting worse, my mother has been sick since december,and we dont know what it is. shes been out of work, and im on crutches with a hurt knee, and whenever i need her i ask her but she gets so mad when i need her to help me.. i ask her to ... (925 words)

My boyfriend breaking up with me over a girl he has been talking to online!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am heartbroken. my boyfriend has dumped me for a girl he likes online. we live in england, and she lives in america. i cant stop crying. i have tried contacting him but he wont talk to me and he insisted its over. i have made some mistakes, and i wish i could turn the clock ... (149 words)

I want to live in Spain but its next to impossible and its breaking my heart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't a relationship question but my heart is breaking, so it might as well be. I'm an American but I'm in love with Spain and have my heart set on going there to live. I'm not putting USA down, but I've never identified with the culture and I always felt unhappy in ... (518 words)

I'm a sports person. How do I talk to "moshers?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm having a party tomorrow night and there's the girl i like who may be coming, my best friend, another friend who both like each other but they don't know that and there two friends that are in their band a boy and a girl who go out are invited and i don't know what to say to ... (119 words)

Do looks and types matter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you honestly think looks and types matter? There is this guy who I'm not dating, but we talk a lot and i just don't want to lead him on. But I think i am starting to like him, as a person he makes me laugh and I've noticed he is (fingers crossed), the most decent guy I've ... (244 words)

My boyfriend says I bring on his anxiety attacks and he needs space. I'm scared of losing him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So lately my boyfriend of three years became really depressed due to custodial problems with his ex wife and hes had family problems also. I hadn't been helping because I accused him of flirting with another girl that we work with. My jealousy grew drarastically due to people ... (421 words)

I'm 37 and scared that the man and the children aren't going to happen for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm newly single, very upset about it but enough is enough after he cheated one night and I won't tolerate cheating so I am moving on. I worry though as I'm 37 and really hope to meet someone and have a child. I don't have any yet, circumstances, wrong men etc. Can anyo... (123 words)

What does he mean there is no spark between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just found out that the guy i like has said that he doent like me He said there is nothing wrong with me but there just isnt a spark between us But my question is what does he mean spark i dont understand what he means by it ... (58 words)

Can you get your old phone number back if you change it?

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6 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - She changed her phone number about two months ago. So I tryed to call it last nite and it rang? Does some body else have her phone number I heard if your change it will go to some one else. Or can you get your old phone number back if you change it?... (53 words)

I'm pregnant and wondering about being induced before the baby gets any bigger

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 5 ft 1" and I'm pregnant. The last ultrasound I did the baby's weight was 7 lbs 8 ounces and that was at week 36. I did one more at 38 weeks and he is 8 lbs 4 ounces. I would really want to deliver the baby vaginally. Should I talk to my doctor about being induced before ... (75 words)

Is he worth waiting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with this guy for about 5 months. He cheated on me but we're still talking. He tells me I deserve better, in fact everyone does. He isn't with the other women anymore but they still hang out a lot. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but says he needs time. ... (80 words)

Heart full of hurt and head full of conflict!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in my 40's and met a wonderful man. He is handsome, intelligent, caring, attentive, and just a good man all around. We have been together for almost a year. He was still married when we met and is now divorced. I had been single for 3 years and had done everything and ... (466 words)

I'm attracted to much older, married men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I'm in dangerous and confusing territory here. I don't even know where to begin. Long story short I've been talking to a man online for 2 years. He is significantly older than me, about 24 years older ("he could be your father!" Yeah, I know.) Anyway, he is married ... (320 words)

I'm now off the pill and it has changed my period. Any other woman experienced this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I came off the pill at the very end of February and I had a period but I haven't had one since. I have taken a pregnancy test which was negative and I don't think I could be anyway because I haven't had sex much but when I did we used a condom. I came off the pill for an ... (87 words)

He's abroad and fails to keep regular contact, should I keep trying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there, just looking for a few opinions on how others may feel if they were in my situation. Will try and surmise briefly, though do want to give a bit of background first! I've been seeing a man for the last two months, quite intensely. Both of us have been hurt i... (730 words)

I haven't built up my hopes on one person for ages but he might be changing that! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4975 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a teenager struggling through this annoying change everyday so if anyone is going through the same experience or already has been, please help me out here... Lately, I've been just myself and hanging around with friends, not worrying about boys. I haven't worried about li... (209 words)

I caught my girlfriend kissing a girl, is this considered cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - the other week me and my gf went to a house party. a few hours and many drinks later i saw my gf in the kitchen snogging another girl. at first i spied and i thought it was very hot. but after a about 30 seconds i realised that they were on there,as in they were not doing it ... (108 words)

He's a momma's boy. Should I have a say in their financial decisions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm dating a momma's boy. He jumps when she calls our house and asks for something :"can you give me a ride"? , Can you come over? can you give me some money?'' and if he says no to her she uses the "well you don't love then''. And the worst that makes me annoyed ... (359 words)

Deep down, I'm overwhelmed by anger. I need help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What would cause someone to have constant feelings of anger? I'm angry all the time, and not sure as to whether I should talk to anyone about it. I worry that my friends would think I'm a horrible person and that my parents would worry about me, and they're far away and not ... (516 words)

How can you take on more, when you are already overwhelmed with pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) age 51-59 - I have a very complicated situation. I hope you can help. My life turned very challenging in the last year, and I don't know how to deal with things. Here is the short version of the story. I just lost my daughter, less than 1 year ago, from car-accident. Shortly after th... (230 words)

We're no longer friends, he won't give me my stuff back and won't reply to my texts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a fairly simple question. Basically, there's a guy in my class that I used to be friends with, even in love with, but we definitely aren't friends anymore, sadly. But he had asked me to lend him a substantialit out or he would give everything back immediately amount of ... (297 words)

Does this mean he wants to increase contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so this is probably a stupid question, but I've texting a guy who is very shy and so am I. So I am reading into everything to find out if he is interested. We have been talking on the phone and texting, though its not every week, its quite often. The thing is at the ... (125 words)

What's emotional cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What's emotional cheating?... (3 words)

He doesn't give me enough notice. What's his deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about a month. We both recently ended relationships . We have gone on 2 dates so far. Last Thursday, He asked to get together for Friday and he never contacted me until 8:30 Friday night. he was sweet and told me he missed me. I made it clear ... (189 words)

Please help. I really want a girlfriend but, feel incapable of approaching women.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody, I am in my 20s, finishing college, and have never been in a relationship. I had sex but it was not with people that I had any feelings for; it was absolutely physical. I am not proud of this fact but I felt the need and did it. However, for me, sex without ... (249 words)

I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound like a very strange question, but can someone please give me some insight into why it is that I am 17 and have never had a boyfriend?? I mean, I have tons of guy friends who have told me I'm attractive physically and who think I'm tons of fun to hang out with, ... (112 words)

I don't want to appear desperate. How do I start up a conversation with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this girl in my graduating class in college that I really like. I don’t see her at all this semester but I would like to at least talk to her before graduating. Last month, I sent her a polite email — it was our first interaction — and asked her out for a lunch or ... (194 words)

Why do privileged kids seek out the worst society has to offer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - American society is so degenerated that regardless if you have money to keep your kids in private schools and middle class neighborhoods they will still find drugs, engage in criminal activity, and hang around the wrong people. I HAVE SEEN IT! Growing up even though I was poor ... (170 words)

I'm pregnant and I am not getting along with my fiancé. Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need some help. My partner and I have been together for four years we are engaged and have set a date to be married. Yea I know I'm young I've heard it all before. Anyways he recently started at Uni and suddenly he has become all secretive. He says he loves me but he has ... (277 words)

Do guys see single mums as easy and desperate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Was just wondering what is going on with men these days, would be good to have your thoughts on the following? I'm an attractive, intelligent single mum and have found most of the blokes that I come across just see me as a sex object. I don't dress slutty or give the impressi... (122 words)

I go to private school, he goes to a public school....but I like him! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - can you guys help me? this summer i took a taekwondo class and i met a few people and then there's this guy he keeps looking at me and smilling. and he asked me if he could court me, i honestly like him but there's one problem. he's from public school and i study in a private ... (157 words)

Should I ask him to the wedding, even though he hasn't asked me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive being in a relationship for nearly 7 month now. Its being very up and down and still is, although things do seem to be settling a bit now. Ive thought of walking away lots of times from this relationship but I have stuck it out and I have fell in love with this guy. The th... (201 words)

Are there others who find themselves getting attached so quickly and if so, how do you handle it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - First off let me say that I'm in my early 20's and have had so many heartbreaks, I have lost count! I have adult ADHD which I think is what makes me so impulsive in relationships and makes me become attached to a guy way too fast and end up falling for the wrong guys. ... (512 words)

Why all the attention from the attached women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age - I work in a fairly large organisation and am a single guy, in my mid 40's, probably one of the few. Being in a company of this size there are many attractive women also working there. My 'problem' (if you could call it that) is that I always seem to receive the atten... (219 words)

What can I do to grab her attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i like this girl. She is my friend and we talk quite a bit and she hangs out with me and my friends sometimes....the thing is that not a guy has had a crush on her even though she is kind of attractive, we kind of make fun of her and joke around with her a lot and she is like a ... (240 words)

Is he really having doubts about everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I just have a quick wee question; one time during an argument, my bf said to me that he has doubts with us as he feels like whatever he does, it never makes me happy ... after the argument i questioned this and asked if he meant it, he said he didnt and that he has neve... (485 words)

My boyfriend sometimes doesn't call me when he says he is going to.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I was wondering what you would do in this situation?. My boyfriend sometimes doesn't call me when he says he is going to. This week, for instance, he said he would call on Monday, but he didn't, and he called on tuesday and he said "don't hate my guts too much, as ... (189 words)

I don't understand why he says he misses me, yet then is completely ignoring me. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Three days ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We recently just moved out of our apartment together two weeks ago to move back to our parent's places for this summer (I am a student, and he will be in January) I am turning 22 in August and he is 23. We had really rough tim... (1206 words)

She says I should move on, but when I delete her from my social networks, she asks for me back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been dating a girl for over a year now, but the relationship hasn't really been smooth (she treats me badly sometimes), i think its because the sex was bad, she broke up with me once but we got back again, now we have broken up again and she is seeing some other guy i ... (137 words)

How do you trust in a relationship after being cheated on and played so many times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you trust in a relationship after being cheated on and played so many times?... (16 words)

Love triangle sucks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone,this is my first question on here. I'm 16 years old and bisexual. Months ago my ex bf broke up with me,after us being serious. now he asked me back out said I love you, then I find out he's dating my ex gf. He called me the other day and wanted to chill, so I did... (135 words)

Any positive stories of being 'on a break'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I would like to hear from anyone who has had a positive experience of being 'on a break.' Me and my bf have decided to take a break for a month as the relationship has had a lot of problems, one of them being my drinking which has now stopped (I've started goign to AA ... (326 words)

How do I play out being the dominant one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I play out a sub-dom relationship? The guy I've been seeing for a little why finally admitted to me that he's into being the submissive person in a relationship. Awesome! But how do I play out the dominant one? I've never ever have had experience with it. I'm normally ... (168 words)

His parents hate me and I feel so down about it, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, sorry if this is a little long but i have alot on my mind and just hearing some opinions would be amazing. I first met my now bf April 2010. I was head over heels for him and was thrilled when he asked me to be his gf at the end of may. Although we had issues r... (1133 words)

What does it mean when a woman says she feels smothered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been together 19 years. We have not had a normal or regular sex life for most of it. We have talked the issue to death and yesterday she agreed she will see a therapist. (I always initiate and she always refuses.) My own pop psychology is that if she was ... (329 words)

I've been told I'm fat and ugly all my life, how do I overcome this and not be so nervous for high-school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - In 7th grade popular 9th grade boys mooed at me (like a cow to point out i was fat) i was 5'10 and 195 pounds. I ignored it at the time and it didn't bother me now looking back at the pictures i see what they were mooing about , they apologized about 3 months ago well 2 of them ... (227 words)

School reunion trauma.....my husband kissed his ex while I was there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age - We traveled far to his 50th class reunion. His ex greeted him very affectionally.They were talking as I came up and my husband never introduced me to her or anyone else. She shoved a photo of them and said she was infatuated with my husband.At the photo she had him sitting next ... (126 words)

How do I handle a stubborn ex husband in a divorce?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting a divorce and my husband does not want to pay anything and is making excuses. I feel numb and I hate it. I'm going through a family crisis and I can't feel anything. I know I should but I just can't. Is this normal and when am I going to become normal if I'm ... (73 words)

Will the pain stop if we keep trying to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to do ... Me and my neighbour shane both really like each other. When he first came round mine a few days ago we snogged and ended up naked in bed together but we didn't have sex . He came round last night again and more stuff happened. He told me he wants to ... (115 words)

How do I convince her to ditch her new guy and give it a shot with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the story. I've been in love with a female friend for the longest time. Just until recently she tells me that she likes me too but not just as a friend. She says that she wishes that they were more guys like me and that I was amazing and that I'm very special ... (332 words)

Need advice on how to handle a long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on how to make a long distance relationship work. We've been dating 5 months; talk every day; text multiple times a day and see each other 3 to 4 times a week. We are still in that very "lovey dovey" phase and recently he said he loves me. Now he is go... (207 words)

He doesn't think it will work when he moves away! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months tomorrow. Today he got drafted in hockey to a place that is 21 hours away. Lately he has been stressed and i havent talked to him for almost a week. He said he doubts it will work out when he moves. Were both fifteen and wont be ... (64 words)

How can you communicate to someone that there's a problem with our communication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i need some serious help, please. i have no idea what to do anymore. my girlfriend and i have so many problems, and i don't have a clue what to do about them anymore. there's absolutely no communication in our relationship. and it's not because i don't try. if i have my fee... (452 words)

She is satisfied with our sex life, but I want to last longer....any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend loves rough, fast, powerful sex; but I cum very quickly from too much accelerated stimulation (say, less than 1-2 minutes). She doesn't complain, and says she loves it - and I can tell, and so do I enjoy it as well, but not as much as slower, prolonged sex tho. ... (401 words)

No luck with girls and no sex life! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have no sex life and its really beginning to frustrate me. Not only don't I have a sex life now, but I've never really had one. I've only been with one girl one time before and that pretty much sums it up. Other than that it's just me and...well...myself for that sort of ... (560 words)

I'm worried when I eventually have sex nothing will feel good!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 female and i cant seem to get myself off... ive tried fingering and touching myself but it doesnt feel that good to me at all. The most enjoyment i get is from "pillow sex" so to speak which is rubbing myself against or riding on a pillow. however ive never orgasmed or ... (130 words)

Does her family history of Diabetes mean she or our future children will develop Diabetes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My future mother-in-law commented on how there is a lot of diabetic-related history on her side of the family. My fiancée eats a lot of junk food, but is really thin and exercises a lot... is there a disposition for her (or our future children) to develop diabetes?... (51 words)

Should I send my ex some money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so...my ex ("Michael") and I met when I was 14 and he was 21 and wow, it was something unexplainable. Beautiful four years and no, he never touched me or asked for anything that would hurt me. We broke up because of distance. I am now nineteen and we spoke today...hes in so ... (144 words)

I need to find a way to break up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I keep giving my boyfriend chances and he is clearly not changing .I need to find a way to break up with him ,but the thing is he is a controling person ,and I gave him to much power .He is expecting me to stay with him .To be honnest I read an article about emotional abuse and ... (113 words)

Is it too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4977 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with someone for 3 years we lived together and 3 months ago he broke up with me..we were both going through a stressful time, i started moving on and even went out on a date...he found out and has been coming over to sleep with me ever since.we go to shows together and he ... (146 words)

He said he didnt feel the same, but I'm amazing. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

6 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, ive been in love with this guy. I told over the internet that i love him, but he said he didnt feel same. Still he said im amazing. Does that mean he also had feelings for me 'someway, somehow'? Plus he's been checking on me lately. I need your point of view.... (53 words)

He raised this girl for 7 years but she is not his daughter, and now she is calling him a bit too much and it is making me uncomfortable....

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my bf of 1 year had a previous relationship 12 years ago and supposedly raised her daughter for 7 years. well last year before he met me he started talking to the daughter who is now 16 but she calls over and over, sometimes up to 7 or 8 times when he doesnt pick up and she ... (142 words)

Does my crush like me???

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Does my crush like me? He looks at me in class, sometimes does silly things when I'm looking, tries to attack me in a friendly way at break, and sometimes says hi to me. He knows I like him, and I have asked him, and I think he is just shy. What do you think? Please rep... (66 words)

My bf still chats with his exes, even though it makes me upset. Am I right in letting this bother me so much?

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in a troubled spot. I'm dating a great guy and we're perfect except... He still talks to his exes. Once or twice things got slightly inappropriate... with one ex, he made a few comments that were sexual--not directed at them having sex, but more along the lines of ... (254 words)

My neighbour kissed me. We're both married. What do I do now??

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My neighbour kissed me tonight. We are both married and I am scared to death. It was just a flirty teasing relationship, but now I'm just freaked out. We both find each other very attractive and it's difficult to "act normal". I can see this turning out awful. What do I ... (64 words)

How do you position yourself when grinding in a club? And how do you deal with an erection??

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6 May 2011 (M) age 41-50 - Where does it go when grinding? guys plz? Aright, its my first time going to a club, and all i'm hearing is about grinding. Where do you actually put your thing when grinding ?? And how do you deal with the hardon..... (45 words)

Does showing possessiveness and jealousy flatter or anger your partner?

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys, if you show your boyfriend your jealousy that you do not want him to go to his bar even though he wants to go, does that make you controlling? or does that make him want to do more things that makes you upset? do you think, when i tell him dont go or dont do th... (96 words)

Bf and I haven't had sex in 7 months. Should I be concerned that the spark is fading?

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for three years and we haven't had sex in seven months. I realize that most people would leave in that situation or at least try to to do something about it but oddly enough, we're both perfectly content. We do get very physical but we never ... (150 words)

How can my ex-bf deny now deny he ever had feelings for me...yet still call me up for sex??

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going to try and make this as clear and easy to understand as much as I can. At the beginning of 2010,I met up with a guy I haven't seen or talked to for over ten years for a date. We never bothered to talk or date til 2010 because he had a gf for 7 years. I thought things ... (623 words)

Staring at you, listening intently, and getting nervous while talking to you: are these signs of romantic interest or just politeness?

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If you’re in a relationship, would you… stare at a woman, wait for her/make your way to talk to her (but you don’t flirt), catch her eyes, your body is turned towards her and you’re focused on the conversation, ask sincere questions and you listen attentively, you also get ... (147 words)

Not FWBs, not BF/GF, but still affectionate with each other. What are we???

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6 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I'm slightly confused if this girl is playing mind games with me, or it's just how she is and i should just relax and accept this is how she is. i do find myself over analyzing things quite often. Firstly, we have known each other for 2-3 years, i have always liked h... (858 words)

Waiting For Sex : Am I Making A Mistake?

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just 22 yr old virgin whose never dated, and would prefer waiting to have sex until around the 6th or 7th month in a (long term) relationship. But it seems most men can only wait for 3 weeks. I actually wanted to wait until marriage, but as I got older decided to cut some ... (205 words)

Did I cheat on my bf by "cybersexing" with a random guy I don't know? If so, what should I do now?

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6 May 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Hi, Im a gay guy who got into a relationship about 2 weeks ago with someone who I think is "the one". I feel like it was love at first sight. However I am too scared to tell him I love him because of how quickly it has been since we got together. Anyway tonight I went o... (209 words)

Guy I've been dating has cooled off his enthusiasm for me, and now I am afraid of getting in too deep!

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6 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, A bit of background info: I was in a terrible relationship a few months ago with a guy who treated me like dirt. Anyway that relationship ended quite quickly without too much heartache. However I stayed in contact with one of my ex's friends and we got talking. We cont... (392 words)

Torn between the father of my children and my ex whom I still care for. What do I do??

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6 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a real pickle at the moment.. I was seeing this guy (he was my first love) around 5 years ago. We dated for 16 months and broke up because it turned into a long distance relationship and we were very young. I was broken hearted and never forgot him. About 12 mon... (277 words)