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writes: i have a girlfriend and she never told me about het past . she was wid dis guy in delhi in hostel he used to come here and take her to a flat and used to hav oral sex wid her thats wat she told me now how can i trust her why would she stop after goun for more dan like fifteen times but when i had sex wid her she did bleed but dis isnt a surity maybe she was having periods so that blood stuck my penis please help me im on a verge of breakup
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2011): First of all your poor grammar and spelling make it very difficult to understand you. From what I can tell you think that because your girlfriend had oral sex with another man fifteen times before meeting you somehow think this makes her less trustworthy. Is this correct?
I'm really not sure how you come to that conclusion. People don't just hop into bed with everyone they hug, kiss or findle. And it's quite common for people new to sex to start out with the basics.
If you're going to obsess about this then breaking up with her might be the best thing you can do for her. She doesn't need the extra burden of your constant suspicion and judgment.
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