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writes:I am wondering why my boyfriend just hurried to get off the phone by telling me he had an important call to take. I was just getting ready to break up with him and I had started the conversation and he was participating in the conversation with very little response but just saying "yes" "no" and 'I respect your opinion". Then he said I have an important call I must answer. I told him okay and that was the end of the conversation. It has been several hours and he has not called back yet. He just ran from that conversation. Why would he disregard me and the conversation and run away and not call me back? Reply to this Question
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reader, IAMDONE +, writes (13 May 2011):
IAMDONE is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses. I am still in the relationship with him. It has been almost 5 months since I have seen him. I am not making any more calls to him and I am not sending any more texts. I am backing back as far as I can. There is a trip being planned for next month in New Orleans. I have big news for him if the trip is to happen. I am so exhausted with this relationship even though I am still in love with him. He has talked to me every day since I posted the problem and his reactions. I never thought he was running from me ending the relationship. I just felt that it was not important to him. He has never resumed the conversation and I have not mentioned it as well...I am just backing up and not making any calls to him. I am letting him make all the calls and I am going to try to get to the next step...breaking up with him in person in New Orleans.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 Had a relationship just like this, on and off for 10 years.
Until I realized, It was going nowhere fast but that my alone time was speeding along with family, career, friends.
So ended it once and for all and started dating again.
It's been busy dating, but sure is nice having men around more often. Sure is nice!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 Ok well I didn't realize that you where in a LDR so I apologize. I guess the only way you can break up with him is over the phone then, that is acceptable. If you are going to be unhappy for the next few months well then tell him soon so that you can both move on instead of leaving it. I guess the longer it is left the better and there is no point making yourself unhappy for another few months. Goodluck.
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reader, IAMDONE +, writes (3 May 2011):
IAMDONE is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would have loved to have broken up with him face to face but he is an over the road truck driver and it could be months before we see each other again...this is a LDR. He did call back about 3 hours later and he was fine. In fact, he proceeded in a converdsation that was very light and even created a little humor in the conversation. I talked along with him and decided that it was not the time and the last thing I want to do is hurt him. I love him very much but the LDR just is not working...I have not seen him in 4 months!
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reader, cupidus +, writes (3 May 2011):
Maybe he had to get off the phone to dial 911 from a broken heart. Best to do these things in person, breaking off on the phone is a tad cruel.
Have you called him, is he ok? I'd be a bit concerned actually.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 May 2011):
I guess maybe he just didnt want to hear the truth or else he didnt know how to handle you breaking up with him therefore he hung up the phone. Its always best to break up with someone face to face anyway. If you respect him well then do it face to face. It is much kinder.
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