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writes:what can i do with a boy friend who is flirting with this girl? he is 17 and he is just so cute. he tells me i am the only one. but when we are out in the mall all these girls come up to talk to him and he knows their names and they know him. some of them ignore me or even glare at me. And smiles and laughs he just keeps talking to them. he touches them and jokes with them and he's nice to them. but after i say, who was that? and he just says he knew them from somewhere. but they are not girls from school because i know the girls there. how does he know so many girls and i have never met them before. in front of other girls he treats me like i am his sister. which i am not. in private he treats me like his girl friend we hang out alot at his mothers place or at my mothers. what can i do to stop him flirting with othertgirls? he says hes just talking not flirting but it looks like flirting to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has split up with me this last month. It made me sad. But I am just going to do things with my friends adn try to not think about him.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 I wonder why he does not introduce you? He may no realise it would be good manners to introduce you, but it is a courtesy thing. There is nothing wrong with him saying, 'Hi Cathy, nice to see you, Cathy this is my girl friend Tania, we're here to find a present for her Mom"
That way he takes the initiative, shows some respect and still is respectful to them.
But he's young, having lots of girls want to talk to him is probably a great ego boost for him. But he still needs to think like a gentleman and consider you as his lady. Whether you are together in the Mall or not there together.
And if they glare at you or ignore you smile sweetly at them, after all you re his girl friend, not them. And do not let jealously take over. As that will not help your relationship.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (3 May 2011):
 The problem is that he already knows these girls. They're friends. You're his girlfriend, but you can't stop him from having friends. You've already asked him to tone it down and change how he acts around them but he doesn't see the problem. The best you can do now is to insert yourself into the conversation. Introduce yourself, joke along with them, be friendly, get involved instead of waiting for your guy to include you. He'll still have these friends, but some of them can become your friends too.
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