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30-35,
*ffeoluwa
writes:My b/f alwaz frees me to do whatever i like, the only thing he hates is lying, he hates finding things i should have told him earlier out himself and another thing is that he is not jealous. But i know he really loves me and that he's not a cheat. Am i safe?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (2 May 2011):
 your boy friend is not alone to dislike lies or being told lies, big and small lies. Deception is another form of lying. When someone does not quite tell the complete story, but leaves out some very crucial important parts. That is deception. And that breaks down trust.
A breakdown in trust can destroy a relationship.
Cheating is a decption. And involves lies. That can also destroy trust and ruin what might have been a good relationship, but for lies, cheating or deception.
If he cares about you, treats you with respect and speaks to you respectfully and does not lie to you. Then all these things are part of a genuine relationship.
When a couple love each other there is great respect between the two. There is great trust and empathy.
And there are no lies.
These is a complete trust that you are facing the world together, and you are both moving forward in the same direction.
If all that exists between the two of you then the likelihood is that some genuine love exists betwen the two of you.
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