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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to know what is happening and if he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I'm only 14. I'm in middle school and I have a big problem. Okay, I know I'm pretty, I don't have a wonderful fasion sence, but no one can have everything. I'm not like a lot of girls, I rarely ever get crushes. A lot of boys like me, but I only want to be their ... (822 words)

Why am I so upset by this guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

5 May 2011 (?) age 36-40 - A guy I used to be sort of "friends with benefits" with, and who I still like a lot, wants to sleep with me even though he now has a girlfriend. He's been with her for nearly 2 years but he's been coming on to me for about a year and a half. We he got with her we agreed our ... (264 words)

We're losing the spark and arguing alot! I don't know how to stop it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some help, my relationship is really loosing its spark and i don't know what to do, i love my boyfriend so much and i cant walk away from everything we have together, but its just i get annoyed so easy and i pick little petty arguments about nothing and then later ... (171 words)

Will it always hurt to have rough sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I entered into an LDR. We see each other between 2 to 4 weeks apart. When we are together we get really rough during sex just because we both have so much sexual energy! Anyway my vagina always hurts the day after as I do loads of kegel exercises and I'm just wonderin... (69 words)

Why is my friend behaving like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this is not really a relationship problem its more about friends. So i have a feeling one of my closest friends is going to hve a problem with me being friends with other people, we havnt really been good friends that long about 6 month, and out of our group of friends ... (320 words)

Should I block or delete my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Several months ago, I dated this great girl, but I had ended it cause she started canceling dates alot and seemed to have less and less time for me cause she said she was busy with school. The a weeks later, I realized that I still wanted to date her, apologized and asked if ... (271 words)

Sometimes I just want to tell this girl how I really feel but I know she doesn't feel the same!

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5 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i reaally really like this girl at school...and i have been for a whole year, yet i did not bother asking her out bcoz i knew she didnt like me, and she didnt.....she knew that i liked her though. so i finally gave up on her but i just never got over her...ever!!! i ... (208 words)

Why do women keep insisting that they are fat even after their man tells them they are perfect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - If a women is always the best looking in the crowd why does she keep reminding herself she is fat. Guys dont like a bone. We all have a type but we love attention and security not to get broken at heart. BEcause then we have to show sad emotions and "that is not what guys do... (115 words)

What are women's views on foreplay?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - OK well. It is really a fun thing befor the real thing. And I know guys get pleasure out of foreplay. They like that kind of secret between him and his girlfriend no one else. It keeps him alot interested. What bothers me is how do women feel generaly about this. ???... (120 words)

Doctor proposed HIV tests to my husband, and I'm freaking out.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 7 years, but we've been together for almost ten. When we started dating, we both did HIV tests. All of them came negative. In the past 4 years we've been living under extreme stress, mostly caused by financial insecurity. My husband is ca... (379 words)

Is it possible he likes me because he insults me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, i hope you guys can really help me. Because i am so confused, and i don't know what to do. Ok, so I'm in high school in yr 9. And there's this boy and he doesn't treat me very well, it is so not a crush! But I'm just confused about the way he feels about me, because i've... (220 words)

Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very supportive but he doensnt ... (140 words)

I don't really care about him so why can't I let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be really good friends with this guy in my class. Long story short, we were really close, I fell in love with him, went through a rough period with my family and lashed out at him, and our relationship basically ended. A short while after, he started asking me for ... (245 words)

I just found out my fiance is bi after finding an on-line ad he posted!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my fiance for 6 years and I just recently found out that he is bisexual because I found his ad that he put on craigs list to be bottom/host. He loves to play on the computer when I am sleeping alot. I love him and I know that he loves me to. He says that he is ... (101 words)

Is it time to dump, date, or do nothing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am dating this guy for the past 3 months. I only got divorced 7 months ago after a 13 year marriage and 3 children. To me, my kids are my first priority. I was a stay at home mom until the divorce. I have been working for the past 5 months and able to support myself and my ... (204 words)

I'm rare, but does that make me wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I seem to have the perfect life in which I am fully satisfied with but yet everyone seems to think that there is something wrong with me. I am 23 years old,I have had years of community service, a Black Belt in two martial arts, a loving girlfriend for eight years and a ... (364 words)

I don't want to be interested in my professor.... but I am! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently have been working very closely with a professor at my University. During our long research periods, we have become very close and flirt like crazy. There are two problems here: 1) The obvious teacher/student thing could get him in trouble 2) We are both in rela... (131 words)

I have this distorted image of the world and need advice on how to fix it!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have low self esteem and have battled with depression for years. I have a really bad body image and hate the world right now because of how it has become about hot bodies, sex, one night stands, etc. i feel like women have become more obsessed with being sexy and wanting... (146 words)

How to fix something that's half-broken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are quite serious, planning on moving in together this year, and marriage in the works in the next year or two. We really are a great couple and both of us love eachother more than should be possible, but we have a problem. He goes away on business ... (494 words)

Should I just ignore him or make an effort?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4906 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've quite liked this guy for the past couple of months or so, and we talk all the time. The trouble is; he keeps sending me mixed signals on whether he feels the same or not. For instance; he's always saying how pretty I am, plus last week he kissed me..however other times he ... (94 words)

I'm too jealous and I'm worried it will ruin my relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm scared that I've become to obsessive with my boyfriend, not too bad. But I'm quite a jealous person, and I get pissed off quite easily. For example, if he talks to another girl online, I'm weary, althouh not annoyed. But if say I find out he's been talking to an ex of peopl... (161 words)

Is it normal for someone to be feeling sexual urge all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi evry one, pls is it normal for someone to be feeling sexual urge all the time? I always feel like having sex, is it normal? ... (28 words)

Do all guys just go out to get sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've dated a few guys in the last two months, one after the other and none of them ended up anywhere. i understand dating is hard, and obviously not everyone meets the right person. but soon after these guys went on two or so dates with me (which normally are quite good), they ... (136 words)

I don't get treated to anything at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My man doesn't take me out! We've been together a good five months, and he's never taken me for a meal, or anything of the sort. We've been for a few picnics and days out, but usually accompanied my his friends! I feel like I can't ask him to, as he wouldn't want to if he do... (116 words)

It seems like he's just lost interest so should I just let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit confused with dating. I started seeing this guy and we went out on a few dates and we used to talk almost everyday and on the second date he told me that he told a girl who tried to ask him out that he was already seeing someone, that is me. I was quite surprised when ... (163 words)

How can I stop cuming so fast and make sex last longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well my gf and i have had sex a couple of times now, and i must say it was actually quite nice .. the problem is that i feel uncomfortable about being done faster than she is. i mean i didn't just stop i fingered her till she came too. but i would like the sex to last longer ... (93 words)

She keeps running from me to her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a long story but i need peoples feedback because i don't know what to do :( Right so i met this girl out one night and we kissed, she was completely drunk but the next week I saw her again and we started talking and she seemed really nice so i added her on facebook ... (463 words)

Why is my nipple itchy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) age 26-29 - Hai reader/s. Ive got a problem here. Since the beggining of this month, my nipple has been itchy. I would hide myself where nobody can catch me, and squeeze my nipple--hoping it will be much beter but the itchiness doesnt stop. My question:WHAT CAUSES NIPPLES TO ITCH? Thanx... (48 words)

What if one day we have absolutely nothing in common?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - OK, so after near 7 months, he said, "I love you." I know just how serious this was for him, given his past and the need to be sure he was ready and meant it. He even recently said I should start leaving clothes at his place so that I can stay over whenever I want. My ... (161 words)

Quick question...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Say you like someone pretty early on, and you suspect they like you but don't liiiikkke you (or are undecided at that time)...Have you ever had an experience where you started to crush on someone years after you've met them or even months? Do most people know quite early on (I ... (74 words)

This guy is complicated! Do I spend the weekend with him and have sex, with no strings attached?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy is complicated! Do I spend the weekend with him and have sex with no emotions or strings attached? Here's the short story.... We met a couple months ago, went out a few times, he works out of town and we text everyday. I was told in the beginning that h... (380 words)

How do I handle my ex and her behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear readers. I have a crazy situation going on here with my ex. Basically, we broke up on good terms and we stayed in contact. However for the past month she's been smoking cannabis frequently. When she does this she becomes violent in her text msgs, and asks for personal... (136 words)

Should I confront him about this FB message or am I being overly sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys :) I've been with my boyfriend nearly 8 months now and I do trust him but yesterday on his Facebook profile one of his friends (who I've never met but who he has talked about to me) left him a comment saying '... and I'll be home soon ;) x' because she's be... (251 words)

I'm scared to lose her but she has lost love for me, what can I do to get her back in my arms?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girl started dating last year march 2009, things became solid in April, thats when life time promises started...we promised to love each other no matter what obstacles may come our way. We both started so smooth and even when hard times came we just always found a way ... (170 words)

A question for the guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. This is a question specifically for guys to answer. So guys, when a girl is giving you a handjob and a few minutes later you cum and she keeps on jacking you off faster and faster, how does that feel for you guys? I did that to my bf and he says it feels good but ... (78 words)

I need a solution. I'm having an affair with my sister-in-law and don't know how to stop.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So here it goes. I am a married man and have a beautiful loving and caring wife and six months old son too. She loves me a lot and usually we talk over phone for hours in the night before going to bed (Since from last three months I am out of town). more than three years ha... (489 words)

He's ten years older. When I wrote "hahaha" he didn't joke back. What do you think this means?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was chatting with the guy I like (he's ten years older) on facebook the other day. I was talking about how I got hit on by an older guy again (I got hit on before and i tried to get this guy that I like to help me out but he was busy at the time). The last time I got hit on ... (201 words)

I really like him, but I am afraid he will be turned off when he sees me naked.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18/f im about to have sex with my best friend whom i have very strong feelings for. The thing is, im a virgin and hes not...and the last girls he's slept with have been extremely thin with models bodies. i weigh around 57kg and im not very tall so i feel so 'heavy' compa... (164 words)

Can someone shed some light? Why do I like her romantically, but not sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been having feelings for a girl at work for some time now. We don't interact outside of work, I only see her there. The thing is I am not sure if I actually fancy her. I really like her, I think she's pretty and cool, but I don't feel any lust for her. I've tri... (207 words)

I miss him and still want to talk to him, but I am afraid of what will happen if I do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy 3 months back from a friend of mine. We got acquainted and later on we found out that we shared a lot of common, however, I am married and he is married. We both have problems with our respective partners. He has a very controlling and dominating wife, nags all the ... (269 words)

Would it seem stalkerish if I got a job at the place where he works?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, so, there's this guy that i met through mutual friends, and those mutual friends seem to think that the two of us would be absolutely perfect together. he works at a restaurant near the college that we both go to, and i just recently found out that that restau... (241 words)

If it is just friendship, why is he sad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy and he says we are just friends. We had sex twice but we keep reminding we are just friends. My feelings for him have died down to friendship level and now he keeps asking me have i told any of my friend girls about him. I'll say 'yeah, that i met a friend'. He ... (100 words)

Her husband comes home late and won't say where he has been. What should she do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who have been complaining that the husband always come late at night, then when she asks him, he says thats none of your business so she asked me what she should do. ... (36 words)

I don't know how to handle the relationship he has with a female friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relation with a guy since last 3 years, he is very aggressive. not only with me but also to his family members, so i just accept this thing as his nature. He is having a female friend who proposed to him for marriage 3 yrs back, but he told her that he loves me...and ... (187 words)

Will the age issue be there like a sore that will not heal and eventually destroy the relationship? Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

5 May 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Hello, i am a 43 year old man and for the last year i have been in a relationship with a wonderful, beautiful, mature acting 22 year old woman. I am very happy with her, i've hit the jackpot at last.....but there are problems and i would appreciate advice in overcoming them. F... (251 words)

How can I get past this stupid drama and move on like a mature adult?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm struggling to forget my boyfriend's infidelity two years ago. Sure, it sounds reasonable enough, only that at the time we were referring to each other as "more like friends" and he never actually SLEPT with this girl. Since we met, we'd been the love of each other's liv... (784 words)

There was an incident with my BF's brother and it has ruined our relationship. Please give me some advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now an we have had it very hard. he was married before before but wasnt getting on with his wife. he also still lives in the same house with his wife STILL). i have had numerous rows with him about this. thats the ... (551 words)

I don't want my friend to think I am a pervert, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having this strong urge to make love to my female friend. We had sex once before, but that was a drunken night... Now, every time she is around me, I become so sexually aroused to the point of my having to avoid her. She is one of my good friends, and she does know ... (103 words)

Should we have a break? Will this pattern continue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4831 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in need of some insight right about now!! When i was 15 I was in an abusive relationship that lasted 3 years with the person who i feel was my first love. I endured all abuse possible being talked down upon, being accused of things i never did, being choked, being thrown ... (700 words)

Am I in love with my friend's girlfriend or is it just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i really need help my head is a right mess atm i apolgise if its long but i want to give a clear picture. one of my friends is going out with this girl who is amazing. when i became friends with him i saw his girlfriend and added her on facebook and when i... (381 words)

He had an emotional affair, but he wont accept he cheated! How can I make him understand?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months and we get on like a house on fire, I've never felt like this with anyone before, everything just worked. Before christmas he was having a tough time and I supported him best I could not giving him any extra hassles and letting him ... (325 words)

How do I get to see my long distance girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I can say that I am 100% in love with this girl because I've never met her in person. I'm 17 and I turn 18 in May, which is soon, and she just turned 15 this Feburary. She lives in NY and I live in CA. I want to be able to know for sure if I love her and if she loves me. I want ... (196 words)

Does he have feelings for her or are they just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4974 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, sorry this is going to be a long rant but I need to get it off my chest. The names have been changed. I'm really confused and don't want to discuss this with anyone who knows me because friends always seem to want to reassure me and Pauls' friends will obviously go and... (958 words)

Does this sound like an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So usually I struggle to reach orgasm. I do sometimes get a 'twitching' feeling in my vagina, am i right in thinking that this is a small orgasm? Recently I have been trying to explore my body more to se what makes me tick. Anyway earlier I was masterbating whilst watching ... (98 words)

I am obese and therefore have very low self esteem and self confidence...what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello I am a 25 year old guy. I am about 5'8" tall and weight around 220lbs. By medical standards that is obese! Probably the first thing that you will tell me is "lose weight!" well, I should and I am trying right now. However, I feel very uncomfortable about my p... (98 words)

Should I try for this job again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Any advice much appreciated with this. I am currently looking for a job at the moment...not easy. I have heard about a job where I live at. The thing is I got offered a job at this place about this time last year. I said I would take it but at the time I didnt feel confident ... (126 words)

I am guy crazy at the moment and it is taking over my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It may be a tad long but please! I never, ever. Used to be like this!? I can feel it's taking over me and quickly ruining me as a person and my social life with friends. These past few weeks i have become very, very guy crazy!! I cant not notice all the good looking guys ... (391 words)

She has stopped texting me, what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I told my classmate that i like her but through text only. She said that she only likes me as a friend, and after that she stopped texting me. What does it mean?... (33 words)

I caught my ex cheating in the office! Would you turn her in?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I caught my ex gold-digging past-lover that I work with screwing with another person in the office this morning? I caught them and now have extremely incriminating evidence against her and I would love to get her kicked out of the office for good...cause she is really ... (71 words)

I can't seem to have conversations with people! I overthink!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm an 23 year old guy in college, and every time I have a conversation, I consciously think of what I'm going to say next, rather than just listening to the person and expanding on what they say.My conversations aren't natural liked they used to be 5 years ago. I don't know ... (209 words)

Finding out my ex is engaged has just torn my world apart!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So my ex and I have been broken up for over 7 months now, back in September, and she started dating her new boyfriend almost a week after ending things with me. She said that she met him when she was with me, however some mutual friends say that she dated him before me and ... (378 words)

I want to help him and he wants nothing from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i met my soulmate 3 years ago. when you know ,,you know. We were friends for 1 year.. than he took my son and i into his home. He has been divorced twice and hurt. I have never introduced my son till now when he was 8. He is 11 now.. He got us out of a very abusive home.. and ... (217 words)

Are our friends trying to sabotage us, or honestly give us a heads up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the past year and a half I have been the happiest I have ever been. I've always been happy, but now I am even happier. A year and a half ago is when I met my boyfriend, best friend, my other half. See, our relationship is not the problem. We don't fight, we converse... (313 words)

LDR Got back together after break up, now she is acting weird

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone, So about 1,5 month ago my long distance girlfriend broke up with me while I was there. She told me she couldn't handle our fights anymore (didn't have many) and that this distance wasn't working out for her. I told her I understood and she wanted to remain... (269 words)

How can I tell if she is into me or is just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i've posted on here before asking for a bit of advice on how to tell if someone is into you or if they're just platonic friends. truth is that i'm really confused by this girl, and i really care about her, so i'm going to try this one more time. i'm okay if we're just purely ... (853 words)

Is it wrong of me to think that my wife and I might reconcile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age - My wife is divorcing me after 12 years.We've had ups and downs but no abuse, alcohol or drug problems. The biggest problem probably is depression in both of us. She is on anti depressant and I only started a few weeks ago, I'm 57 and know I should have been for years. My who is ... (282 words)

I just don't feel anything for him other than friendship! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that likes me in my year. When I say like I mean, he literally worships me. He makes me cake, buys me things, invites me out. He practically does anything for me. Thing is. I've been out with him before and I just don't feel anything for him other than fri... (150 words)

A close childhood friend doesn't like my girlfriend - we got invited to her wedding...should we go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Some very good female friends of mine, which I know since we were young, were really mean (to say the least) to this other girl when they met her in college. This girl now happens to be my girlfriend of almost a year, and soon to be my fiancée. One of them is getting marri... (184 words)

Is she more than FRIENDS to my boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

5 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has a female friend of 8 yrs whom hes very close to. This send off red flags because he seems to like her more than friends.. although she is dating too but he's just always happy to see her everytime.. like tonight, he told me that she will be coming over his ... (317 words)

Why is my g/f so frigid? Am I that repulsive?

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5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend (27y) of 9 months and I (26y) have never been intimate, never discussed sex (she gets extremely uncomfortable), never ventured our hands between each others' legs. I always respect her comfort level. I feel unwanted. I feel unattractive. I don’t feel desir... (110 words)

Extremely shy around girls, any dating tips?

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5 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, so.. I'm sixteen and in high school, but I'm mad shy around girls.. I used to be extremely big into lifting, but over the summer I broke my hand and then seperated my shoulder. I'm a little on the heavy side now, but honestelly not that bad, and I have some acne on my ... (120 words)

Is she cheating again or is the past just making me uneasy?

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5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I are at what I consider to be a crossroads in our relationship, either this is going all the way or it needs to end while we're young, we are both the same age, 25, and we just recently got back together after about a year apart after learning that we had ... (323 words)

How can I help him understand that if we both work on communicating better, the relationship will be better?

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are recently having a problem communicating, and I'm wondering what I can do. Here's the background: We've been dating seriously for almost four years and plan to move in together this summer. We're both adults with stable lives and in general, we are ... (408 words)

Men don't like me, what can I do?

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am getting so wary, in my whole life I had only a handful of terrible relationships, and because I prefer to be alone than in a terrible relationship I was mostly alone. I thought for many years that it was because of my looks, last year I even put my picture on Hot or Not to ... (240 words)

Is it ok for your boyf to flirt with an ex?

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex has 1 daughter and we have one together we recently broke up because ive been told they are always together they work at the same place and a lot of people have told me he says it's work related. So I confronted his ex She told he that he flirts with her and that the only ... (131 words)

I'm in love with him, but he seems to be using me as a business arrangement

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been hard for me. I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years with a man who's much older than me and never married. I was so attached to him and loved him. He cared a lot about me too. He's been good to me when we are together. We talk,walk around,s... (356 words)

Really?! "a kiss can mean nothing?!"

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5 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently single and I'm not looking to get back with my ex. but what bugs me is I want to know what a girl means by "a kiss can mean nothing." When I finally got the courage to kiss her one afternoon after a bike ride around a lake and park (I thought it was a good time ... (291 words)

What makes me so incapable of attracting a girl?

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5 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and have never in my life had a girlfriend or even anything close. I'm not a virgin but might as well be. I've had sex a total of one time several years ago leaving me with almost no sexual experience and zero relationship experience in my mid 20s. I'm lost and feel ... (275 words)

Is there any way to know that he's genuine in his feelings?

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been with my boyfriend a little over a week now, and i still dont know if i can trust him. I have heard about his past relatioships and flings from friends of mine, but they are only going by what they have been told by other people. He has told me he's slept with 11 people, ... (304 words)

just want her to be happy. Work is only a small fragment of our life, we have got so much to enjoy and appreciate in this world. Why can't she see that?

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5 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have known my wife for 3 years and a half, we met while working in the same company. Since then she has left and joined two other companies. We do have the usual arguments now and then which we can handle. However there is one thing that I felt is driving a big wedge in my ... (671 words)

They're best friends, I talk to them both, but they don't know about each other! Help!

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy. We talked been talking for 1 and a half years. He has a bestfriend who is currently my bestfriend. Well me a d the guy ive been talking to lets call him R. And his friend C. Well R said that he just wants to be bestfriends and things happen they happen. Well we was at ... (287 words)

It makes me feel like looking at other women is turning him on and trying to make out that I'm turning him on.

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband holds my hand in public and very affectionate, but still looks at other women and teenage girls. Also he tries to grope me in public. It makes me feel like looking at other women is turning him on and trying to make out that im turning him on. what are your thoughts... (54 words)

He told me that he has missed me and it felt right being with me. I think maybe that is a good sign? What should I do?

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I reall like a friend of mine. Few months ago we went through break ups which brought us closer together but even before then we were always very close. I knew he liked me from last year and when we both became single we just sort of got together (ish) I was very nervous it was ... (183 words)

He wants me to be one of those women who cleans the house and have dinner ready for their husbands; but I have a full job with a lot of stress and responsibilities.

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My relationship is going downfall. My bf and I don't get along. We disagree on pretty much everything. He is conservative, I am liberal, he plans everything, I live by the moment, he likes to eat at home, I like to eat out, he watches reality shows, I watch sex and the city. ... (330 words)

Should accept the fears and limitations of my parents or move on with my life as the adult I am?

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a 20 year old woman who still lives with her parents. i have a 25 year old boyfriend who lives in another state. i've been planning a trip to see my boyfriend and go with him to a convention since december of last year. i spent around 200 dollars for things to go there, i ... (298 words)

I did a favor for a friend and now my daughter may be pregnant. How do I handle this and not have my husband blame me?

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5 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - 8 months ago one of my dear friends came to me upset. saying that her new husband and her 18 yr old son were not getting along. Her son (M) and her husband were always fighting so M moved out and was staying with friends. Since M moved in with his friends he wasn't attendin... (471 words)