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writes:Here goes ... Boyfriend and I been together for six months and I can't decide if he's ashamed of me or hiding something . I don't have a phone and have been sharing his complicated smart phone.. I keep finding messages to and from "old friends " that are female and I haven't met talking about getting together he never includes me in those plans, never consults me , or even tells me about them! He always plans for the weekends ,because I work I assume and I couldn't go anyway ! We talked about it a couple months ago but its still happening. What gives ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Lack of respect for you and your feelings.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (2 May 2011):
 Well, I think for starters you can safely assume he isn't fully committed to you. Because if he was invested in your relationship and these women really were no more than just "old friends" he wouldn't be making plans to meet them behind your back - on the contrary, he'd be open about them and certainly would include you, at least some of the time.....And now, you have discussed it with him and gotten nowhere. Seems to me it's time to think seriously about whether its worth keeping him in your life.......
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