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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Divorced Parents & Graduation: Advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I have a bit of a family dilemma.. It is my graduation in September and my parents are both to attend, but I would also like my grandparents (dads parents) there too as I am very close to them. My mum is not happy with this as there is a lot of anger/hurt/hatre... (252 words)

Does love trump progression in a relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, we are now 27 years old. We currently do not live together, I live at home because I just finished university, and since he dropped out of highschool, the job he has does not give him enough money to afford his own place. He has ... (318 words)

Am I uncomfortable because I'm just not used to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hve done doggy style with my partner and now after... My tummy and it really hurts when I wee I am on the pill and also he pulls out so the risk of me being pregnant is low isn't ? ... My partner is the Fairly big for me concidering I am just 5 ft .. Do you think it could ... (73 words)

Should a wife feel obligated to satisfy her husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - uhm so a question: i'm at a pretty young age. maybe i shouldn't be thinking of this yet but is it normal for a wife not to give her husband "his needs" whenever he wants it if she's not under any condition where she can't but just everyday life? Because when I've always thought ... (101 words)

How do you help someone who has really low self esteem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is so negative, I really want to help make him see the brighter side some more. He clearly has low self esteem and no matter how gorgeous I tell him he is it clearly just just doesn't sink in, he just doesn't believe me I guess Does anyone have any experien... (65 words)

Is there something wrong with me in not wanting a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to stay out of trouble,not having relationship with someone,and focus on my things. I do like chatting with friends and hanging out with them but not the kind of boyfriend and girlfriend. Sometimes it makes me mad that some of my friends ask me if we can bf and gf or bf ... (298 words)

How to get over a girl, and remove the breakup jealousy I am having?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, About a week ago (tomorrow it will be one week), i broke up with my girlfriend, she is a very free spirited person, and a very independent person, she told me i was being immature, and that i am needy, insecure, possessive, controlling, and that i was going no where i... (155 words)

If I ever see him again, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel very attacted to a friend of mine i once lived near, i dont think he felt the same about me but i found him very sweet and so very handsome and when he blushed i felt like hugging him and giving him a little kiss. I enjoyed engaging in conversation with him, we could ... (113 words)

Where did you have sex when you were a teensger so your parents wouldn‘t catch you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Where did you have sex when you were a teenager so your parents wouldn‘t catch you?... (16 words)

Best friend's girlfriend doesn't know about us, but I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! I have been best friends with this guy for two years now and he has had a girl friend for almost one and a half years and after one year of being friends with him i started to fall for him. Even though he has a girlfriend he has told me several times that he has f... (136 words)

Does body odor matter when you feel chemistry for someone?...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This might sound weird but... do you guys think the smell is part of feeling chemistry with someone? LOL ok, well a guy doesn't have to necessarily smell "bad", but isn't true that when you feel chemistry with someone, their body smell drives you crazy? in a good way of course. ... (94 words)

Advice for getting rid of hair down there

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Recently my girlfriend and I have been discussing pubic hair. She currently uses a depilatory cream to remove the pubic hair above her vagina and behind it. She has suggested that I remove the hair on my sack and behind. I was wondering if there was a special depilato... (70 words)

Does my choir director like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really unsure if my choral director has feelings for me. I've known him for a number of years and I feel like he pays particular attention to me. My friend and I both went for breathing coaching a few years back. He told her she was doing fine but told me to keep coming ... (305 words)

My friends are not getting along with each other when the boyfriend is around. What advice will help this situation improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4927 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend is a lesbian/bi (friend 1) and she has said to another of our friends (friend 2) that she doesn't like it when my friend 2 is around her boyfriend... it's now really awkward when girl 1 and 2 are with girl 2's boyfriend.... girl 2 doesnt want to fall out with anyo... (78 words)

I miss my old best friend. How can I help her get back to being herself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please, I know it is long but please advice!! My best friend is a different person now, it makes me sad seeing her like this i want to help her back to her old self. Recently a couple of her guy friends betrayed her and she's had bad experiences with a few other guys, one who ... (516 words)

We are close to calling it quits. I am asking generally, what works best to resolve marital conflicts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) age 51-59 - How usually do people resolve a long standing conflict in a marriage? What is a healthy way to deal with conflict? what doesn't go away by itself? What else is possible to do, than talk about it? Me and my husband are close to ending it, because he won't negotiate, or go f... (96 words)

Sex only once a week? Is that normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, we've had our ups and downs like any normal relationship but we get on really well, have a lot of fun together and are generally well suited. There is just one problem, our sex life. We've always been good at pleasing each... (384 words)

We seemed so interested in eachother, what happened with this guy online?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been talking to this guy online for a year and we talked for hours, made plans to see eachother, and I was seriously considering going over to him, and now we just don't talk anymore? I don't understand it, I feel like I've wasted so much time and energy on him, for ... (80 words)

Friend has offered to let me stay at his place. Do I do it? Or get a hotel?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - To cut a long story short... I was in love with a guy a couple of years ago...pursued him like hell (ok i made a fool of myself) but he was not interested...so it was basically one sided. A couple of months ago i met him. After a gazillion years. It was sweet...we went ou... (392 words)

Is low self esteem making me want to cheat on my husband??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had really low self esteem and have been quite insecure pretty much my entire life. As far as anyone else is concerned I have everything anyone could want - great marriage to a great handsome man (for 11 years), a successful career, close friends, you name it. Prob... (273 words)

If he just wants to get physical, what does it mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, This is a question for the guys. What does it mean when a guy just wants to get physical with a girl? I don't mean violence. Does it mean he's just after sex? Thanks... (41 words)

How can I learn to sleep alone and not be scared?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 22 year old woman, and I cannot sleep alone. At night I get horrible images in my head and get scared, and so cannot sleep. Sometimes I am awake until 3am because I am so scared. Or I need to go to talk to a family member or even sleep in beside my mom. I hate it,... (88 words)

Met a girl from online site, date was wonderful but she hasn't replied to my emails after the date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I was contacted initially by a girl on a dating site. Her phtos were absolutely stunning and her profile was obiously written by an intelligent but very guarded person, ie. it was witty and interesting but told me almost nothing about herself. I responded enthus... (463 words)

If they were just friends, why didn't he fess up when I asked him about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my question A couple of days ago I found out he had been having a phone relationship with someone. First he denied it then when I would not let it go he said she was an old friend, was going through a divorce and since he had just been through one was giving her advi... (267 words)

Please help! She's stopped sending me signals!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - During last semester a girl of my class started gazing at me which I noticed two or three times but I just turned my attention to some other work because initially I wasn't interested. Then I and my friend were talking about our group assignment when suddenly she interrup... (758 words)

Our stormy past has isolated him from my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age - I have been with my partner for two half years,we are both fifty,we are very young looking and young minded. We get on so well together, we never argue, he is my true soul mate,before me, he was single for 14years, so his life has been women and the internet,he was on the ... (421 words)

How do I tell my family and friends about my BF without shocking them too much??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got together with a guy who I really care for and like. He's like THE guy I've always wanted my bf to be like and the feeling's mutual for him as well. I enjoy the chemistry we share and I've never been more thankful to have met a guy like him. While he has asked me... (247 words)

Should I accept my bf's faults or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Are these reasons to end a relationship? *we only get to sleep together about 4 nights in every 2 months due to work commitments, even though we live 5 miles apart! His excuse is that i wake up far too early as he's a late sleeper and i fidget in the mornings, or i go to... (364 words)

Does he mean what he says, or do you think he just said it to make me feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all you great agony aunts, just a question, what does it mean when your man tells you he loves you to bits and i have no worries of him ever leaving me. does this mean he his saying he wants a future with me? he doesn't tell me often he loves me at all, but he shows it with ... (247 words)

I think I should go with the one I can see every day, yet I don't want to hurt the one I met online. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I like two girls but one (15) lives in the South West of London, and the other (17) Lives in the South East with me, I can see her more of less everyday, the one on the internet and I are close yet we don't really have a lot in common. yet with the one I can see more or less ... (153 words)

How do I approach my med teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi am 21 and a medical student and i think am really falling for my surgery teacher Who was teaching me for about 1 and half years. He always tries to encourage me coz am the best in his class, and tries 2 show me that he's concerned. WHAT SHOULD I DO? am scared to approach ... (60 words)

I am getting mixed signals from my best friend. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am still getting mixed signals from my best friend. I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone but that didn't work since he gets full on and will almost stalk someone until that person has forgiven him. When I want to talk to him I can't, without being looked at ... (168 words)

Would it be okay for me to see him, even though we are on placement and he has a GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help. I really lke this guy who i am on a work placement with, but he has a girlfriend. He has smiled and winked at me a few times, does that mean anything ?. He also sent me a friend request on facebook, and i added him. we havent spoken to each other on facebook yet, ... (169 words)

I'm worried that sex on the first date was a deal-breaker. Should I ask him where this is going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently went out with friends a few weeks ago and met a guy. We exchanged numbers. Got to know a bit about each other and made plans to get together. So we finally get together and end up sleeping together. I don't make it a habit of sleeping with guys on the first date. But ... (169 words)

BF looked at massage parlor/escort sites. Should I give him the benefit of the doubt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found out that my boyfriend of 5 years looked up a review site for massage parlors/escorts. I was looking at his web history because I was curious how often he looked at porn, which I'm fine with. According to the web history, about 3 times he just went to the... (205 words)

Said he wants to marry me, but he also said he had the perfect girl and he lost her. I need some advice about this relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and we have both fallen for each other "in love". Currently I notice that all of the women in his previous relationships have started to pop up. Giving him phone calls questioning our relationship asking if he truly happy wi... (418 words)

Was it wrong to ask my boyfriend what he thought of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi good people please help me here. I've got a boyfriend that i am going out with for seven months now. he does not tell me he loves me not even when i ask him. he is always busy that i only see him twice or once a month. when im with him he is loving and caring. i tried so... (197 words)

Do you think either like me? Right now it's my friend's GF and another girl I met online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i recently posted a question on here about a girl that i liked and my feelings towards her and all of the answers that i received to me that i was in love with her. she is one of my friends' girlfriends and since i have known her she has said things to me that i ... (330 words)

Should I leave the husband I don't love and never have loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My situation is a simple one: I married a man I've never loved. We met at 16, started dated at 18, we got married at 26 and now, at 33, I just want to end it all. He is my best friend, I like to hang out with him, but I never loved him. I know that now - it's blinking ob... (614 words)

Is it normal to develop crushes even though you have a boyfriend and love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for just over 2 months. I recently started a TAFE course and there's a guy in it who reminds me so much of my boyfriend, the way he looks, acts and talks. We get along really well and flirt together and tease each other ... (113 words)

He got real personal. Did I overreact? Should I meet him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - well, I've been single for 2 yrs now haven't really liked anyone since i split with my ex. Anyways I started talking to this guy on facebook well he talked to me first, we have arranged to meet up (in a public place I'm careful lol) but we haven't even met yet and he says how ... (123 words)

We say we love each other, but we are both bored in the relationship. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have just gotten back together. This is the third time, ever. And I feel as though she's quite boring, we've talked about it several times. And we suggest to hang out more. kiss more, etc... It turns out she doesn't like to kiss with all these people around ... (225 words)

I am 33 and he turns 24. He can't handle the age difference, is there anything I can do or say to keep him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi...I feel so sad and heartbroken that I have no clue where to turn and who to revert to...something someone who can maybe help what I thought would be my long lasting relationship not be lost. I met this guy who is 9 and a half years younger than me. At first there was no ... (353 words)

Guys - do most of you struggle with committment and why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. It turns out that the guy I am with and have been with for coming up to 1 and ½ years may have some commitment issues. don’t get me wrong, he’s great, we love each other and we are still together and have no intention of breaking up but he has admitted to me during an ... (433 words)

Penis size and sexual satisfaction..

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Does penis size matter? Can a woman be satisfied with a small penis? ... (18 words)

Should I go get my man, OR let the past be in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone I have this dilema... My ex husband and I split from eachother over 6yrs ago, at the time it was my fault, as I was dealing with emotional issues from my childhood and kept pushing my husband away. He finally moved on and met a woman who he now has a child w... (256 words)

Should I stick around and get my needs met without any commitment? Or break it off and lose my best friend at the same time?

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19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody, I met this guy about 10-11 months ago. Let's call him D. So D approached me in a coffee shop and we instantly became very good friends. At the time I had just gotten out of a LTR with another woman, and was convinced I wasn't ever going to be with a man again. (... (242 words)

He talked of marriage and children, and I took him back. Now he has walked out again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend broke up with me again for the second time. he came back to me after 8 months of being with someone else promising all of these things, telling me it was the worst 8 months of his life and he's lost me once he never will again. that he can't wait to make me his ... (214 words)

I want to apologize, but he doesn't want to tell me what I did wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to apologize to a man that I did something that he doesn't like. I don't know what they are but he seems not interested in me anymore and got mad also. we're staying in the same house and he doesn't want to come close to me or where I am. I feel guilty and sad that he ... (177 words)

Is it possible to win his heart back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i would want to know if i would even win my babys fathers heart back? i did soo much to hurt him after he left me cause he was sick of playing the break up make up game, i lyed to him about me having a miscarriage cause i told him that i was having problums like i had pain ... (178 words)

I want to get close to him again but I'm terrified of rejection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all, I would like to state that I am in no way vain or conceited, just genuinely confused on what happened here. I am 27 years old, I have a Master's Degree, I work at a publishing company, and I'm fairly attractive. I met a guy back in July of 2010 and we became f... (765 words)

Cuddled with guy friend.. Does it mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a guy friend *Joe*, whom I met through an ex-boyfriend (they were best friends) 4 years ago. I've always felt an attraction to him, and I fooled around with him once (he asked if we could do stuff, and my ex said that was fine.. we were all very drunk). After that things ... (887 words)

I don't know how to meet someone that I might want to go out with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I'm kind of confused but I'll give it to you as simple as possible: I'm bi. I know that for a fact at this point in my life I think a I prefer girls to guys. But the problem is I don't know how to meet anyone I might wanna go out with. Funny enough I go to an all girls sc... (126 words)

My ex's daughter wants to live with me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age - My partner and I have split up amicably. I have just heard from her daughter that she wants me to live with her. I do know now that she wants me as a sexually active partner. It transpires that we have the same needs and desires. The age difference doesn't bother us. She is ... (68 words)

I'm too shy to get a bikini wax so what are my alternatives?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so im too shy to go get a bikini wax. And for some reason I cant wax myself. I dislike always needing to shave and the effects of that. So does anyone know another way. Can I use that veet stuff as long as im careful to keep it external?... (51 words)

How do couples in LTRs initiate sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I do not have sex as often as either of us would like to. However, she is very shy and will almost never initiate (maybe three times since I've known her and once was the first time we had sex) and I am pretty shy, too. It sounds stupid, because we have had sex ... (670 words)

Is this a date? Or just 2 friends going out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I need your help with a great urgency until WEDNESDAY. Three weeks ago I started to become close with someone from my office. I am bisexual but I never fell in love with a guy before and I think he is straight. We become closer and we are really good friends now... (242 words)

I have to plan for my own birthday party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I have a very small circle of close friends, and really only two people I spend lots of time with (my other friends are in other cities and states). Last year I took it upon myself to throw one of my two nearby friends a birthday party. It was a great success, and started a ... (280 words)

Room mates 3 cats are stinky and too furry! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a bit of a dilemma, although it's not necessarily about a relationship problem. i have a roommate who's a great person to live with. she's a good friend of mine, we get along great, never argue, she always pays her bills on time or early. only problem? she has three ca... (246 words)

Playing peek a boo for a year. will he ever ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A co-worker and I have been playing peek-a boo for over a year. We do not speak to one another. This week we locked eyes and he had a genuine smile and his eyes sparkled and I smiled back. Has he finally let me know he is intereted and likes me? This guy is shy and I think he ... (135 words)

Have we messed up? Or can we make this affair work after his divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My situation right now is that I feel like am at the bottom of the pit and that I struggle to be back up and out of this. I am staying with a couple who are in the middle of divorce right now. I've been staying with for a year now. Am I a foolish and stupid girl to be in conta... (694 words)

Questions on squirting...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - just curious, from the girls perspective...what does it feel like when a girl squirts? Does it feel like your just urinating. Also, does it squirt like really fast or just dribble out? I am just really curious! Thanks!... (41 words)

Is it normal to masturbate and think of sex all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anybody tell me if it's really normal for a woman to masturbate and think of sex a lot? I am still single and i think, my sexual drive is high , eventhough i never had any sexual relationship to any man. Do i really need to talk to a psychologist about this or I'm just ... (67 words)

The good qualities I'm searching for are always found in married men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with my teacher who's very much married and have 2 kids. Is it wrong to feel this way?? I am still single and never had any relationship in my 30 years of existence. i don't seem to attract single guys and probably that's also the reason why i began to like married ... (72 words)

Boyfriend is mad because my first friend is a guy! And I think he's jealous.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4830 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello aunts and uncles, Yesterday, sorry i wrote this today too much homework me and my boyfriend, well call him S because names aren't allowed, came across my first friend, we'll call him C. Anyway here is the thing. My boyfriend can't believe that my first was a boy! He wa... (132 words)

He doesn't think I'm keeping my options closed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We are seeing each other and getting to know each other. Let's put it this way, we are in the process of becoming official and agreed to close our options..One day on my facebook, he saw another guy comment on my status about going somewhere to hang out with couple other ... (196 words)

The wedding is so close and I know I love this guy but why do I keep focusing on reasons why the wedding shouldn't happen when the date is so close and there is a kid involved?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I am with treats me very well, and treats my 7 year old kid just the way I would want a step parent to treat her, but there is no heat in our relationship anymore and I am SOOO infatuated with a guy I used to work with and constantly see him around town and think VERY ... (239 words)

Topic suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have trouble finding topics to talk about. Do you have any suggestions for me?... (18 words)

Is it normal for guys to have crushes on other women even in a dedicated long-term relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've had a pretty rough past two weeks here. My boyfriend of two years (lived with for a bit over a year) just broke up with me after a big incident. We'd decided we decided to move in too soon, and we figured a break would be ideal. We still love each other dearly. However, ... (548 words)

Oral sex during a herpes break out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I recently had sex and he ate me out while I was having a herpes outbreak that I didn't even know about. But anyway I got my herpes from him and he doesn't know yet because im scared to tell him he gave me herpes type 2 .He doesn't show any symptoms and ... (81 words)

Ideas for new things to do?

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19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18/f hes 19/m well i have significant feelings for my bestfriend and were hanging out at his house again tomorrow, except this time we have no idea what to do. everytime i go over his house we play video games, watch movies, go for walks, play at parks, go to the shops,... (169 words)

Friends and drinking?

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19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This may seem like an odd problem but...no matter how much I drink I just cannot get drunk! I started university last year and before that thanks to the friends I had and a fairly strict upbringing I'd never really drank alcohol in large amounts. My friends I've made at uni ... (357 words)

A friend wanted to see if her lesbian leanings were real

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19 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try keep this short as i can. I have quiet a good friend, i'll call J. we went to school together though we werent friends, i knew her through her friends as they were mine. She started talking to me about 3 months ago, and we got quiet close. She found out i was a lesbia... (197 words)

Was he interested, in his strange way?

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19 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It's going to be a very long post, so take a deep breath and dive in. I recently have finished my BA after a long delay. During the last semester I was studying with - lets call him D. He is a lecturer (in the country where I live we don't name them 'professor' as in the u.s)... (1185 words)