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30-35,
*3puremage1
writes:Please help me! The girl whom I love had killed me out of her friend list on facebook and ignores me in school. About three weeks ago, I stupidly sent her a goodbye letter due to I have accumulate far too much negative emotions in my head. Everything happened between me and her is a super long story. I did recognize i did something stupid and went up to apologize for my actions. I did try to talk to her and she did respond. I did try to reconnect but she didn't respond yesterday.Today, she suddenly kicked me out of her facebook friend list. I guess I have made far too much trouble for her and two weeks later is our exams so is that the reason for her actions?I really love her and had secretly done a lot of things for her. I know my actions contradict against the letter I have sent but I love her.
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (6 May 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your advice
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (2 May 2011):
 No man, the reason for her doing this is because you won't take the hint and go away. You keep ignoring the advice people give you to walk away, and give her space, and it keeps blowing up in your face. How many times are you going to keep repeating the same mistake and expecting a different outcome? I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but you really need to LET GO! It's past the point of normal at this point and quickly reaching the realm of PSYCHO!
You may love her, but she does not feel the same for you. If you love her like you say, you'll respect that. Sometimes loving someone means wanting them to be happy, even if they are happy with someone other than you. "If you love something set it free, if it comes back then it was meant to be." It's a cheesy old phrase, but it's very true. Let her go. Cut contact. Give yourself time to heal. Her cutting you from her FB friend list did you a favor. Now you can't cyberstalk her anymore.
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