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female
age
41-50,
*unnamuck
writes:Hey guys , I'm starting to really like this guy that I work with, the thing is I'm not sure if he's interested in me.. lately we have been talkIng heaps, just random stuff and flirting... He always says "oh "look there's ya bf " even though they aren't really , what's this mean? When he needs help looking for something he usually always comes to me when there is others to go to .. Is he doing it to see my reaction? The other day I went to talk to him and hrs like shut the door cos we were in the cool room, thing is he left it open before I walked in?? He also was taking shelves down and he's like watch out u might get a screw and stuff like that ...He likes to move my stuff around and Joke around with me, the other day he was throwing bits of wrapping at me and saying it wasn't him when It was..... it was my birthday the other day and every time he walked near me he would be like happy birthday he said it like 8 times in the day and he wanted to put it over the loud speaker so everyone heard it? Why would ya keep saying this so many times?Is he being nice or is he interested? he also was like guess who I saw and he's like u, I saw ya at the petrol station I was going to fill my car up too but I missed the turn !! I'm unclear of his feelings can someone help please!!!
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reader, skoolof life  +, writes (2 May 2011):
 He definately likes you but I would say he either lacks self confidence big time or he's immatureEither way he is looking for a reaction, for you to mirror his playfulness/interest maybe?Ask him to join just you for lunch or after work for a drink, get to know the real him
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reader, stmachar +, writes (2 May 2011):
well he probably does or you need to have sex with him then you will surely know beleive me then you willl know......
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): The great thing about guys is they are simple when it comes to liking someone. If he liked you he would have asked you out away from work..you talk enough so this should be easy. I'd say he is just flirting and he didn't even stop at the petrol station when he saw you! Plus he's being disrespectful to you with his sexual jokes and guys won't do this if they like you for a future girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): First off, how old is this guy? He's fairly childish in getting your attention in my opinion and that could very easily be a sign he's immature and a possible foreshadow to what kind of a dating type he'd be. His playfulness and comments do indicate an interest definitely. If you want to really see what he's about and see if he'll out my above stated first sentence, then ask him out on the weekend.
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