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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i love my boyfriend so much and we have split in the past and i hated it, all i did was cry but i think hes cheating on me. he has a baby with a pervious realtionship and i do understand his ex will always going to be in his life, but recently someone has asked me if i am still with him and at his ex has gone up to her and asked if he was cheating on her ? when he isnt even with her, hes with me. she have also been phoning him alot recently and having texts but doesnt read them untill he leaves. he still havnt told her about us as hes scared it may effect him seeing his baby and wants to make sure we are serious and going to last before it all comes out.we dont go nowere togther nomore he just comes over my house and we stay in and when i ask why cant we go somewere he says "im tired, we will soon" although he goes places with his ex. he has also said hes thinking about paying for her driving lessons and helping her pay for a car even though iv only started to learn to drive. its really getting to me i have hinted and asked him about it but he always seems to have a answer and then prentends he understands how i feel, and tells me all these things we goin to do together like go away and do things but it ever happens. i really dont want to lose him and just want to know the trust but am scared of knowing it at the same time, how should i approach this and find out the truth ?
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reader, MamaBear  +, writes (3 May 2011):
Why put your heart and hopes into this relationship? This young man has a child, and I wonder if he is paying support through the court to support the baby. If not, he should be. Please seriously consider what the future will be for you and he with his child, his ex, and his paying out regularly for child support. This scenario will go on for several decades. Plus, the child will be around forever; it is a part of him. Somewhere in this scenario you will have a tiny slice of the pie. Think this over very seriously.
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