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writes:hi kindly help me here please. i've been dating this girl i really like. we've known each other for almost 7 months. by the way she is korean and im chinese filiipno and we're on our 20's. we always text at each other everyday. she even calls me sometimes. we even say sweet things to each other. and i do believe that we had mutual understanding to each other. then we went on a date last wednesday. the date was great even thought there was some awkward moments where in we dont speak anything for a couple of seconds and just made a laugh at each other. i really feel that she really likes me since everything i say makes her laugh, i mean everything, eye contacts , close to each other at the movies, she even told me that our date was weird than our last date before, she told me while smiling that "its like there was something between us" and i replied to her to tell me what it is in a sweet way and i was smiling. she even told me that we go out again when her friend got back here from the other country. i even gave her signals that i like her too and i do know that she knows that. after that i decided to walk her home. i held her hand walking and talk about her birthday coming up and asked her what present she wants , then say goodbye with a smile. i really dont want to move on for the kiss since i respect her and i dont want to rush things even though inside me i want to hug her and kiss her. the weird thing here is that its almost 3 days she is not texting me. i texted her the second day after our date then she replied some messages and blank ones so i felt that she doesnt want to talk and like she was not in the mood. so i decided not to text her until now, the thing here is that she's not texting me up to now. i know that men should initiate first but i dont want to make it look like im very clingy. i dont know what is wrong. please help me here. her birthday is near also. is it somehow connected to her birthday? does she want to feel important. is she playing hard to get? cause seriously its working if it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011): Maybe she's also wondering what's going on between you and her. Maybe something came up during these few days that has nothing to do with you. Why don't you call her? If it's been almost 3 days, a phone call to show you care is not "clingy" at all.
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