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writes:Hi everybody I do feel embarrassed about this but here it goes I am trying to understand my boyfriend we live together I have a 18 year old special needs daughter now to me he has issues with food he soon as start a fuss over nothing concerning this weekend he was to fix homemade pizza no hamburger he left with his sister got the hamburger then I guess I have not seen any calls fix us something we have frozen meats and canned foods.When he called again asked what I fixed I said 3 chicken wings can of corn oh boy he went off I was only thinking about me and my daughter well he came in and fussed and fussed I did not say one word I am suffering with a boil since Friday did not feel good his ways can send you crazy besides that he is good mostly cooks, cleans we take turns washing clothes I told him yesterday morning that he said some harsh things to me last night he drinks beer and usually does not act like he did he never fixed anything to eat as I know of.What I wont to know is what can make a person act like this he makes me crazy believe me and my daughter she has her moments to another thing he is a clean freck oh Lord sometimes please somebody tell me what makes him act like he does about food like he wont's to save it or something Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 I did not quite get the whole pizza hamburger scenario, it was a bit confusing, but... you have a 2 year old with special needs, keep your energy to deal with HER tantrums and off moments, not with that of a fussy adult.
Why he acts like this, it's probably his personality, the way he is. You say he's a clean freak - an excessive fixation with cleaning and tidyness shows often the need to control their physical environment, in which otherwise they'd feel insecure and uneasy. Having everything under control reassure them and makes them feel good- that also means that these people are not very flexible, go-with-the-flow types , and they have lots of rules and regulations for everything , including how and when food has to be fixed.
But, regardless of the why he does that- why do you even care ? Tolerate him if you can, or else kick him out, but
don't waste your care and thought on these futilities.
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