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writes:hey people!!just want to know, what does it mean if your girlfriend is checking out guys in front of you? her eyes are always on some good looking guy. she never seems embarrassed to stare in guy's eyes. once we were out for shopping, and i was in the changing room. i saw my girlfriend checking out a guy who had just left the changing room, and the guy was also looking at her. what exactly does these situation means.?? is it something wrong with the girl, or am i too conscious about her looking around.?? please post some serious suggestions people. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2011): Hi. I'm going through the exact same thing with my boyfriend. Although he's the one looking and not me. I'm going to be honest it makes me feel like shit. So what I started to do is every time he looks at a woman I would look at a man in return. Maybe you have unintentionally looked at women maybe not without even noticing and she is doing the same thing in return?
I have now talked to him about the issue and he apologised and now he has learnt to tone it done a bit. Saying that I have still caught and this has me questioning our compatibility. So maybe you should just have a word with her and explain how it makes you feel if she is not willing to change her attitude and consider your feelings maybe this is a deal breaker for you
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (2 May 2011):
 What does it mean? It means she's not shy about checking out other people.
Is it something wrong with the girl? That's subjective. Does it feel wrong to you? For me, that's disrespectful, but I don't fault people for checking out other people either. I do it, but I don't when I'm with my GF, or at least not obviously. Still, if you have eyes in your head that work, it's hard not to notice an attractive person when they cross your path.
Does she act on it when she checks someone out? What I mean is, does she flirt with them too? If so, does she do it in front of you?
Your best bet is to ask her about it. Say, "hey, I notice you checking out other guys while we're together. This hurts my feelings and is making me feel like you're not interested in me. Am I being silly, or is this something I should worry about?"
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